UPDATE PG 16 "I want to really get to know you before we get physical" = Toss azz in the Bushes ?

[MikelArteta]

I don't disagree. Honestly, I haven't had sex in over a year...and this isn't the first time I've gone this long. Doesn't have anything to do with someone not calling me back after though...but sex means more to me than physical pleasure and I enjoy it when it's with someone I am comfortable with/care about/know well. I just know myself and what works for me. I'm sure guys I've gone out on dates with think I'm playing hard to get though...but if a person wants to get to know you, they will, whether you give it up or not (and even if you do give it up, if the dude's still interested, he'll stick around...I've seen it happen with people...girl sleeps with guy on the first date...they end up dating, in a relationship for years etc). There really are no rules when it comes to love/relationships...it's so case-by-case...so you just gotta do what's is good for you at the end of the day.

Well not everyone has that mindframe, many women try to use their vagina as a powerful tool to draw man in and string them along as long as they can before offering it up. As someone who hasn't had sex in nearly 3 years those old tricks that used to work on me don't anymore.

The main thing for most guys is to conquer the vagina if they don't its a failure, and why they won't waste their time.


And , i've never seen that happen, whenever in my past life when I slept with a girl early on, my thoughts of her changed to she does this with every guy she's dating or chilling with, won't get serious with.

 

[Crakface]

"I want to be sure you're the one before i give you this std"

 

[MBwithadream]

She wants to have sex with him but she's is trying to get as many free dinner dates possible Before letting him fukkk

That's why we need to abolish the whole dating bullcrap... Both parties start neutral

But if I'm taking your ass out every Friday and you aint letting me smash then bushes

So, taking your girl to Mickey D, Burger King, & Sonic is too much for you then?

 

[NotaPAWG]

That is the difference between us. Ya'll know what ya'll can offer yet i see this sense of entitlement, princess attitude, make him wait for it BULLSHYT all da time. Why?

We want to be honest in what we want from ya'll from da get, which i can say with utmost conviction is 90% sex and the other 10% breakin down into a drama free, respectful and wonderful relationship. But we know we won't be able to get either by being up front, so therefore we gotta lie to hit it.

Lol wait.. so we're the ones acting entitled because we're not giving up sex when men want it? riiiight

Men ain't gotta lie about shyt. you think you're going to get anything good and respectful from lying to achieve sex? where's the logic in that?

Women enjoy sex just as much as men but we enjoy and respect honesty even more.

Let me tell you this..I had a thing going for almost a year with a guy I knew for 5 years prior, but was mostly an acquaintance. but then we started hanging out, had feelings for each but it was most definitely a "sexual" thing as both of us didnt want to be in committed relationship because we felt we weren't ready or w.e for the commitment, obligations or w.e that tend come with relationships. we just enjoyed each others presence when we were together and what was going on at the moment. But like I said, his intentions and my intentions were made clear, because we communicated and he didn't have to lie to me, or swindle me in to get sex, we don't have any ill feelings towards each other or anything after it ended. i didn't feel used, don't feel used or have anything negative or bitter because he respected me enough to not play with my feelings and be honest. in fact, i think hes a wonderful guy and think of him highly.

 

[Desirous]

Well not everyone has that mindframe, many women try to use their vagina as a powerful tool to draw man in and string them along as long as they can before offering it up. As someone who hasn't had sex in nearly 3 years those old tricks that used to work on me don't anymore.

The main thing for most guys is to conquer the vagina if they don't its a failure, and why they won't waste their time.


And , i've never seen that happen, whenever in my past life when I slept with a girl early on, my thoughts of her changed to she does this with every guy she's dating or chilling with, won't get serious with.

I see it all the time. Some guys think that...but it also has to do with the type of person you are, too. Like, if you're going around sleeping with chicks on the first date, then you'll assume the girl's doing it too. If you usually aren't about that, but it happens once, then you might think that she's also in that situation (if she tells you this isn't something she usually does...so you're like "Yah me neither"). Kind of how the people who are always paranoid about their s.o. cheating...are usually cheating themselves so they expect the other person's doing the same.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

We got alot of Myron-esque dudes in here

 

[Desirous]

"I want to be sure you're the one before i give you this std"

 

[MikelArteta]

Lol wait.. so we're the ones acting entitled because we're not giving up sex when men want it? riiiight

Men ain't gotta lie about shyt. you think you're going to get anything good and respectful from lying to achieve sex? where's the logic in that?

