UPDATE PG 16 "I want to really get to know you before we get physical" = Toss azz in the Bushes ?
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That's so mean.
just drop them in the PM. I got no need to share. I'm just bored.I'm thinking hard about dropping em
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Stuntone said:Please STFU!
because she ain't buying your bullshyt. Got free meals outta your ass and making you wait for puzzy.
by the way ultimately, you don't have to lie to fukk a chick. you just have to provide something she wants really bad and then withdraw. she will try to shame yu into giving her what she wants and try to make you believe you,re an a$$hole for not giving it to her. stick to your guns. eventually when all else fails, the last thing she feels she has to give is her body. The higher her self-esteem is, the harder this is to pull. but self-esteem is all relative so theoretically, this could be done on anyone because everyone "wants" something.
I'm aware of how this post could be viewed as demonic but ultimately it can be used for both good or evil. Be aware of these types of game so you can catch yourself being preyed on because of what you want.
I'm aware of how this post could be viewed as demonic but ultimately it can be used for both good or evil. Be aware of these types of game so you can catch yourself being preyed on because of what you want.
Is this acceptable from any girl who isn't super fine and/or a virgin?
I met this chick from GA here in DC. Her body is A1, face is average. I know she likes me a lot. She has me on the boyfriend track, and I don't know how I could have avoided it. We've went out on 3 dates, I've paid for them all. Smdh, bcuz I know better, but that azz is perfect in jeans. They haven't been expensive, like dinner or a movie. Like 35$. Anyhow we kissed, I've gotten her back to my crib last night. We kissed some more, but she didn't want to go any farther. Stated she wanted it slow are some sh:t. That's one of the biggest turn offs to me. I was like cool. Take her to her car. Tells her I'm going back to Louisiana next week. She says she's going to miss me and give her a real life. She sees me and says, "excuse me for expressing my feelings."
Anyhow, I feel like I should continue chilling with her but not spending any money to get the draws since I'm already 3 dates invested. But thinking about it, whenever I've heard "let's take it slow" I've been so turned off, I usually just toss the chick in the bushes.
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I'm already feeling like a sucker for paying for the 2nd and 3rd date. I know sometimes chicks say one thing and do another. So should I just continue to chill with her w/o spending money.
I'ma try and help you out OP, but I'm not gonna be biased cause you did fukk up.
First, why are you going out on dates with chicks you're just trying to smash? I don't get that and never will. Two rules nikkas violate on the regular:
- wining and dining regular chicks just to smash and fill the roster out
- fukkn chicks raw that they have no intention of marrying
Look I'm an a$$hole. I don't think anyone should be treated special if they aren't actually special. From the way you described her, you never saw her as a somebody worth dating. Why? Cause nobody would call that person, "average in the face with an A1 body." So you committed the first cardinal sin by leading her on.
She fukked up by the way she communicated that she was putting you on a time limit. A woman who was really mature about her feelings wouldn't have had to verbally state anything. Why? They just wouldn't have put themselves in situations that would've lead the man into believing he would smash. Date night? Go back to the crib after? Kissing on the couch? How's that man not look at you with the
face after you stop him. Look at the words she used. I "want" to take it slow. You're already engaging in the first step to fukkn, and now you wanna take it slow? How about not starting? Then you don't have to worry about slowing shyt down. Her exact words should've been, "I don't know you well enough to open myself up for sex." To which everyone in the world would've just been like, "So why the fukk are you making out with him at his crib, after y'all went on a date, late at night? You see, the environment calls for 3 infractions on her part. Every dude is trying to get some late at night when they're with a chick. Every dude is trying to get some after a date (if the chemistry leads to that). Every dude is trying to get some if he gets a chick back to his crib. OP hit the TRIFECTA, and she's surprised that he reacts that way to "taking it slow?"
The way she thought she was in the right in that situation, is EXACTLY why guys like me say its so easy to spit G. Y'all DON'T think. You just feel your emotions and morals validate every situation you're in. But y'all don't SEE how that man has set you up for a sex since he first asked you what your name is.
Throw her in the bushes for being 28 and that naive. Not cause she doesn't wanna have sex.
I just have a huge problem with calling anyone over the age of 16 a little boy. Especially when nobody wants to define a little girl.
