UPDATE PG 16 "I want to really get to know you before we get physical" = Toss azz in the Bushes ?

[Stuntone]

If the women pays sometimes and put forth similar effort that i'm putting forth, I don't mind waiting.



It's when I'm doing it all and she's taking it all in, that's when me expects something. Usually it seems all she has to offer is sex.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

If the women pays sometimes and put forth effort I don't mind waiting.

Yup..... Bingo

Matter of fact ill def wait

Cause if She is doing this now
Just imagine when she really starts liking you.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

If the women pays sometimes and put forth effort I don't mind waiting.

you ain't hit me back about what she does.

I was trying to say that if she spends her time in school or working and it also depends how old she is.

I was trying to toss my angle in there.

 

[Stuntone]

you ain't hit me back about what she does.

I was trying to say that if she spends her time in school or working and it also depends how old she is.

I was trying to toss my angle in there.

She works with kids and some Union or some sh:t.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Why women always go to the 2 extremes? Like there's no middle ground or gray area.

I'm saying don't require men to do a lot and you not do anything. You have to at least offer to cook or something. When it feels like he's put forth all the effort and the female is just enjoying and not doing anything. He's going stand fast to get the sex and dip.

All I did was repeat what you said. You're reading it in someone else's words instead of your own so you know how ridiculous it sounds.

I already know what to do when I'm dating someone, I'm not a stingy/self absorbed person. But I'm NOT having sex with someone before I get to know them. That's beyond stupid and that doesn't mean I think sex is the best thing about me, I just don't think you should do it with just anyone because it can ruin your life.

 

[RealAssanova]

Coli nikkas be like



But then gets mad when chicks aren't giving up the p*ssy on the 1st date. Can't have it both ways breh.

If women are excused for being illogical, we can be excused for being horny.

 

[Illuminatos]

how is a dude smashing the first date responsible for single mothers?
Have you ever seen a pregnant man before? Neither have I....

These chicks aren't getting pregnant by themselves.

 

[PhonZhi]

Is this acceptable from any girl who isn't super fine and/or a virgin?

I met this chick from GA here in DC. Her body is A1, face is average. I know she likes me a lot. She has me on the boyfriend track, and I don't know how I could have avoided it. We've went out on 3 dates, I've paid for them all. Smdh, bcuz I know better, but that azz is perfect in jeans. They haven't been expensive, like dinner or a movie. Like 35$. Anyhow we kissed, I've gotten her back to my crib last night. We kissed some more, but she didn't want to go any farther. Stated she wanted it slow are some sh:t. That's one of the biggest turn offs to me. I was like cool. Take her to her car. Tells her I'm going back to Louisiana next week. She says she's going to miss me and give her a real life . She sees me and says, "excuse me for expressing my feelings."


Anyhow, I feel like I should continue chilling with her but not spending any money to get the draws since I'm already 3 dates invested. But thinking about it, whenever I've heard "let's take it slow" I've been so turned off, I usually just toss the chick in the bushes.
.

I'm already feeling like a sucker for paying for the 2nd and 3rd date. I know sometimes chicks say one thing and do another. So should I just continue to chill with her w/o spending money.

havent read thru this thread yet but i just wanna ask you how would you want your daughter to act?? givin it up to a guy she just met after a couple of dates or to have self respect and get to know you better?



oh and @ paying for all 3 dates

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

She works with kids and some Union or some sh:t.

eh...how'd you meet her? she mid 20s or something?

That also depends.

works with kids? is that teaching or like some volunteer shyt?

Did she go to school?

Sounds like a keeper...but also sounds like you don't know her that well.

 

[Chris.B]

These chicks aren't getting pregnant by themselves.

Why would any woman want to carry the baby of a bum ass nikka with no job and ambition for 9 months?

Can you help me understand this?

 

[HiphopRelated]

the thing is with women who usually say this is that...........

they gave up the puss before to a guy they barely knew, got burnt he never called back and now you have to pay for his crimes

But that's his plan too...

 

[Chris.B]

If the women pays sometimes and put forth similar effort that i'm putting forth, I don't mind waiting.



It's when I'm doing it all and she's taking it all in, that's when me expects something. Usually it seems all she has to offer is sex.

truth

 

[RealAssanova]

we don't put sex on a pedestal.. we just don't like feeling like sex is the only thing being pursued. when you're hanging out with a female, and half way into the night try getting some p*ssy, it's no secret to us that we know what you're after. you're the one making it out to be like sex is the main objective, and the only thing we have to offer.

as if ya'll have anything else to offer.

 

[Illuminatos]

Why would any woman want to carry the baby of a bum ass nikka with no job and ambition for 9 months?

Can you help me understand this?

I don't think they're telling bum nikka's sperm to fuse with their eggs...

 

[Ashley Banks]

Everyone has had a lot of partners at 30 yo. I'm saying don't make sex the best thing about you and the last thing you give up. When you do everything else and expect a guy to treat you like a girlfriend for a while, then you finally give it up, he's going to dip.

Again, not wanting to have sex with someone that I barely know doesn't mean I think sex is the best thing about me.