True or Untrue: Anyone who has kids before being financially successful is selfish
- Thread starter MAKAVELI25
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Note: Obviously I'm not talking about people who were well-off beforehand and fell on tough times. I know some idiots are going to try to point out obviously unique instances
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john goodman
All Star
Financially successful ?
Most people arent smart or hard working enough to ever get there
Family is one of their few pleasures...
Most people arent smart or hard working enough to ever get there
Family is one of their few pleasures...
Eastside Get The Money
Veteran
... or horny
Eastside Get The Money
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Then they shouldn't have kids. Which is the point of this thread. You think your mom liked raising you and your siblings in the hood?
So because of your location you shouldn't have kids?
shyt I was raised in the hood but as soon as my mom could afford to get us out we were ghost.
Plus a decent age to start considering kids is 25ish, and most 25 year olds (except coli nikkas who banking 6 figs and got pawgs on deck
) ain't set like that yet
Then they shouldn't have kids, is it really that hard to understand?
Having kids isn't something you should do JUST because they are a pleasure/seem fun, I don't understand why that's such a complicated concept
So because of your location you shouldn't have kids?
shyt I was raised in the hood but as soon as my mom could afford to get us out we were ghost.
Ummmm, yeah. If we're talking the traditional hood with high crime rates, bad schools, and things of the like, you prolly wouldn't want to raise kids there 
HarlemsOwn
RIP Fresh
u know what. i just hoped out the shower. and ths shyt was still on my mind. and i was gonna bump it. but i said fukk it
this nikka @MAKAVELI25 a fukkin lame ass nikka
just because of your social status you cant enjoy the beauty of life?
some ppl who are ppor buss they ass all day. they stressed out. the only enjoyment they get is seeing their kids smile
you bytch ass nikka
this nikka @MAKAVELI25 a fukkin lame ass nikka
just because of your social status you cant enjoy the beauty of life?
some ppl who are ppor buss they ass all day. they stressed out. the only enjoyment they get is seeing their kids smile
you bytch ass nikka
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You sound emotionally fragile, friend. Were you raised in a fatherless household? 
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Then they shouldn't have kids, is it really that hard to understand?
condoms break birth control stops working....
If the couple can't financially afford to have the kid they should
a. give it up
b. abort it
Remember, I'm not saying that you need to be a millionaire to have kids. But if you are struggling to support yourself then adding a kid in to mixture only makes things worse
Doobie Doo
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I'm harder on the woman in this situation than the dudes cuz women have the final say in the matter of a baby being born or not. Plenty of men have fukked brawds then accidentally knocked them up then didn't want the kid despite the woman's wishes.
People who have kids when they aren't financial sound don't realize how the cycle works. You got a woman having multiple kids and if she's a single parent with a deadbeat baby daddy then she might be forced to work multiple jobs leaving the kids at home to fend for themselves then wonder why the streets got to him.
People who have kids when they aren't financial sound don't realize how the cycle works. You got a woman having multiple kids and if she's a single parent with a deadbeat baby daddy then she might be forced to work multiple jobs leaving the kids at home to fend for themselves then wonder why the streets got to him.
cleanface coney
Superstar
its kinda selfish imo but i understand people who make mistakes or some people bussing they ass to provide for the kid...lol but what was you doin before you had a baby? if you was broke by yourself why bring something into this world just to be even more broke? i see this all the time too wit my nikkas/homegirls i realized some people get too caught up in they current situations at that moment not thinking about the future
I get what the OP is saying but at the same time finding a balance between the right age and being financially stable is basically impossible these days. Unless ur a 6 figure IT coli nikka of course . You wait till youre completely stable then all of a sudden your 40 years old running around with a bunch of toddlers. To me thats just as bad if not worse.
. You wait till youre completely stable then all of a sudden your 40 years old running around with a bunch of toddlers. To me thats just as bad if not worse.