Wack 100 Explains Perfectly And Logically Why Men Shouldn't Get Married. Why Do People Get Mad At Men For Making Sense?

[Commish]

My initial thought and one reason I’m not when loading the video

I listed to the video and I somewhat understood his point..

But...

I still believe that marriage is fine. People just have to have to sit down and have a discussion about finances, family and other important things before taking things to the next level. Pretty much a couple have to be equally yoked across the board in order for a marriage to work. I believe that people treat marriage just like contracts and credit cards.

They don't read the fine prints and disclaimers!

I know a lot of people who are married and been married for a long time. So, it does work for many people.

I will say that if I get married and the marriages doesnt work out, then everything he said to do would be what I would do.

People who don't want to get married may want to do what he suggested as well..

 

[Cakebatter]

If you think husbands' get screwed over in family court, baby daddy's have virtually no rights. If you want kids, marriage is the only valid vehicle, unless you cool with your baby mama changing your son's name to whoever she's dating at the moment.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Anyone scared to get married just doesn’t have the ability to find and choose the right woman in life.

Wack100 isn’t exactly the perfect example of a normal guy considering his antics, so he isn’t one to hang your hat on as proof of anything about marriage.

If you don’t want to get married then don’t

Essentially this.. .. I ain't on the marriage train, but I don't need to be shoutinf from the mountain tops my decision in an attempt to get validation from others. If you REALLY not feeling getting married, then don't. Live your own life and don't concern yourself with what others choose. But the folks making these threads ain't really built like that and fully at peace with their choices. They are internally scared and want to get confirmation that their choice is the right one for them......

 

[RareHunter]

Being virtuous doesn't have a damn thing to do with it. Both parties can be virtuous to the highest degree, but that doesn't mean that they simply won't just fall out if love with each other.

Look, I'm not saying kats shouldn't get married, but EVERYONE should know that there's no "perfect" way to make the shyt last until "death do them part." Feelings change, attraction changes, and people change. Not a damn thing you can do about that but try to adjust. A lot of the time, adjustments aren't enough.

That’s from a western philosophy perspective. “I fell out of love”. Lol only in this dying empire does that fly. Love is an action and marriage isn’t about feelings. Western philosophy operates off feelings and a feminine perspective.

 

[TEH]

A man should marry a wifey type / tender roni type … unfortunately they stopped making those in the early 80’s

I heard that every year they produce about 1000 new ones

 

[HabitualChiller]

i say this as a happliy married person, marriage ain’t about love

men out here believe in a fairy tale just as bad as the women do smh

So you view marriage as a business/financial agreement? What do you view it as?

 

[RareHunter]

So you view marriage as a business/financial agreement? What do you view it as?

Marriage is man has mission and takes care of women. Women helps man in mission, reinforces him, relieves stress. They make decisions together, but man steers direction and she gives man kids to further his seedline and rears them. It’s quite simple.

 

[maxamusa]

This type of poison is only being pumped to one demographic. Wonder why that is

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

This type of poison is only being pumped to one demographic. Wonder why that is

Using common sense and people doing what’s best for them, individually, instead of blindly following some societal narrative that says you’re “supposed to” get married because it’s the “right thing to do” is poison?

You nikkas love your shaming tactics

 

[dr. pill biden]

So you view marriage as a business/financial agreement? What do you view it as?

its a commitment to something bigger than ourselves

a vehicle for raising children

a community within a community (the home & extended families) as well as the foundation of being a pillar in the outward society

a way to share a whole life with another person not just the good times but the bad and mundane every day shyt too

constant challenge to overcome my inherent selfishness and do little sweet shyt like make a cup of tea or pick up their favorite drink from the store or bite my tongue when im annoyed but its important to them

all the little inside jokes and stories and experiences together all add up over a lifetime and shyt is irreplaceable

how goofy you gotta be to say “oh i fell out of love” because 1st)love is an action but 2) if you can fall out of love you could fall back in love the same exact way and then what is your dumb azz gonna do? get married and divorced every 2 years?

it’s called being an adult and getting over your fickle azz feelings breh

 

[maxamusa]

Using common sense and people doing what’s best for them, individually, instead of blindly following some societal narrative that says you’re “supposed to” get married because it’s the “right thing to do” is poison?

You nikkas love your shaming tactics

Marriage isn't for everyone. Also; It isn't just a social narrative. You're naive if you think so. Strong nuclear families are beneficial to communities. Marriage strengthens communities.
Sometimes the messenger matters with the message; I'll say less.

 

[nairdas]

Marriage is a big waste of time and money

 

[Legend27]

And you just want to handwave the 90% number like that's not significant.


They'd have a 96% chance of staying married beyond that 20 year mark if they would take their vows as seriously and be as willing to do the internal work necessary to maintain a stable marital mental state as their male counterpart does. College educated men are only responsible for 2% of those homes breaking up.


But nope we got folks like yourself that just want to ignore the big numbers right in front of your face and then act like men don't see them, aren't aware of them and aren't adjusting their behaviors to what they see first hand with the women being so divorce thirsty and willing to break homes apart.

You sound stupid af
1.No the 90% is not significant to the idiotic conclusions people like yourself draw up because of it. “Marriages are falling apart because of women breaking up families that were already broken to begin with “

2.filing for divorce is not what is breaking up homes lack of communication and empathy, gender roles, unfair labor trying to stay and tolerate an unhealthy/abusive or a relationship that simply doesn't meet their wants or needs is destructive and detrimental to your own personal health & happiness for both men and women and kids if involved

3. We got nikkas like you that want to repeat myths that have been debunked decades ago for the sake of not breaking up unhappy, unhealthy, and unsatisfying “homes” but you're oh so aware and completely ignore what I just said at the fact that the divorce rate has dramatically declined since the 1980s and marriages are lasting longer and most people stay with their first partner and ignore nuances like education, age, regions with different values like conservatism and gender roles which only increase the likelihood of divorce and want ignore men's own personal accountability in a relationship to push a narrative.

 

[Elim Garak]

Marriage is an outdated concept

Watch how Gen z and Gen alpha throw that shyt in the bushes largely

I agree I've been saying it's outdated for awhile.

 

[Turk]

I will never trust a woman enough to get married especially with how emotionally volatile a lot of them are. She can wake up one day, switch up on you and then what?