What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?

ejthompson23

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And that's not counting the suckers that stay for the kids, or forigvr infidelity or are in sexless marriages
Bruh dnt listen to these stats...numbers dnt lie bt they dnt tell the while truth either...according to stats 70% of black males are either criminals, dropouts, or drug users...we know dats not the case...you have to find a girl dat like you for you...my girl never laughed at my chipped tooth lol...she just like me for me...
 

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People now have the means to act on anything they wish now. Your husband boring you? Send an message to your ex on Facebook. Tired of your wife in the sack? Make a tinder account. Nowadays, cracks in relationships are like cracks in windshields. You're gonna have to overhaul the whole thing or accept that it's going to fall apart. There's really no incentive to "problem solve" or "figure things out" any more. There's more options than ever now, and people are starting to attach values to their relationships, values that can fluctuate or be surpassed any day.

I hear girls say every day that when they find a richer, better off man, they're on to that next one. Dudes out here value getting ass and stacking chips more than spending or building with one particular person. The concept of growing and developing with one person, in a committed union, is falling by the wayside. And to take its place, we have a culture of what amounts to drive thru relationships, where we have one eye on the now, and the other looking for the next best thing.

We're in a totally different generation, and it'll be interesting to see where things stand about a couple decades from now.

I don't even need to reply. This was basically what I came in here to say.
 

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Nothing has changed in marriages, the only difference is that now the lower class has a "voice" and is able to trumpet their beliefs as being the truth.

Yes, divorce rates are 50%, but like any statistic, there's a whole lot more going on behind those numbers than just "half of all marriages end in divorce". For a college educated person marrying a college educated person, with both partners entering into their first marriage, the divorce rate is less than 7%.

50 years ago, there wasn't "social media." The uneducated, trashy masses didn't have a vehicle (facebook, twitter) to hop on and tell their friends "half of all marriages end in divorce, imma do me and get this money, i don't need no man." The type of man that enters into a successful marriage isn't scraping at the bottom of the barrel to marry girls like that--they're already married, working their way up the corporate ladder, fixing up their home (that they own) on the weekend.

It's like obesity, or watching American Idol-- "divorce" is something that the lower class thinks is the norm, or it's a trending new fad. But the healthy, skinny, well educated people making the money and driving the nice cars aren't getting divorced, they're tipping you for pumping their gas.

Sorry, truth hurts.
 

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Bruh dnt listen to these stats...numbers dnt lie bt they dnt tell the while truth either...according to stats 70% of black males are either criminals, dropouts, or drug users...we know dats not the case...you have to find a girl dat like you for you...my girl never laughed at my chipped tooth lol...she just like me for me...
Aww :wub:
 

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i hate to sound like some of these nikkas on here but its really beneficial to not marry a black american woman...most of the negativity ive gotten has come from them...its like the fact that 70% of them being raised in single parent households give them a negative view of marriage...i got me an islander like my self (haitian)...she understand me more...
 

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i hate to sound like some of these nikkas on here but its really beneficial to not marry a black american woman...most of the negativity ive gotten has come from them...its like the fact that 70% of them being raised in single parent households give them a negative view of marriage...i got me an islander like my self (haitian)...she understand me more...
I don't think it's good to trash black anerican women, the way they do when black American men are the other half of the dysfunction that they decry. I am sure there are good black American women, but black American men market them negatively. Again, I'll come see it for myself when I come and visit my cousins.
 

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I don't think it's good to trash black anerican women, the way they do when black American men are the other half of the dysfunction that they decry. I am sure there are good black American women, but black American men market them negatively. Again, I'll come see it for myself when I come and visit my cousins.
i should rephrase that...i live in miami so i cnt speak on all black american women...but the ones over here aint shyt...they loose and ratchet...the other day a 11 year old girl was in a club...what type of parents allow this? and what kinda woman will she grow up to be when exposed to such fukkery at such a young age...if you just wanna fukk some hoes then fukk with them black americans, but if you want a woman to marry, look elsewhere...
 

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i should rephrase that...i live in miami so i cnt speak on all black american women...but the ones over here aint shyt...they loose and ratchet...the other day a 11 year old girl was in a club...what type of parents allow this? and what kinda woman will she grow up to be when exposed to such fukkery at such a young age...if you just wanna fukk some hoes then fukk with them black americans, but if you want a woman to marry, look elsewhere...
I am a woman, just to clarify.
 

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i should rephrase that...i live in miami so i cnt speak on all black american women...but the ones over here aint shyt...they loose and ratchet...the other day a 11 year old girl was in a club...what type of parents allow this? and what kinda woman will she grow up to be when exposed to such fukkery at such a young age...if you just wanna fukk some hoes then fukk with them black americans, but if you want a woman to marry, look elsewhere...
This racist jew is still acting black on here :wtf:
I swear this site has no moderation :snoop:
 
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