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TLR Is Mental Poison

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Ok seriously stop quoting me. You have gone from someone giving constructive criticism to personal attacking, plus you act too much like a simp. Good day...peace
O yea u are definitely going to do well running away from anything that challenges your world view. Clearly the way u think has been working for u, u get no buns and hate women. Why would u ever want to change
 

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O yea u are definitely going to do well running away from anything that challenges your world view. Clearly the way u think has been working for u, u get no buns and hate women. Why would u ever want to change

Not kissing women ass doesn't mean i hate them. You need to learn to differentiate between the two.
 

TLR Is Mental Poison

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Not kissing women ass doesn't mean i hate them. You need to learn to differentiate between the two.
You are mistaking not blaming women for your inadequacies as kissing their ass. There are plenty of thots and generally worthless women, but none of them have anything to do with your inability to have any success with them in general.
 

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-Stop the look down/mean mug thing when passing by someone you don't know.. Lets say hello/hi to one another. My new thing is greeting people whether I know them or not. Say hi to random females as well. Not really getting at them but being cordial.

-Take accountability for your actions. Man up, make things right, and keep it moving. We all make mistakes.

-Realize unlike in television, music, and movies nothing is overnight. You have to work for it. Grind it out to get where you want in life. Sacrifice. You might have to put your social life on hold for a few months to clear a few hurdles.

-Save money and stop trying to impress strangers and people who don't give two sh*ts about you.

-Stop suppressing our smarts and dumbing down when around certain crowds. We got to stop that sh*t.

-be careful with the tattoos all over the place. If you don't have your own business, drive trucks, work at home, etc you might not be discriminated against with excessive tats
 

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No, keeping it real would be accepting some level of personal responsibility for the outcomes of your life.

What you are doing is projecting your failures onto society and the world around you instead of owning them and learning from them.

Not to mention hanging your hat on the oldest white supremacist memes in the book. Most black men aren't "thugs" and don't "carry themselves like they are out of a rap video", yet most black men are dating and date black women. So not only is your line of thinking racist, it's not even rooted in reality.

What you don't realize, the biggest tragedy with self-proclaimed "nice guys" like you, is this self-defeating attitude and self-victimization is obvious to everyone you meet. As long as you believe this bullshyt you will never succeed with women. So if you want to be a walking pity party nobody but other pity party dry dikk dudes want to be around, keep it up. But if you want to succeed in life at ANYTHING, women, careers, family, you NEED to get over this woe is me shyt PRONTO. NOBODY has ever succeeded at anything crying and blaming everyone else about their inadequacies.

You are playing the victim card. What exactly are black women "doing" to you? How has pointing out their flaws helped you succeed with them?

And again, how do you explain the fact that most black women are with black men, despite the fact that most black men are not thugs? Kind of blows a big ass hole through your "they only like thugs" theory. NO black woman I know fukks with "thugs" or "fake rapeprs". Do you know any black women who aren't family? Do the black women in your family date those kinds of black men?

So why focus on that percentage? You might as well be complaining about lesbians.


The attractive ones :leostare:

So now we get to the root of the matter. You acknowledge there is a percentage of women you could date without issue, but you feel you deserve the best, despite in no way BEING the best. Do you see how such thinking might set you up for failure? :francis: Why not date women in your league?

Triple Ether :wow:
 

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Money

- Progressively shift a percentage of monies to black owned banks
- Invest in under-served communities with black populations : easiest and most accessible option for real estate and business investment
- Dedicate a specific percentage of income that will be spent with black businesses every week, every month, etc.

Political

- Withdraw from Democratic/Republican parties : form black-specific agenda and vote as a bloc for whichever candidate will push said agenda
- Start on the local level and move to the state and we'll meet at the federal
- Form/join black PACs in your cities and dedicate funds to black causes

Family

- Prepare a will for asset transfer upon death : how much has been lost from black hands because no one wrote a damn will?
- Leave assets behind for your kids
- Stop having kids with punk a## b#tches and protect your lineage from b*stardization
- Wife an emotionally and intellectually sound black woman who shares your ideals on re-organizing the black population and its goals

Overall, be the reason for the season.

Peace
I like this list. Very feasible did straight to the point.
 

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Sound Reasoning
Most black women have enough resources to ensure children are educated and secure.

:wtf:

Unfortunately, black women have some of the lowest net worth stats in the country across all population groups. This is compounded among single mothers who are disproportionately poor in comparative terms with two-parent households.

Peace
 
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