What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?

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SOMETHIN REAL FO YO ASS IN THESE HANDS!!!!
Same here. Married my girl when I just turned 22, and she was 21 and still had 2 more years of school to go. Had nothing and were kids when we met. Bought a house, had some kids, worked our ways up thru our careers. It's been 12 and 1/2 years.

The key ?
Be a man that not only demands, but earns respect. (keep your word, have unwavering priorities, handle business)
Keep your friends and family out of your relationship. (no exceptions, mother, sister, brother, besties)
Have fun with each other, actively spend time doing stuff together. (flirting, dating, shopping, hobbies, movies, whatever)

I mean theres def more to it, but I'm kinda busy at work.
All sound information; I always tell people that it gets better with time, and ain't nothing like coming up together.
 

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Nope.
Whats wrong with feeling entitled? Why can't I be my own god?

To each their own. But just because you feel entitled doesn't mean you get shyt just by virtue of feeling entitled.
 

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Marriage is OVER. It's done my nikkas, it's just not worth it anymore. Only place where I KIND of see it work is the military, that's because they pay you for it. Then once you get tired of each other, either you become swingers or you end up stuck in the military because you gotta cash out to your wife.

Marriage is scary for a male, especially the bread winner. It literally makes no sense to get married.

The institution of marriage will be a gay thing and the hetero people will just have babies out of wedlock, unless you rich and came from old money. Marriage is outdated in many ways and the divorce laws are just corrupt.
 

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The previous generation was dead beat dads having out of wedlock kids..
Those same kids today as adults, have no concept or experience of proper family and thus make errors.

I mean, having 3+ generations of dysfunction in a household, just means that most in that situation can't be helped. Sad thing is that out of wedlock kids are being born in record numbers.
 

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Options options options...40 years ago the only way a man or a woman can get sex is through marriage, women were economically dependent and men were real men. Now we got hookup culture, fukk buddies, cheating doesn't carry the same social stigma as it used to. Also not many women will tell you but gender equality has fukked up sexual dynamism between men and women. Women are attracted to men with economic, physical and mental power, most men have lost that power through economic equalisation, feminisation of men, and most men are quite frankly p*ssys when compared to their forefathers. There's a reason "bad boys" are more popular than ever, most men have become weak and most women have become men. Hyper gamy is a bytch.

Hypergamy is where 10% of the men eat and the remaining 90% fight for scraps.
 
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dumbasses who think a fixed formula is going to work for every couple, including couples that have a complex set of values and individual personalities in it. :snoop: There is no HIVE mentality.

second of all: a shyt load of men cheated back then and marriage being only confined to sex is bullshyt. :skip:

There's so many wrong with this thread I don't know where to start. :snoop: The human race needs to be wiped out by the thousands. [maybe even millions. :mjpls:
 
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I'm late as hell to this thread but I just wanted to say...

I'm not sure what it is. I'm also not sure if it's REALITY or just PERCEPTION. Statistics show that divorce rates haven't increased much over the years.

I also want to stay away from all the wild assumptions being made in here. "All women are selfish..." or "People from a broke home don't make good wives/husbands." etc.

Everyone draws their opinion from their personal experiences. The few brehs in here with no marriage issues are going to come in the thread and defend their view. Everyone else is just gonna argue things from their viewpoint.

Personally I don't really give a fukk what other folks do. If people have a successful marriage, good for them. If people get divorced in 6 months, good for them as well. That's just how life works. Realistically only 20% of us are going to find "the one" and have a marriage full of bliss with well-behaved and successful offspring. For the rest of us, it just is what it is. We're humans so we're prone to blame it on certain factors to try to rationalize why things aint work out but sometimes it boils down to "that's life"
 

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I mean, having 3+ generations of dysfunction in a household, just means that most in that situation can't be helped. Sad thing is that out of wedlock kids are being born in record numbers.