Edit: So let's back up to the original statement made about liking a chick after sex. That person didn't elaborate well enough on his point. PNC or post nut clarity is very real. No man who is honest about life can deny this.
What he meant to say was, that post nut clarity is going to validate whether or not the feelings are true, or if you are just sexually attracted to the person.
This is true for men and women. None of these things are unique to "little boys."
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Dude paid for 3 dates
You cotdamn right she wants to get free meals...
That's why every party should pay for their own
Never take a chick out to eat or take her to the movies in the first few dates, cause that is typical and boring.
Take her out to bowling, laser tag, etc. Something that is interactive and actually FUN.
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tru_m.a.c said:
Little girls do the SAME bullshyt. That's why I don't really mess with females under the age of 30. Not saying that there aren't some 30+'s that act like little girls, but they are much more up-front about what they want and pull no punches. They'll let you know what's up from Day One.
That 'Post-Nut Clarity' is bullshyt. If you don't know whether or not it's a good idea to stick your dikk in a female BEFORE you do it, then you shouldn't even be doing it. That's that little boy shyt. Little girls do similar shyt, but society gives 'em a pass for being female, which I think is condescending. If she wants some dikk and nothing else, just tell the dude up-front. Don't try and see what you can get outta him before you give up the panties.
That 'Post-Nut Clarity' is bullshyt. If you don't know whether or not it's a good idea to stick your dikk in a female BEFORE you do it, then you shouldn't even be doing it. That's that little boy shyt. Little girls do similar shyt, but society gives 'em a pass for being female, which I think is condescending. If she wants some dikk and nothing else, just tell the dude up-front. Don't try and see what you can get outta him before you give up the panties.
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but they don't hear you though...I'ma try and help you out OP, but I'm not gonna be biased cause you did fukk up.
First, why are you going out on dates with chicks you're just trying to smash? I don't get that and never will. Two rules nikkas violate on the regular:
- wining and dining regular chicks just to smash and fill the roster out
- fukkn chicks raw that they have no intention of marrying
Look I'm an @sshole. I don't think anyone should be treated special if they aren't actually special. From the way you described her, you never saw her as a somebody worth dating. Why? Cause nobody would call that person, "average in the face with an A1 body." So you committed the first cardinal sin by leading her on.
She fukked up by the way she communicated that she was putting you on a time limit. A woman who was really mature about her feelings wouldn't have had to verbally state anything. Why? They just wouldn't have put themselves in situations that would've lead the man into believing he would smash. Date night? Go back to the crib after? Kissing on the couch? How's that man not look at you with the
Her exact words should've been, "I don't know you well enough to open myself up for sex." To which everyone in the world would've just been like, "So why the fukk are you making out with him at his crib, after y'all went on a date, late at night? You see, the environment calls for 3 infractions on her part. Every dude is trying to get some late at night when they're with a chick. Every dude is trying to get some after a date (if the chemistry leads to that). Every dude is trying to get some if he gets a chick back to his crib. OP hit the TRIFECTA, and she's surprised that he reacts that way to "taking it slow?"
The way she thought she was in the right in that situation, is EXACTLY why guys like me say its so easy to spit G. Y'all DON'T think. You just feel your emotions and morals validate every situation you're in. But y'all don't SEE how that man has set you up for a sex since he first asked you what your name is.
Throw her in the bushes for being 28 and that naive. Not cause she doesn't wanna have sex.
If she REALLY likes you, then let her pay for the next date. Do the Grant Hill approach: Act like you forgot your wallet and see her reaction. Then you know she's still worth your while.
And fukk these birds on here thinking there's something wrong with him pushing the sex option after three dates . How much time he needs to know what's up? Like him and 'ol girl haven't spent hours on the phone, numerous texts/IMs exchanged and the three dates to know her better Dude got her to his place to continue to make out after date 3 and he's still batting 0.00? 
