I only ever fukked with bk nikkas. Harlem dudes be soft to me.
If you not from harlem, you have no context. A. These nikkas CRAZY disrespectful. Did those men approaching yall come correct? Doubtful. And even then, the terms of discourse must be established. B. Im so feminine that people dont even think im from ny- they think im southern- but even i have been forced into situations where i had to run up on a nikka, cuss his ass out, mush him all in his face, and threaten his life. True story.
Loosely, there are two types of harlem chicks in the millenial group. One, those who have been completely urbanized. Theyre usually girls who grew up in the projects and/ or been through cps or juvie. Or two, girls like me, where the generational southerness/ femininity has been maintained in an unbroken line. I attended both public and parochial school in harlem and east harlem, changed schools every two yrs, so i have a good sample size. At every school i attended, i collected a little clatch of feminine chicks in my class. So, based on MY experience, we exist, its just a hard life up here. All of these friends, hood and not, are now married. Some moved back to our ancestral home, the carolinas.
But i know nikkas like cam. In fact, i grew up with nikkas who played ball with cam. That type tends to WANT a decent, bad black girl, but dont qualify. One i know personally harrassed me throughout our youth, but come to find out, kinda sorta been feeling me the whole time. But he didnt qualify.