Many reasons.
In a generation where taboo is now pop culture.
Don't know how to communicate... Don't care to learn.
In a generation where people can reinvent themselves every year
No one knows themselves anymore
It's not even that they don't wanna work, they don't know how
A huge one, everyone is in everyone's business! Brush fb and twitter are crazy,airing out dirty laundry. She texting her friends all day about what you aren't. Her friends saying she can do better.
Most people these days hate themselves. Anyone who doesn't hate them, they feel empty around and unworthy.
Most importantly ppl are narcissistic. Thinking they can do Bette when it may not be the case.
Also. Women in particular can't stand a dude without experience. So the young dudes spending time with their chicks instead of being out and about. Eventually she gets bored because he's not a catch anymore. He spends less time with friends so he has a smaller circle.
Women don't realize men are lone wolves to begin with. We congregate and what not, but I'm not talking to my boys all day. He'll idk what some of empty even do on a daily basis. There's not much emotional value for dudes.
There's a filter for everything. Things aren't good at home but we're gonna post pics of us together so you can be jealous of what I have. Then just like that, "that dude or chick ain't ish".... u just be scratching ya head like "she was just posting how much she was in...."