Wouldn't be surprised if she was dugged out by a random dude herself after the first date and is trying to "do right" this time. In the process, YOU suffer. I've been there
Just take some time off and date other people for a while unless she treats for date #4
And fukk these birds on here thinking there's something wrong with him pushing the sex option after three dates . How much time he needs to know what's up? Like him and 'ol girl haven't spent hours on the phone, numerous texts/IMs exchanged and the three dates to know her better
Dude got her to his place to continue to make out after date 3 and he's still batting 0.00? Wouldn't be surprised if she was dugged out by a random dude herself after the first date and is trying to "do right" this time. In the process, YOU suffer. I've been there
Just take some time off and date other people for a while unless she treats for date #4
I'ma try and help you out OP, but I'm not gonna be biased cause you did fukk up.
First, why are you going out on dates with chicks you're just trying to smash? I don't get that and never will. Two rules nikkas violate on the regular:
- wining and dining regular chicks just to smash and fill the roster out
- fukkn chicks raw that they have no intention of marrying
Look I'm an @sshole. I don't think anyone should be treated special if they aren't actually special. From the way you described her, you never saw her as a somebody worth dating. Why? Cause nobody would call that person, "average in the face with an A1 body." So you committed the first cardinal sin by leading her on.
She fukked up by the way she communicated that she was putting you on a time limit. A woman who was really mature about her feelings wouldn't have had to verbally state anything. Why? They just wouldn't have put themselves in situations that would've lead the man into believing he would smash. Date night? Go back to the crib after? Kissing on the couch? How's that man not look at you with the
Her exact words should've been, "I don't know you well enough to open myself up for sex." To which everyone in the world would've just been like, "So why the fukk are you making out with him at his crib, after y'all went on a date, late at night? You see, the environment calls for 3 infractions on her part. Every dude is trying to get some late at night when they're with a chick. Every dude is trying to get some after a date (if the chemistry leads to that). Every dude is trying to get some if he gets a chick back to his crib. OP hit the TRIFECTA, and she's surprised that he reacts that way to "taking it slow?"
The way she thought she was in the right in that situation, is EXACTLY why guys like me say its so easy to spit G. Y'all DON'T think. You just feel your emotions and morals validate every situation you're in. But y'all don't SEE how that man has set you up for a sex since he first asked you what your name is.
Throw her in the bushes for being 28 and that naive. Not cause she doesn't wanna have sex.
Basically be a cold, calculated dude from meeting up to sex. Gotcha.
I'ma try and help you out OP, but I'm not gonna be biased cause you did fukk up.
First, why are you going out on dates with chicks you're just trying to smash? I don't get that and never will. Two rules nikkas violate on the regular:
- wining and dining regular chicks just to smash and fill the roster out
- fukkn chicks raw that they have no intention of marrying
Look I'm an @sshole. I don't think anyone should be treated special if they aren't actually special. From the way you described her, you never saw her as a somebody worth dating. Why? Cause nobody would call that person, "average in the face with an A1 body." So you committed the first cardinal sin by leading her on.
She fukked up by the way she communicated that she was putting you on a time limit. A woman who was really mature about her feelings wouldn't have had to verbally state anything. Why? They just wouldn't have put themselves in situations that would've lead the man into believing he would smash. Date night? Go back to the crib after? Kissing on the couch? How's that man not look at you with the
Her exact words should've been, "I don't know you well enough to open myself up for sex." To which everyone in the world would've just been like, "So why the fukk are you making out with him at his crib, after y'all went on a date, late at night? You see, the environment calls for 3 infractions on her part. Every dude is trying to get some late at night when they're with a chick. Every dude is trying to get some after a date (if the chemistry leads to that). Every dude is trying to get some if he gets a chick back to his crib. OP hit the TRIFECTA, and she's surprised that he reacts that way to "taking it slow?"
The way she thought she was in the right in that situation, is EXACTLY why guys like me say its so easy to spit G. Y'all DON'T think. You just feel your emotions and morals validate every situation you're in. But y'all don't SEE how that man has set you up for a sex since he first asked you what your name is.
Throw her in the bushes for being 28 and that naive. Not cause she doesn't wanna have sex.
You say a lot of righteous things, but i do see her as being possibly worth dating. I will say she would probably be in last place amongst all my ex's (looks wise). She the type you would need and expect a lot of cooperation, great chemistry and things to flow nicely. Any hangups you'd be ready to throw her in the bushes. I think she just messed up the flow with her statement.
Yea, you're right. I definitely shouldn't having been financing all of those dates. That's azz tho
