What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?

Wild self

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As someone getting married in 8 weeks I can see why men aren't staying with women longer. Sorry but most women of today are trash and that's the honest truth. Women have changed not men.

If you are lucky enough to find a woman untainted by Western garbage, marry her but the rest ? they're not worth your time....

At least you see the truth. Most simps let the media brainwash them and let their woman boss them around. :mjlol:
 

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LOL how you expect to hold a decent household when your mother is "free" from your father's rule of order? You let your woman run wild and disrespect you and split shyt down the middle? :scust:
Where do you guys get the idea that my wife slaps me in the back of my head upon seeing me at the breakfast table to loosen my grip on the last eggo waffle? What is this disrespect you guys keep on mentioning?
 

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Know your range I guess. Better to marry a chick thats alright, and has a good head on her shoulders and come from a good family. Then marry social media chicks

Guys can't be lazy in the relationship it requires effort on both parts
 

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All my college educated friends are in their mid to late 30s and getting married.

I'm 26 and engaged. ..didn't set a date yet :mjpls:

I want to take my time, man.
 

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Where do you guys get the idea that my wife slaps me in the back of my head upon seeing me at the breakfast table to loosen my grip on the last eggo waffle? What is this disrespect you guys keep on mentioning?

When women say they want 50/50, they are doing it for their own selfish benefit. Ask your wife if she can do 50/50 on the yard work and fixing the car, and see her reaction. Women want to work less and benefit more, and that is why heterosexual marriages are ending early and marriage rates are plummeting because smart men don't marry worthless women that disrespect them and question everything. If a woman doesn't serve you out of love and submit to you, then she isn't worth marrying.
 

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pre-nups protecting a man's asset BEFORE marriage are now being thrown out of court.
Clearly there is something wrong with the laws.

The marriage rate will keep dropping because most men are smartening up

Not just that, but if any brehs in here have women in their family and they don't respect men they are marrying, it is partially your fault for them running and acting wild and not teaching them humility. Women (of my mother's side) in the family don't disrespect men because her father, my maternal grandfather, taught them to respect men that work hard.

Women today are growing up in dysfunctional households and spreading that disease to rational minded people.
 

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People are lazier than ever. Everybody wants what they want without working on themselves.

The end.

I agree. Problem is, the media only focuses on a few bad men and never on the lazy women that refuse to work.
 

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Many reasons.

In a generation where taboo is now pop culture.
Don't know how to communicate... Don't care to learn.
In a generation where people can reinvent themselves every year
No one knows themselves anymore
It's not even that they don't wanna work, they don't know how
A huge one, everyone is in everyone's business! Brush fb and twitter are crazy,airing out dirty laundry. She texting her friends all day about what you aren't. Her friends saying she can do better.

Most people these days hate themselves. Anyone who doesn't hate them, they feel empty around and unworthy.


Most importantly ppl are narcissistic. Thinking they can do Bette when it may not be the case.

Also. Women in particular can't stand a dude without experience. So the young dudes spending time with their chicks instead of being out and about. Eventually she gets bored because he's not a catch anymore. He spends less time with friends so he has a smaller circle.

Women don't realize men are lone wolves to begin with. We congregate and what not, but I'm not talking to my boys all day. He'll idk what some of empty even do on a daily basis. There's not much emotional value for dudes.

There's a filter for everything. Things aren't good at home but we're gonna post pics of us together so you can be jealous of what I have. Then just like that, "that dude or chick ain't ish".... u just be scratching ya head like "she was just posting how much she was in...."
 

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Many reasons.

In a generation where taboo is now pop culture.
Don't know how to communicate... Don't care to learn.
In a generation where people can reinvent themselves every year
No one knows themselves anymore
It's not even that they don't wanna work, they don't know how
A huge one, everyone is in everyone's business! Brush fb and twitter are crazy,airing out dirty laundry. She texting her friends all day about what you aren't. Her friends saying she can do better.

Most people these days hate themselves. Anyone who doesn't hate them, they feel empty around and unworthy.


Most importantly ppl are narcissistic. Thinking they can do Bette when it may not be the case.

Also. Women in particular can't stand a dude without experience. So the young dudes spending time with their chicks instead of being out and about. Eventually she gets bored because he's not a catch anymore. He spends less time with friends so he has a smaller circle.

Women don't realize men are lone wolves to begin with. We congregate and what not, but I'm not talking to my boys all day. He'll idk what some of empty even do on a daily basis. There's not much emotional value for dudes.

There's a filter for everything. Things aren't good at home but we're gonna post pics of us together so you can be jealous of what I have. Then just like that, "that dude or chick ain't ish".... u just be scratching ya head like "she was just posting how much she was in...."

That is a big thing about this generation is that they want the finished product NOW and don't appreciate shyt. Women on this forum shyt on men that are working on their degree/ learning a skill/ etc. and chasing the nikka that appears to be rich with swag. Like the club scene where the bird bytches chase the nikka that is having fun and driving that flashy car.
 

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the internet. microwave generation. Everything comes and goes fast. I wonder if marriage is going to be able to adapt to modern times or if it will go like a home phone.
you say it like evolving is a bad thing. do you think your grandparents looked at their parents and wondered how they could use a telegraph?
 

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That is a big thing about this generation is that they want the finished product NOW and don't appreciate shyt. Women on this forum shyt on men that are working on their degree/ learning a skill/ etc. and chasing the nikka that appears to be rich with swag. Like the club scene where the bird bytches chase the nikka that is having fun and driving that flashy car.
is that a bad thing?
 
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