Two solid parents in the home raising kids is the way humans have done it throughout millennia, on every corner of the globe. This new age way of doing things, is inhuman and barbaric. It goes against nature and the principles of what it is to be a human being. Harsh, then dudes wonder why their bytch refuses to cook and clean for them and thinks youre treating her like a slave..its because growing up she never saw her mother do it. there was no man in the house. Where else was she to pick up how a man is to be treated?
 

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My cousin got married last year to the only girl he ever been with, nikka hit me up asking me can he room with me cuz the marriage is over.


This is ridiculous...


Does anybody know anybody married within the last 10 years...hell....5 years thats still together?

I think marriage is a good thing but now its just become a waste of time and money.


Are people marrying the wrong people? Is it just America has become too morally corrupt or what the fukk b?
As a nikka who recently got married (11 months ago) I can provide some insight...divorces are caused by a lack of commitment...me my self I've almost thrown in the towel on the first 3 months of marriage...im used to fukking and leaving hoes as I pleased so to be wit one person and not have shyt goes smoothly is really testing...many times I felt that I'm taking a loss...I came frm having my own place and a 2009 Infiniti at all to my self 21 years old to sharing every Goddamn thing at 23...at this point I dnt even think bout the amount of p*ssy I'm missing out on...it's the little b.s. dat I'm not used to letting slide that I'm now expected to let slide that I cnt let slide...
 

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As a nikka who recently got married (11 months ago) I can provide some insight...divorces are caused by a lack of commitment...me my self I've almost thrown in the towel on the first 3 months of marriage...im used to fukking and leaving hoes as I pleased so to be wit one person and not have shyt goes smoothly is really testing...many times I felt that I'm taking a loss...I came frm having my own place and a 2009 Infiniti at all to my self 21 years old to sharing every Goddamn thing at 23...at this point I dnt even think bout the amount of p*ssy I'm missing out on...it's the little b.s. dat I'm not used to letting slide that I'm now expected to let slide that I cnt let slide...

Whoa why'd you get married so young? How old is your wife? I'm 22 and i can't see myself even entertaining the thought of marriage until at least 30....
 

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Whoa why'd you get married so young? How old is your wife? I'm 22 and i can't see myself even entertaining the thought of marriage until at least 30....
Im 23...she's 20...Dats us in the picture..we just feel that we're better together than apart...to me she got the right mix of class and bright future (she work for TSA at the airport and will graduate in radiation technology in 2 years) and a little bit of ratchetness (got 4 piercings and 13 tattoos) that I like...but she really a nerd lol...she's into comic books and anime...we got a book shelf wit 200 books on it and she read them all...that's why I married her...she's really different...she dnt club or drink...never smoked...I figured a girl like that shouldn't be passed up on...the only thing I miss sometimes is having my place to my self...nikka I had my own spot wit a car at 21...the amount of p*ssy I was getting quadrupled over night...but marriage ain't for everybody if you dnt have patience...dnt do it under pressure and talk bout expectations first if you're thinking of doing it...
 

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And that's not counting the suckers that stay for the kids, or forigvr infidelity or are in sexless marriages


46% of marriages in the U.S end in divorce. Why would I want to participate in an institution that almost works half the time?
 

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Congrats, I may harp on marriage but if you got q good woman don't let her go


Im 23...she's 20...Dats us in the picture..we just feel that we're better together than apart...to me she got the right mix of class and bright future (she work for TSA at the airport and will graduate in radiation technology in 2 years) and a little bit of ratchetness (got 4 piercings and 13 tattoos) that I like...but she really a nerd lol...she's into comic books and anime...we got a book shelf wit 200 books on it and she read them all...that's why I married her...she's really different...she dnt club or drink...never smoked...I figured a girl like that shouldn't be passed up on...the only thing I miss sometimes is having my place to my self...nikka I had my own spot wit a car at 21...the amount of p*ssy I was getting quadrupled over night...but marriage ain't for everybody if you dnt have patience...dnt do it under pressure and talk bout expectations first if you're thinking of doing it...
 
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