you're right and that is getting married for the wrong reasons,and probably is the reason why their is such a high divorce rate.I don't think it's desirable, in fact it can be a challenge being a single parent but marriage is not always the best answer for two people that didn't plan to have children. The p*ssy/dikk is good but doesn't mean you should be married.
That is why GOD doesn't want folks having sex with women that are not your spouse.
Matter of fact you just called your future potential wife and babies mother a B**** I see this not ending well, maybe you're right, don't get married you aren't in that "right spot" yet but at the same time don't have children either cause you're not in that "right spot".
Why Am I explaining this To a supposed "Grown Individual"? Scary Yo