UPDATE PG 16 "I want to really get to know you before we get physical" = Toss azz in the Bushes ?

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You say a lot of righteous things, but i do see her as being possibly worth dating. I will say she's would probably be in last place amongst all my ex's (looks wise). She the type you would want great chemistry and want things to flow nicely. Any hangups you'd be ready to throw her in the bushes. I think she just messed up the flow with her statement.
yeah. i'm gonna need to Possibly Maybe see what you're talking about then since you make it sound like shes just aight.
 

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Basically be a cold, calculated dude from meeting up to sex. Gotcha.

Cold and calculated isn't a packaged deal. You can be one without the other. My personality and academic background doesn't allow me to do that though. But I'm honest about it.

I've never had "surprise" sex. Like the shyt never crept up on me the way a lot of females like to explain it. Like,"oh we were talking, and oh I got turned on, and oh we fukked." Really? You really think it went down like that for the guy? You just so happened to be in an environment that allowed for fukkn? Condoms just so happened to be accessible?

You say a lot of righteous things, but i do see her as being possibly worth dating. I will say she would probably be in last place amongst all my ex's (looks wise). She the type you would need and expect a lot of cooperation, great chemistry and things to flow nicely. Any hangups you'd be ready to throw her in the bushes. I think she just messed up the flow with her statement.


Yea, you're right. I definitely shouldn't having been financing all of those dates. That's azz tho :whew:

Yeah man you lead her on so of course she put you on the boyfriend track. At this point you have to take point when it comes to relations. You can simply say, "ok I'm willing to take it slow cause I could possibly see us being something more. Here is what is holding me back: A,B,C,D."
 

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Update:

I just talked to her and told her I agreed and I put all the blame on myself. Told I jumped the gun by pursuing her too fast and wining & dining her like she was my girlfriend. I told her we should just chill on some friend vibe like she suggest. (That's not want she suggested) lol. She instantly started coping pleas. Saying how she hope she hasn't changed things and hope we continue to spend as much as possible. And how the attraction is there but she knows kissing can lead to a lot more. So she wanted to slow down until we got to know each other more.

Once again I put the blame all on me. How I shouldn't have been pursuing here as fast and taking her out to eat and treating her like a gf. (Knowing that's exactly how she wants me to treat her). After a brief silence, she quietly, sounding regretful says ooh ok. I could her the disappointment in voice. We chatted a little bit longer and I told her I had to go.



Basically she wanted to indulge in the girlfriend treatment I was simpishly providing, but wasn't ready for the girlfriend requirements. I feel a lot better now, we can still kick it, but there will be no expectations. And she getting pushed way back on the depth chart.
 
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Update:

I just talked to her and told her I agreed and I put all the blame on myself. Told I jumped the gun by pursuing her too fast and wining & dining her like she was my girlfriend. I told her we should just chill on some friend vibe like she suggest. (That's not want she suggested) lol. She instantly started coping pleas. Saying how she hope she hasn't changed things and hope we continue to spend as much as possible. And how the attraction is there but she knows kissing can lead to a lot more. So she wanted to slow down until we got to know each other more.

Once again I put the blame all on me. How I shouldn't have been pursuing here as fast and taking her out to eat and treating her like a gf. (Knowing that's exactly how she wants me to treat her). After a brief silence, she quietly, sounding regretful says ooh ok. I could her the disappointment in voice. We chatted a little bit longer and I told her I had to go.



Basically she wanted indulge in the girlfriend treatment I was simpishly providing, but was ready for the girlfriend requirements. I feel a lot better now, we can still kick it, but there will be no expectations. And she getting pushed way back on the depth chart.
:obama:

EDIT: watch her turn up the heat all of a sudden.
 

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EDIT: watch her turn up the heat all of a sudden.

:shaq:


A lot of times these chicks try to implement new Steve Harvey type ideas and just play themselves. Men know when the things you say aren't genuine and isn't code you've lived play. Better off not saying anything really. What's going to happen is going to happen. Just let it flow. When you trying these new ideas, in turn the whole relationship into a game for the coochie. Once we get it, we fill the game is over.
 

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Basically she wanted to indulge in the girlfriend treatment I was simpishly providing, but wasn't ready for the girlfriend requirements. I feel a lot better now, we can still kick it, but there will be no expectations. And she getting pushed way back on the depth chart.

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You ain't learn a thing from this thread breh. :pachaha:
 

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Update:

I just talked to her and told her I agreed and I put all the blame on myself. Told I jumped the gun by pursuing her too fast and wining & dining her like she was my girlfriend. I told her we should just chill on some friend vibe like she suggest. (That's not want she suggested) lol. She instantly started coping pleas. Saying how she hope she hasn't changed things and hope we continue to spend as much as possible. And how the attraction is there but she knows kissing can lead to a lot more. So she wanted to slow down until we got to know each other more.

Once again I put the blame all on me. How I shouldn't have been pursuing here as fast and taking her out to eat and treating her like a gf. (Knowing that's exactly how she wants me to treat her). After a brief silence, she quietly, sounding regretful says ooh ok. I could her the disappointment in voice. We chatted a little bit longer and I told her I had to go.



Basically she wanted to indulge in the girlfriend treatment I was simpishly providing, but wasn't ready for the girlfriend requirements. I feel a lot better now, we can still kick it, but there will be no expectations. And she getting pushed way back on the depth chart.

:patrice: pics breh. :pachaha:



and i'm not sure what just happened...so...what is the outcome? Do you want her or not? :dwillhuh:
 

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Based on the update I think breh did the right thing. She know she ain't getting no free shyt anymore so well see how slow she really wants to take it


We need them pics to broham
 
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