What Is The Motivation To A Married Man Having A 'Mistress' ?!

[Timeis$]

This is the 100% correct answer.
Several of my coworkers at my level(executive) have mistresses and when I associate with others in different branches, they all say the same thing. I'm honestly one of the few in a managerial position who doesn't cheat on his wife or have a sidepiece.

It's honestly hard to NOT do it.

IF and I say IF you really got a good woman stay strong breh

Its all fun and games until one of these whores get upset and try to humiliate your wife/children and expose you because they get envious of you having a REAL family. They want to break up your home especially if you're happy .

Happened to one of my homies he was a good dude just got caught up but the "sidechick" showed up at his kids birthday party and exposed their relationship in front of everyone. shyt was a mess needless to say his wife ended up having a nervous breakdown had to go the hospital, his kid was all upset, and my homie was .

 

[DaRealness]

Working :yes; I have been promoted recently.

And house hunting for my new place as we are moving somewhere bigger

 

[Colicat]

..of course she knew

i hope your bond is strong enough to be all things for all seasons

Definitely..... however; anytime you allow a third party intimate access into any aspect of a two party relationship you are weakening the original bond in order to strengthen the other...

But if the two folks could careless who had their partners ear then to each his or her own

 

[Charlie Hustle]

That simp life is real in these streets

 

[Colicat]

My azz would be Suzy homemaker to his face and a pornstar behind his back. Because trust me, women appreciate some new and exciting dyck every now and again too. If that's what we're using to justify cheating these days.

When we start treating each other the way we want to be treated, this world will be blessed. Until then, let the games begin.

Two wrongs don't make a right

 

[King Poetic]

i seen plenty of nikkas copying these married white dudes ways of cheating and end up fukking them up in the long run and their paper isn't that long as those white executives and nikkas end up broke, cause sisters isn't like suzy or becky and go do for themselves cause they understand the struggle of being poor

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

No offence but as a wife what your husband does with his money is none of your business. Infact, if you found out your husband had a long term mistress and your biggest concern was how much he was spending...i'd imagine you were a gold digger to think that and for that to be your first response. And it would explain why he devoted so much of his time building a life away from you.

Infact, you're deflecting from this thread. This thread is a MAN asking other MEN why they keep mistresses. you a woman is coming in here on some 'they're whores!' shyt...take that to lipstickalley. I'm not here to ask whether they're 'winning'

Your opinion as a woman that they're 'not winning' is the same female 'hoes aint winning!' argument...take it to the Kim K thread or somewhere relevant. You're deflecting my thread.

First, the first sentence is just stupid; not according to the law. Second, the rest is laughable. Third, I go where I please.


Stop quoting me if you don't want to converse. It's not rocket science.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

That's just not true in that situation..

It was simply a case of keeping the franchise player happy..

You dont rock with a sidepiece for 5 plus years and say it was just a "hobby"

Im sure they both caught feelings and shared info about each others life...

The fact of the matter is wifey found out and he had to make the moves necessary to keep shyt from collapsing...

If it's dropped that fast. It's a hobby. People love their hobbies.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It's 2016 old rich dudes are getting prenuptial agreements on hoes. The only way you gonna get his bank is if you have a child by that dude. Even then that's a what if scenario. If he's old and retired the courts might just give him custody.

You do realize prenups have cheating clauses right?

 

[TheDarkskinnedDrake]

You should expose em

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

Niggãs rich he probably brought his first wife too

 

[360dagod]

If it's dropped that fast. It's a hobby. People love their hobbies.

...Maybe his wife threatening him with divorce had alot to do with it..

Plenty of rich/wealthy men from politicians etc have escorts on standby...Thats hobbying...because they pay their wages and bounce

A man who pays for a condo and provides a whip for years WITH 1 FEMALE isnt hobbying...There are feelings there at some level...she prolly cooked the nikka food and all kinds of other shyt...That goes beyond what your implying..

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Two wrongs don't make a right

Lmao! I know. But sometimes that pettiness gotta get released!

 

[Egomaniacal1]

For the question asked on the thread title, one word: ego.

But the real question you really seemed to be asking if why men fall in love with their mistresses and the answer to that is another one word: feelings. If you're human you have emotions and the longer you kick it with one specific female typically the more your feelings for them will grow whether you admit that or not.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

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Women HAVE to understand. When they have babies....thats real. When women have periods once a month or whatever.....thats real. Women go threw menopause around 45 -55 and that is very real to them. Men want to fukk another women that ANIT YOU and that is real TO US. Even thoe we many not do it ....cause we doing our best to be faithful. The funny thing fellas is it anit real to them it's built in us to HUNT be it success. ...and empire etc it's built in us. It's just some do it and some don't. So ladies don't get mad at it accept it for what it is. We want to fukk something that ANIT YOU....and it very real to us if men would just be honest. Wanting to fukk another women while we may have a good women is our PERIOD if you will. We just don't do it ....some of us anyway.

Let the neg train begin .

Ps. Women will ALWAYS BE the fukk-E....and it's plenty of women that can't handle that.

I won't neg u for being real. I think the only issue a lot of women have is that we're frustrated that men don't understand that we get the same urges.

Do ya'll really think we wouldn't enjoy new dyck every now and again? Even just new interaction with other males. You all always talk about how we get lazy but what about how ya'll stop putting in effort as soon as you get with us. Flowers stop coming. Romance is nil. But u expect us to get magically wet as soon as u wanna get on top of us and give us the same stroke game we been getting since this started.

But we're socialized to stick it out, so when our partners don't, it's like what was the point? It's not even a tit for tat, but some dudes will literally only put effort into new chicks they get with while taking their main chick for granted.

I'm sure men will always have a wandering eye. That's normal. But realize that women do too and if we're curving tons of other dudes to work on it with u, it's not unreasonable to expect reciprocity.

Because honestly, without social restrictions I think women would be even worse than men when it comes to the wandering eye bit...