What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?

[PrnzHakeem]

I'm celebrating 5 years of marriage today. We were both 27 at the time, started dating when we were 24.

Best personal decision I ever made. I love my wife.

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

Respect, I thought Indian men were passive little bytches. Now I know better

I think indians get alot of flack on here and real life. I used to be real cool with this indian chick (straight from india but she was well-traveled) and she did very well in school graduated with a 4.0 in chemistry and she STILL was about the man being a leader. She told me she was raised like that by her parents and that she was more comfortable with that setup.

 

[KwamePiesie]

Yo what movie is that gif from?

Peace

Thats Fortune from the movie

 

[Strike-Wun]

Nope I'll end up in a ltr but never to the point where the government can dictate what happens if the relationship is over

I'm talking about, some slim chance in hell that one day, you'll possibly be a married man.... Do you think you'll end up that way?

 

[mcdivit85]

I just came from a memorial service for my friends father, his parents were married 52 years, he's been happily married to his wife now 10 years.

I think it's pretty important for people to actually see how a marriage works, so a man or woman that comes from a stable family is more likely to have a stable marriage themselves because they know what it takes and saw an example of it a large portion of their life.

I've noticed that people who come from successful marriages tend to WANT marriage more and tend to want to WANT family more. Those who come from divorced or single parent homes tend to be much more cynical about marriage and it's benefits. Also, they tend not to have the tools to make the best relationships since they didn't see a great level of cooperation and mutual action growing up.

My best friend couldn't wait to get married and he got married in his early 20s. And he's been happily married ever since. But he comes from a home where his parents have been married for 30 plus years and seemingly happy as a couple. He's seen how marriage benefited his father because he saw home cooked meals, his wife being affectionate and bragging about her husband. He's seen how marriage benefited his mother because he saw she was able to stay home with the kids until they were in first grade, being protected by her husband and being looked after.

I think so many people are down on marriage these days because the benefits are not seen as easily. Especially, when many of those benefits can experienced outside the confines of marriage or b*stardized with irreverence to an extent by those who decry the institution.

If you haven't seen a good marriage work, then marriage seems pointless. But if you have, then a level of hope remains.

Peace

 

[Jhoon]

Women are all fukked up in the head, that's the fukking problem. Gender equality is complete and utter bullshyt, equality does not mean justice. A woman will never be equal to a man, women are significantly dumber than men but what they lack in brains, they make up in power games, manipulation, double standards and blatant hypocrisy.

Some say men never grow up - the exact opposite is true - women never grow up, all their life they are spoiled brats because a woman can never grasp the concept of taking responsibility for her actions.

Women shouldn't have independence because they don't know what to do with it. As a matter of fact women love to be put in their place, love to be mistreated and made to feel like the utter shyt that they are because it's in their nature to be dependent on a man. A woman's nature is to be submissive, a man's nature is to be dominant, and that's the end of story. This feminism/equality/gay movement is destined to fail because it goes against human nature.

I'm going to go ahead and negg this entire post.

 

[Orange cream shake]

I'm still married.
People getting married because they like each other. U and ur partner have to have a common goal and the same beliefs. Also women think marrying a go will make them not a ho anymore and that's not true. Women like married men.

 

[mamba]

I think a lot of guys on here take that saying the wrong way. It doesn't mean you should put her happiness above yours or your children. It just means make your wife happy. That's it.

No man is against making his wife happy. He wouldn't have married her in the first place if that wasn't the goal, @Sunshine . Marriage is about making both parties happy.

But, that saying doesn't mean what you're trying to suggest. That saying essentially means that if a man wants peace in his home, he should do any- and everything to make sure his wife is happy, even when she may not deserve it. A lot of contemporary women behave like overgrown children who must be constantly stimulated and feel entitled to everything.

Imagine if the saying was "happy husband, happy home." We know that'd point to being a submissive woman, a doormat for any- and everything the husband wants to do. That mindset wouldn't be healthy.

 

[Raptor]

I've noticed that people who come from successful marriages tend to WANT marriage more and tend to want to WANT family more. Those who come from divorced or single parent homes tend to be much more cynical about marriage and it's benefits. Also, they tend not to have the tools to make the best relationships since they didn't see a great level of cooperation and mutual action growing up.

My best friend couldn't wait to get married and he got married in his early 20s. And he's been happily married ever since. But he comes from a home where his parents have been married for 30 plus years and seemingly happy as a couple. He's seen how marriage benefited his father because he saw home cooked meals, his wife being affectionate and bragging about her husband. He's seen how marriage benefited his mother because he saw she was able to stay home with the kids until they were in first grade, being protected by her husband and being looked after.

I think so many people are down on marriage these days because the benefits are not seen as easily. Especially, when many of those benefits can experienced outside the confines of marriage or b*stardized with irreverence to an extent by those who decry the institution.

If you haven't seen a good marriage work, then marriage seems pointless. But if you have, then a level of hope remains.

Peace

 

[Mantis Toboggan M.D.]

Better to be alone thanbeing divorced and some smug bf living in your old hiuse

Not to mention he might be driving your car. Let's ask OJ simpson about that.

 

[rantanamo]

My cousin got married last year to the only girl he ever been with, nikka hit me up asking me can he room with me cuz the marriage is over.


This is ridiculous...


Does anybody know anybody married within the last 10 years...hell....5 years thats still together?

I think marriage is a good thing but now its just become a waste of time and money.


Are people marrying the wrong people? Is it just America has become too morally corrupt or what the fukk b?

Real talk: Women don't have to stay in abusive relationships anymore and can make just as good of a living as men so they don't have to take other shyt they used to have tol.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

I do, as long as it's the right person tbh.

Sorry the concept of options is only relating to sex. Finding someone your personality REALLY gels with and who you won't get bored with in 30 years is tough. There aren't many options for that

That's true.

 

[raoulduke187]

I'm going to go ahead and negg this entire post.

Would you like to elaborate on why you are doing that?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Women are all fukked up in the head, that's the fukking problem. Gender equality is complete and utter bullshyt, equality does not mean justice. A woman will never be equal to a man, women are significantly dumber than men but what they lack in brains, they make up in power games, manipulation, double standards and blatant hypocrisy.

Some say men never grow up - the exact opposite is true - women never grow up, all their life they are spoiled brats because a woman can never grasp the concept of taking responsibility for her actions.

Women shouldn't have independence because they don't know what to do with it. As a matter of fact women love to be put in their place, love to be mistreated and made to feel like the utter shyt that they are because it's in their nature to be dependent on a man. A woman's nature is to be submissive, a man's nature is to be dominant, and that's the end of story. This feminism/equality/gay movement is destined to fail because it goes against human nature.

This may be the dumbest post in this thread

 

[Mowgli]

Anti family programming

Oversexualization of women

Feminism

Homosexuals