Not all men want a serious relationship or want to deal with these chicks on a deep personal and spiritual level.
Sometimes you may just want a "friends with benefits" type situation where you break her off a lil sumthin, pay a bill here and there in return for some puzzy.
The mistake dudes be making is not being upfront with this scenario. He's spending, spending and spending and not getting anything in return because he's not being real about what he wants in return.
There are LOTS of females who are down with that, you just gotta be upfront about what you eventually want in return
you never buy women nuffin.
I could see if we both got a successful business and we spend on each other as a successful sales cycle closes and we made profit.
past that a female can forget it.
it is very few cool ass females, who opening the shopper swap club agreement and voluntarily going to cop you new jordans on the exclusive side and you never asked and she on some just because shyt.
till females get on some voluntary reciprocating gift buying shyt.
a female can forget me ever buying anything for her.
real talk.
if I want prostitute sex I know how to do that, cause I been hosting private strip shows since 17.
past that lockdown shyt and in only extreme cases of witnessing some female stallion in that environment that perks my interest on some feral aw got damn we paying today shyt.
past seeing some type of female like that, I don't shell out bread for a female. They do not respect none of that romance shyt and only use it to take.
So you better off just being social and fi ding a mate who likes you physically and is secure enough to engage in a mating based setup. Especially in this death of a real gf based age going on now.
where women who are attractive seem to have all did extras and have no virtue to ever be committed to ever.
as nowadays most females sold their virtue and men only value a female's virtue.
if you do not value or know the worth of female virtue you not a man, simple as that.
you should know the difference between a virtue based committals and a virtue lacking non-committal.
any female hinged on dating is a non-committal.
women with sound relationships and sound solid relationship with real committals do not date like that.
women who need to go out are damaged by some past boyfriend who wronged them that they still playing coochie coupon games on some treat me right long con bullshyt.
Nobody with sound relationship skills is committing to those old school white soft John ideals of romance and simpery.
art barr