i guess so. everyone has done something they are not proud of. i was reacting to a situation where i was being emotional abused. while my mom kept up her BS for years i moved out as soon as i graduated from HS and for years i didn't speak to her. who the hell wants to hear every day that your mom thinks your stupid, ugly, unlovable, and the cause of ALL her problems?
just because she is my mother doesn't mean that i am unworthy of respect or unworthy to be treated with dignity. a lot of the stuff she did was foul as hell and she always had a justification for it.