What is love bombing?

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Y’all cannot be serious. :mjlol:

“It’s not my fault I give this person so much of my time, attention and energy and then when I pull back they get upset. I told them I didn’t want anything serious in the beginning even though my actions show otherwise!”

Are yall grown adults? If this happened not just once but multiple times, why not adjust your actions and the way you move going forward?

We all know actions > words. Just because you say something, if your actions show otherwise even for a short period.. it will cause confusion.
Yeah we're adults that's why you're supposed to give people time, attention, and energy. How do you know if you actually like the person or get to know the person goofy.

Y'all try to act too cool and nonchalant and that's why dating is trash now and folks using terms like love bombing. So just because I tell a chic I don't see a long term relationship I'm supposed to treat her like trash?! That's not how I operate out here. If I'm hungry and I go out to eat and want company they're going to come if I invite them. Chics might have called me a love bomber when they were mad but they can't ever say I lead them on or wasn't straight up with them.
 

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Right. Love bombing is a narcissistic tactic. It's predatory. Abusive.

It's nothing but a snare trap.
 

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once i realized what this really meant i feel like i am a love bomber.
i generally call it "sucker 4 love" i be throwing the love out there full force, meanwhile i be knowing that i probably don't really have plans to be in a long term relationship.
just be on some whirlwind ish enjoying the ride with no real intentions other than to live and feel . i see how this can be confusing for some people who think love should only be given at a certain level. i don't mean no harm though.:pachaha:
happy friday yall!
Translation: I STAY getting ran thru
 

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The reason why "lovebombing" is a bullshyt excuse is because it doesn't work for everybody.

I can try to "lovebomb" Zendaya. That doesn't mean she's gonna accept it.

I know a girl who claimed she got lovebombed by a guy. The thing was, I actually attempted to "lovebomb" her before him.

It didn't work for me.... because she wasn't attracted to me.
Nothing works for all situations.

Imo being assertive, funny and slightly interesting goes much further than love bombing. I feel like love bombing a simp tactic used by uninteresting dudes, shyt rarely works if you're ugly, girls will think you're creepy.
 
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:picard:my goodness i don't ever wanna see you in a thread bashing men angry at women lol. You've probably produced some of them

I would think that is their fault for their expectations. Just because you love someone or treat them nice doesn't mean you have to chain yourself to them. Point out exactly what was wrong with anything that I have posted!?

Despite what has happened in history and society, people are not property to be kept and owned.....wtf

You guys are literally mad because I said I give love. Like....think about how mentally damaged that seems
 
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