Women enjoy sex just as much as men but we enjoy and respect honesty even more.

Let me tell you this..I had a thing going for almost a year with a guy I knew for 5 years prior, but was mostly an acquaintance. but then we started hanging out, had feelings for each but it was most definitely a "sexual" thing as both of us didnt want to be in committed relationship because we felt we weren't ready or w.e for the commitment, obligations or w.e that tend come with relationships. we just enjoyed each others presence when we were together and what was going on at the moment. But like I said, his intentions and my intentions were made clear, because we communicated and he didn't have to lie to me, or swindle me in to get sex, we don't have any ill feelings towards each other or anything after it ended. i didn't feel used, don't feel used or have anything negative or bitter because he respected me enough to not play with my feelings and be honest. in fact, i think hes a wonderful guy and think of him highly.

women enjoy sex just as much as men with MEN they like and find attractive

a man will enjoy sex with just about anyone he doesn't need "sparks" a "connection", hell he doesn't even need to find the broad attractive, the majority of women not so much.

like the guy you are talking about, if you weren't attracted to him nor felt those "sparks" you would not give him sex.

 

[Crakface]

Get married asap. These chicks got Fire crotch tryin to do one last job before they walk into the sunset with their knight in flaming armor.

 

[RealAssanova]

Lol wait.. so we're the ones acting entitled because we're not giving up sex when men want it? riiiight

Men ain't gotta lie about shyt. you think you're going to get anything good and respectful from lying to achieve sex? where's the logic in that?

Women enjoy sex just as much as men but we enjoy and respect honesty even more.

Let me tell you this..I had a thing going for almost a year with a guy I knew for 5 years prior, but was mostly an acquaintance. but then we started hanging out, had feelings for each but it was most definitely a "sexual" thing as both of us didnt want to be in committed relationship because we felt we weren't ready or w.e for the commitment, obligations or w.e that tend come with relationships. we just enjoyed each others presence when we were together and what was going on at the moment. But like I said, his intentions and my intentions were made clear, because we communicated and he didn't have to lie to me, or swindle me in to get sex, we don't have any ill feelings towards each other or anything after it ended. i didn't feel used, don't feel used or have anything negative or bitter because he respected me enough to not play with my feelings and be honest. in fact, i think hes a wonderful guy and think of him highly.

 

[Desirous]

Get married asap. These chicks got Fire crotch tryin to do one last job before they walk into the sunset with their knight in flaming armor.

If it were that easy lol

 

[NotaPAWG]

women enjoy sex just as much as men with MEN they like and find attractive

a man will enjoy sex with just about anyone he doesn't need "sparks" a "connection", hell he doesn't even need to find the broad attractive, the majority of women not so much.

like the guy you are talking about, if you weren't attracted to him nor felt those "sparks" you would not give him sex.

most women don't just hang out with and go on dates with dudes to get to know them that they don't find attractive.

 

[Crakface]

If it were that easy lol

You right, once you burn that man hes going to burn down the whole city Kamakazi style. STD's literally turn people into zombies. They just want to go out and infect us normal people. I saw this chick laugh and her tongue was all white n shyt. I knew i had to get out the game soon. The older i got the more disgusting these whores start to look.

 

[Turbulent]

I have a couple of guy friends who will not let me pay...or any of their female friends pay. If their moms found out that they went out with a girl, even though she's platonic, and let her pay, they'd get slapped lol it's just a cultural thing sometimes, too. Not saying I agree with it - I have no problem paying for myself nor do I expect anything AND I also like to treat my friends too, sometimes...it's cool doing something nice for a friend...just having it taken care of for them.

some dudes need to learn how to tactfully tell their parents to fallback.

 

[MikelArteta]

most women don't just hang out with and go on dates with dudes to get to know them that they don't find attractive.

you never heard of the friend zone?

many women partake in going out on dates to enjoy the free meals, the entertainment the free movie, knowing that because of their beauty they can just tease and the poor sap simp, or nice guy will continue to be strung along thinking he has a chance.