WARNING!!!: November is NoFap

[Capitol]

This is the shyt that made me quit in the past brehs. Whenever I go on these no fap streaks I end up having wet dreams all the damn time. At least I got head in this one

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

I take antidepressants so they increase my hormones. Including libido. I'm essentially fighting against the things that my antidepressants are fighting to give me. I don't feel anything except frustration and depression. I comfort myself with the idea that suffering and enduring mean you can endure when things are bad. If you can control your urges you can control yourself. It’s a hollow comfort and I'm more and more wondering why I'm doing this. Im reluctant to give up because it's making me realize that a nut isn't what I'm after but intimacy with a woman who wants to understand me. That's also why I quit porn since the intimacy isn't there. It's all heady with me. Never really physical.

I obviously have no knowledge of actual mental health issues, antidepressants etc. but one of the main benefits of no fap is how much better sex feels, how much more appreciation you have for "normal" intimacy etc. as opposed to walking around like you are permanently sedated and numb due to the mass of fake dopamine flashes you get from beating your meat into oblivion to all kinds of extreme stuff. So Id assume now would be a great time to get out and approach more women to find what you are looking for.

Like I said though, Im speaking as someone without actual knowledge about this so if im making it sound too easy when its actually complex and dont know what im talking about, let me know

 

[Neuromancer]

I obviously have no knowledge of actual mental health issues, antidepressants etc. but one of the main benefits of no fap is how much better sex feels, how much more appreciation you have for "normal" intimacy etc. as opposed to walking around like you are permanently sedated and numb due to the mass of fake dopamine flashes you get from beating your meat into oblivion to all kinds of extreme stuff. So Id assume now would be a great time to get out and approach more women to find what you are looking for.

Like I said though, Im speaking as someone without actual knowledge about this so if im making it sound too easy when its actually complex and dont know what im talking about, let me know

I obviously have no knowledge of actual mental health issues, antidepressants etc. but one of the main benefits of no fap is how much better sex feels, how much more appreciation you have for "normal" intimacy etc. as opposed to walking around like you are permanently sedated and numb due to the mass of fake dopamine flashes you get from beating your meat into oblivion to all kinds of extreme stuff. So Id assume now would be a great time to get out and approach more women to find what you are looking for.

Like I said though, Im speaking as someone without actual knowledge about this so if im making it sound too easy when its actually complex and dont know what im talking about, let me know

I have no desire to go out and approach. That's another thing I keep meeting nuts women. And I have a modicum of social anxiety. Long story short I don't see I'm unmotivated. But I'm gonna try this Saturday.

 

[Starman]

I have no desire to go out and approach. That's another thing I keep meeting nuts women. And I have a modicum of social anxiety. Long story short I don't see I'm unmotivated. But I'm gonna try this Saturday.

Don't expect to succeed your first time out the gate. And temper your definition of success/failure. Sounds like you need to make a few lifestyle changes. Try every day you're off to meet someone, do something social.

 

[Capitol]

Thats another thing too. I have no desire to go out and approach women at the moment. Its a hell of a paradox to be horny all the time but have no desire to masturbate or have sex. I'm just riding this wave to oblivion

 

[Starman]

Thats another thing too. I have no desire to go out and approach women at the moment. Its a hell of a paradox to be horny all the time but have no desire to masturbate or have sex. I'm just riding this wave to oblivion

To be clear, you're horny but not horny enough to go through the motions of trying to get laid?

 

[Bumblebreh]

I obviously have no knowledge of actual mental health issues, antidepressants etc. but one of the main benefits of no fap is how much better sex feels, how much more appreciation you have for "normal" intimacy etc. as opposed to walking around like you are permanently sedated and numb due to the mass of fake dopamine flashes you get from beating your meat into oblivion to all kinds of extreme stuff. So Id assume now would be a great time to get out and approach more women to find what you are looking for.

Like I said though, Im speaking as someone without actual knowledge about this so if im making it sound too easy when its actually complex and dont know what im talking about, let me know

brain fog

 

[Capitol]

To be clear, you're horny but not horny enough to go through the motions of trying to get laid?

Basically. I was never the type for 1 night stands, but I been so agitated lately I don't want to go through the whole courting process atm. I got curved by the last three women I was feeling so I decided I should be focusing on myself instead of being stressed out by these women all the time

 

[Starman]

Basically. I was never the type for 1 night stands, but I been so agitated lately I don't want to go through the whole courting process atm. I got curved by the last three women I was feeling so I decided I should be focusing on myself instead of being stressed out by these women all the time

Or you can do what I've done at some points and go after women you can get. ‍ Sometimes you just want to get laid. Try to spare their feelings though.

 

[Neuromancer]

Don't expect to succeed your first time out the gate. And temper your definition of success/failure. Sounds like you need to make a few lifestyle changes. Try every day you're off to meet someone, do something social.

I do. I work from home. When I'm not there I'm at MMA class, guitar practice, writing, editing or at a religious ceremony. So I'm fairly busy. I don't have much meandering time. Or hang out time. I created a black nerd meet up group, but I have less time and energy to have meet ups.

 

[Capitol]

Or you can do what I've done at some points and go after women you can get. ‍ Sometimes you just want to get laid. Try to spare their feelings though.

Nah. One of the reasons I'm doing the no fap thing is to get away from always seeking instant gratification

 

[Starman]

Nah. One of the reasons I'm doing the no fap thing is to get away from always seeking instant gratification

Truly master of your domain.

 

[I AM WE ARE]

When is this supposed to start cause I beat my shyt into oblivion this morning

 

[Starman]

When is this supposed to start cause I beat my shyt into oblivion this morning

I can appreciate a troll post, but maybe you should consider the righteous path for the rest of the month. I believe you entered this thread for a reason. Even if it's not the one you think.

 

[ImLionyall]

Not gonna lie today is the first day its getting difficult for me

Really? Today is the easiest for me. 0-11 was a struggle but I had an amazing workout session last night. I also woke up early, by accident, feeling completely refreshed. Today is my off today but I may work out again