as if ya'll have anything else to offer.
and what do you have to offer other than sex?
UPDATE PG 16 "I want to really get to know you before we get physical" = Toss azz in the Bushes ?
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and what do you have to offer other than sex?
I would teach my daughter not to let a guys wine and dine her and her not offer to pay or take him out sometimes or something. Most men want sex when they feel like they are putting forth way more effort than she is. I'll also teach her not to make sex a goal for men. And dont make sex thing best thing about her.
It's a real job. She's 28/29, meet her thru a mutual friend.
That's why I prefer to hanging out first before even proposing going on a date. When you're just chillin' and shyt, it gives you a chance to gauge her interest and you can see if there's any kind of vibe while at the same time just being casual. This is where you get to know someone, not going out on a dateGoing out on full-blown dates from the jump just makes it look like you're looking for something and then you look like a trick ass idiot when you don't get it
Desirous
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Or realized that rushing isn't for them.
I have a couple of friends who are good with casual sex...one who WANTS to have fun, but can't, cause she gets emotionally invested...it's so sad. If it's not for you, it's not for you. Don't worry about what other people are doing.
If she's really feeling him and wants to take her time, then nothing wrong with waiting. What's stupid is if she's saying that, but then rushes to sleep with another dude (and sometimes chicks do dumb shyt like that - hold off on the guy they like cause they don't want him to think she's a ho, but get her fix with a dude she's just having fun with...now that's grimey)
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I was just curious. 28/29 means shes probably taking it seriously and trying not to waste time on giving it up too soon.
Not EVERY girl is out to screw you ever.
Did she just move there or something? Who knows. maybe she's trying to find her footing. Theres a lot of DC -> ATL and ATL -> DC transplants.
Play it calm.
Even though I know I can play this role and smash in a few more dates. I'm going to tell her, since she feels that way. I jumped the gun in pursuing her and we should probably just hang out as friends, meaning she pay for her stuff. Bcuz she is cool, but her words just turned me off. Especially since she hasn't offered anything else up.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
If the women pays sometimes and put forth similar effort that i'm putting forth, I don't mind waiting.
It's when I'm doing it all and she's taking it all in, that's when me expects something. Usually it seems all she has to offer is sex.
I always pay, even if the guy offers. My dad told me to only let my boyfriend/husband spend money on me.
but some women think that men are supposed to pay and some even think that men want to pay because that's what they were told, tell her to pay for her own food/drinks etc and if she doesn't want to pay THEN toss her in the bushes but don't do it because she wants to get to know you before she has sex with you.
just play it calm bro
RealAssanova
Ethnic Vagitarian
and what do you have to offer other than sex?
That is the difference between us. Ya'll know what ya'll can offer yet i see this sense of entitlement, princess attitude, make him wait for it BULLSHYT all da time. Why?
We want to be honest in what we want from ya'll from da get, which i can say with utmost conviction is 90% sex and the other 10% breakin down into a drama free, respectful and wonderful relationship. But we know we won't be able to get either by being up front, so therefore we gotta lie to hit it.
She TOLD you that?
and losers could just be "established" not necessarily people who wasted no time.
You know what...I know a few girls from ATL that moved to DC that work for non-profits and volunteer organizations so...its kinda interesting...i don't think they're 28 tho...
There is like 6 people with that avi. its very confusing.....and what do you have to offer other than sex?
Illuminatos
#OVOXO
If women are excused for being illogical, we can be excused for being horny.
LOL who excuses women for being illogical? Do you miss the constant women bashing threads that get made here on the daily?
Desirous
Action expresses priorities
I always pay, even if the guy offers. My dad told me to only let my boyfriend/husband spend money on me.
but some women think that men are supposed to pay and some even think that men want to pay because that's what they were told, tell her to pay for her own food/drinks etc and she doesn't want to pay THEN toss her in the bushes but don't do it because she wants to get to know you before she has sex with you.
I have a couple of guy friends who will not let me pay...or any of their female friends pay. If their moms found out that they went out with a girl, even though she's platonic, and let her pay, they'd get slapped lol it's just a cultural thing sometimes, too. Not saying I agree with it - I have no problem paying for myself nor do I expect anything AND I also like to treat my friends too, sometimes...it's cool doing something nice for a friend...just having it taken care of for them.
I probably should play it cool, but I have to let her know she's paying for her own stuff from now on. In a nice way. Can't wait til the bill shows up to for me to say something. That's why I'm going to tell I jumped the gun by treating her like my girlfriend and we should do what she said and be more friend like.