Unbothered
ELEVATING to HIGHER LEVELS with POSITIVE VIBES ✨
So, long story short, there's this woman I've had for about two months. We used to talk and text pretty much every day, from early morning till bedtime. A few weeks ago, y'know, she started going on dates with this guy, and recently, about a week ago, it got serious. Congrats to her, but since then, she claimed we couldn't be friends anymore; last Wednesday night, she said it'd be the last time we'd talk, but I guess she was bluffing since we've been talking, very brief, tho, since that night.
That low-key hurt because she's a nice woman, and we both vibe well, y'know, talking about the real deep introspective type of shyt, but despite that still, she'll answer my calls (sounding like an a$$hole tryna rush me off the phone, they don't live together so how would he know she's talking to other guy friends) and respond to my texts despite her boyfriend telling her she can't talk to no other guys, even as friends. I feel he's controlling her, but she's all lovestruck by this dude, and when I tried to give her a hint, she caught a little attitude.
She said she made the same rules for him, not having any female friends, but I'm a man, and bruhs, we all know there are always a few women we stay close to whether we're in a relationship or not because that's just what we do, 9/10 we're not shutting out every woman we know (platonically) for one woman unless we're married but not just in the beginning of dating, that's a bit extreme.
I've been in numerous relationships, and I've never had a woman tell me to ditch all my female friends, and I've never made a requirement for a woman to throw away all her guy friends just for me. So I'm kinda new to this dynamic because most of my relationships in the past and currently have always been where we'd have the freedom to have friends, male or female. I know how important having friends is, so I'd never make someone choose me over them; I believe there's room for both.
This was the post I made on Facebook that Wednesday night in response to her telling me we couldn't be friends anymore cause of her boyfriend, that's how I feel about the topic.
What do you guys think
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That low-key hurt because she's a nice woman, and we both vibe well, y'know, talking about the real deep introspective type of shyt, but despite that still, she'll answer my calls (sounding like an a$$hole tryna rush me off the phone, they don't live together so how would he know she's talking to other guy friends) and respond to my texts despite her boyfriend telling her she can't talk to no other guys, even as friends. I feel he's controlling her, but she's all lovestruck by this dude, and when I tried to give her a hint, she caught a little attitude.
She said she made the same rules for him, not having any female friends, but I'm a man, and bruhs, we all know there are always a few women we stay close to whether we're in a relationship or not because that's just what we do, 9/10 we're not shutting out every woman we know (platonically) for one woman unless we're married but not just in the beginning of dating, that's a bit extreme.
I've been in numerous relationships, and I've never had a woman tell me to ditch all my female friends, and I've never made a requirement for a woman to throw away all her guy friends just for me. So I'm kinda new to this dynamic because most of my relationships in the past and currently have always been where we'd have the freedom to have friends, male or female. I know how important having friends is, so I'd never make someone choose me over them; I believe there's room for both.
This was the post I made on Facebook that Wednesday night in response to her telling me we couldn't be friends anymore cause of her boyfriend, that's how I feel about the topic.
What do you guys think
?
the fukk
