Don’t excuse, ignore or disregard disrespect from family. Family close to you will say wild shyt under the guise of it being helpful or “tough love” when in reality they’re exposing what they really think about you. Don’t be afraid to remove yourself from your family’s lives. Holidays, phone calls, group texts whatever. It’s better to just move on than to deal with the attacks and off hand disrespect that normally goes unchecked.