What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?

[Jhoon]

If your money aint right dont even try it

Money problems is why alot of marriages dont last

And not to mention people change

like i said a couple posts back: women aren't going to marry you if youre broke. that's why these guys are mad. they've inadvertently admitted they are broke.

 

[Wild self]

is the decline of humanity a revelation to you?

Yeah, through unrealistic expectations from marriage and selfishness. Building relationships through rough times makes the best times of a person's life. To skip that and just have the finished product all the time is the worst thing that a person can do.

 

[Wild self]

like i said a couple posts back: women aren't going to marry you if youre broke. that's why these guys are mad. they've inadvertently admitted they are broke.

I ain't broke, but God be damned if a woman takes half of my shyt that I worked hard for

 

[mamba]

Females wanting to be a man
Females not respecting their man.

No lie, I overheard my supervisor on the phone(he's Indian) and he was like " Shut up bytch, have my shyt cooked by the time I get home", she was on speaker and all I heard was a faint voice go "Yes Dear".


I'll never forget that day. They've been happily married for 20 yrs

Indian brehs are torchbearers for this HOH shyt, breh. They been on that shyt for centuries on centuries on centuries.

 

[mamba]

People now have the means to act on anything they wish now. Your husband boring you? Send an message to your ex on Facebook. Tired of your wife in the sack? Make a tinder account. Nowadays, cracks in relationships are like cracks in windshields. You're gonna have to overhaul the whole thing or accept that it's going to fall apart. There's really no incentive to "problem solve" or "figure things out" any more. There's more options than ever now, and people are starting to attach values to their relationships, values that can fluctuate or be surpassed any day.

I hear girls say every day that when they find a richer, better off man, they're on to that next one. Dudes out here value getting ass and stacking chips more than spending or building with one particular person. The concept of growing and developing with one person, in a committed union, is falling by the wayside. And to take its place, we have a culture of what amounts to drive thru relationships, where we have one eye on the now, and the other looking for the next best thing.

We're in a totally different generation, and it'll be interesting to see where things stand about a couple decades from now.

Things are going to be so fukked up, breh. The future doesn't look good.

 

[Bboystyle]

been with my wife for 8 years,married for 3.

 

[mamba]

how is that bs?

It's so weird how you guys are so against making your wife happy?

No one is against making the wife happy. It's about not placing her happiness above the man's and the rest of the family's.

Everybody should be happy.

A woman throwing fits and acting like a child shouldn't be rewarded with happiness.

 

[Music Fiend]

That is a big thing about this generation is that they want the finished product NOW and don't appreciate shyt. Women on this forum shyt on men that are working on their degree/ learning a skill/ etc. and chasing the nikka that appears to be rich with swag. Like the club scene where the bird bytches chase the nikka that is having fun and driving that flashy car.

Exactly. I dont even believe thats ita just cuz we're conditioned to wamt things now. Byt just that cats dont even know what hard work is. Nvm knowing working hard for someone else, dudes dont know how to grund for themselves.

All we know is chasing. Once we reach it. Its chase sonething else.

 

[Wild self]

Exactly. I dont even believe thats ita just cuz we're conditioned to wamt things now. Byt just that cats dont even know what hard work is. Nvm knowing working hard for someone else, dudes dont know how to grund for themselves.

All we know is chasing. Once we reach it. Its chase sonething else.

I see it all the time at work when the younger cats in their early 20s are just lazy and refuse to improve themselves. Like,they think about getting high and chasing bytches. They don't believe in building anything these days.

 

[Killer Instinct]

women want the traditional role of a man (protector, provider etc.....)
but have no interest in playing their role (submissive etc...)

A huge reason.
Hell, I read it all the time from select females on this board alone.
Just narcissistic and "what can you do for me," type of mindsets.

 

[THOT CATALOG]

Marriage is promoted on buzzfeed / disney movies / etc. to girls as some sort of magical event when really it's just the next step of a relationship. Before you get married, you can walk away from a bad relationship without much consequence. Once you're married, people keep this same mentality of quitting when it gets hard without realizing what marriage means.

I'm saying this from a 22 year old point of view...

 

[Wild self]

A huge reason.
Hell, I read it all the time from select females on this board alone.
Just narcissistic and "what can you do for me," type of mindsets.

These hoes feel themselves too much on here when they have a couple of ass and titty pics, feeling like they wifey material.

They gonna be baby mammas.

 

[Michael9100]

 

[mamba]

Most of these women outchea aren't worthy of being a wife, brehs. That just want that wedding date.

I'd never wife up a chick who is on that social media shyt too heavy.

 

[mamba]

like i said a couple posts back: women aren't going to marry you if youre broke. that's why these guys are mad. they've inadvertently admitted they are broke.

We're in the age of equality. Men have been marrying broke women for thousands of years. Why wouldn't a woman marry a man who makes less? We're in the age of women doing what men have done, right?

Shouldn't she be able to carry more of the financial load, if she has it, if it's really about love?