No, keeping it real would be accepting some level of personal responsibility for the outcomes of your life.
What you are doing is projecting your failures onto society and the world around you instead of owning them and learning from them.
Not to mention hanging your hat on the oldest white supremacist memes in the book. Most black men aren't "thugs" and don't "carry themselves like they are out of a rap video", yet most black men are dating and date black women. So not only is your line of thinking racist, it's not even rooted in reality.
What you don't realize, the biggest tragedy with self-proclaimed "nice guys" like you, is this self-defeating attitude and self-victimization is obvious to everyone you meet. As long as you believe this bullshyt you will never succeed with women. So if you want to be a walking pity party nobody but other pity party dry dikk dudes want to be around, keep it up. But if you want to succeed in life at ANYTHING, women, careers, family, you NEED to get over this woe is me shyt PRONTO. NOBODY has ever succeeded at anything crying and blaming everyone else about their inadequacies.