It's not about being hard, it's about being a man, a warrior, and refusing to submit. As Dr. Claud said, during the Korean War we could not break those people. They would fight to the last man, woman, and child. They're mentality was they had more people than we had bullets.
On my WORD...I'd put a bullet in my own families head, kill as many cacs as possible and save one bullet for myself. Die with a smile on my face screaming "fukk yall crackas".
THAT, is what the ancestors were supposed to do. Our people would still have our dignity and wouldn't be this powerless, laughing stock of the world if they had.