It's more black dudes vs dark skin girls or ugly girls (I am in no way implying dark skin girls are ugly). Just shyt I've seen with my two eyes
MayQueen
Just here to help you do better.
That makes sooooo much sense.
People like you will never get it and I'm sure it all stems from your mother issues(and lack of daddy) like most of the other losers here.
Kenny West
Veteran
i can tell by how you talk
joeychizzle
光復香港，時代革命
I can feel the vitriol coursing strongly through this thread
Jone2three45
Supporter
Real talk I was trying to keep myself from making a real post and end up saying the bolded and shutting this thread down but since it got bumped enough (and not sent to the race track with all the flamebait in the OP oddly enough
The premise of this thread is so silly tho. We're supposed to check nikkas for catcalling? You want random males to insert themselves into situations with strangers over women they don't know? That they can't even try to get with her afterward because it would be street harassment too
And checking deadbeat dads...the nerve of this chick to put that on there. they are publicly shamed already (hence the term deadbeat dad, but no term for thot moms) but even if they weren't you realize they wouldn't stop their lifestyle because they're still getting p*ssy
The truth is related to the bolded tho. Whenever there is any type of gender politics discussion all women want to do is just say "WHAT ABOUT THE MEN, WHAT ABOUT THE MEN, WHAT ABOUT THE MEN". This thread is just OP reading some posts and make one big "BUT WHAT ABOUT THE MEN" post. No, men aren't blameless, NOBODY has ever claimed that. Nobody could claim that, because society checks men hard. And black men most of all are prosecuted to the fullest extent of he law. Even the deadbeats you mention can have their financial and literal independence stripped as a result of his actions. Did I really have to type that for adult eyes?
However the problem is this: There is no cooperation from women, and it is WRONG to expect any. The one (pretty much only) responsibility women have is mate selection. Under the old rules mate selection was handled by the parents or family and they had a majority say and they would choose the mates and give blessings to responsible provider males. Maybe the ancients understood how harmful unchecked hypergamy would be for a community. Dudes who identify with old order masculinity will see themselves as unquestioned leaders of family unit. But according to modern female ideology this is degrading. (but BW only feel this way with Black men) However women do like the males taking on the responsiblity (and blame) of the relationship, and males accepted it.
Now women are free to choose who they want to mate and they do so based on feeling rather than the logical judgement of family. The inner city communities full of single mothers and baby boys are the result of this. Strong black men don't live in the hood, they find a submissive woman to build with and start a family. (shoutout @Crakface ) Once black leadership was destroyed (MLK) and mate selection became unhinged,all racist government had to do was give some passive pushes (crack, destructive media) and watch the black nuclear divide. The thugs, drug dealers and deadbeats/players are enabled in our community because they are rewarded with sex. The responsible ones are with people reassuring him he's "doing the right thing" in spite of his unhappiness.
the only way to bring back the nuclear black family would be a change in mate selection, because aint shyt nikkas seem to be far more successful at finding women to trip and fall on their dikks and procreating as a result. Considering 2014's heart throb of the year is the convict dude I don't see much changing. Which brings us back to the bold. Women go the most unchecked. And unfortunately for black folks the media actually enables and encourages fukkery from us. Gives us platforms to disparage our race, encourages ratchetness, and co-signs degeneracy.
Prime example, this song
shyt is the prime example of the bolded quote and the weak men that have resulted in it. The songs about co-signing our women to be fukkin strippers. "I ain't judging you, go and get your money" pretty much the opposite end of the spectrum as far as checking
@mrken12 @Matt504 @Data-Hawk
i know this post will get looked over but I want some intellingent eyes to see it
Take 'em to church breh!
Ahhhhh so black women are responsible when their abused, not the men who abuse them. Got it. My respect for black dwindles as the hours pass.
Because Rhianna didn't get back with Chris after the media black balled him for over a year. Because Chris didnt have young chickenheads on twitter and around the country throwing their panties at him after he stomped a mudhole in Rhianna. Tina didn't stay with Ike. Whitney didn't love Bobby. Black women arent on twitter lusting after an arab who supposedly sexually assaulted a black teen.
Choose isolated examples and present them as the rule brehs. Do you have any criticisms for black men who abuse black women? Or are we sub humans unworthy of compassion to you all?Because Rhianna didn't get back with Chris after the media black balled him for over a year. Because Chris didnt have young chickenheads on twitter and around the country throwing their panties at him after he stomped a mudhole in Rhianna. Tina didn't stay with Ike. Whitney didn't love Bobby. Black women arent on twitter lusting after an arab who supposedly sexually assaulted a black teen.
Diddly Drogba
Superstar
just because one parent isn't around doesn't mean you give up on raising them right.
That's true. How about u spew the same vitriol at deadbeat black men that u do at single moms, that you don't come of as such a hypocrite.
Road20
All Star
This discussion will never go nowhere. This is basically a finger pointing contese on who fukks over who the most. With that said cosign bra who brought up credibility. I wouldnt take advise from a crackhead on sober living. I know people on here hate Bible verses but
Proverbs 15 King James Version (KJV)
15 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
2 The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.
This shyt holds true today. Talk to a nikka with some sense and he may just listen to what you have to say, if you are knowledgeable on whatever the situation is.
Proverbs 15 King James Version (KJV)
15 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
2 The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.
This shyt holds true today. Talk to a nikka with some sense and he may just listen to what you have to say, if you are knowledgeable on whatever the situation is.
The difference between me & you? I can openly state there are some screwed up black men, but the inverse will never come off your lips, but if I were to call you an overgrown child who is incapable of accountability and needed to be led, you'd whimper, cry misogynist and take your ball and go home. You want black men to be accountable and acknowledge the men who powerbomb women through tables, but you won't be accountable and acknowledge the women who seek out these relationships and choose to stay in them. The very definition of a child mentally.
Newsflash, baby doll.
Every race has there share of individuals who relish in hostile relationships. Black women aren't exempt.
95% of us have a type. Everyone tends to follow a pattern in choosing a mate. If all your partners are violent and fit a certain M.O., then that's what you're seeking. Your only argument is that only the men abusing the women should be held accountable. It's not as if these women seek out these relationships and choose to stay in them. Tina Turner at her peak could have had ANY man she wanted. Rhianna could have gotten almost ANY man on this planet. The skinny ass DJ Khaled who drugged up and supposedly assaulted a black teen has shown what he's capable of, and some black women still want to have his children - their words. He's the only one fukked up mentally, though, right?
You're giving everyone the whole "woe is me," pity party schtick, but after you're done whining, nothing is gained once the participants finish patting you on the back and walk away from the discussion, and that proves my point. In these sort of discussions, women such as yourself aren't interested in discourse. You're interested in placing blame and creating dissension, and you'll continue to prove that by replying with your finger pointed and denying that women are human, also.
saint25225
Pro
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And I don't know what bizzaro world you're living in with this in the first place. You could look me in my eye and tell me with a straight face that woman beaters are celebrated or excused? They aren't often attacked by relatives or confronted? Really? Oddly enough, the one who usually refuses to prosecute him and bails him out of jail ends up being the female whose ass he kicked in the first place, but you won't address that.
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