is the tradition still that the man ask the mom or parents for their blessing before he pops the question. For the married men or the ones who have been married, did you ask her parents for their blessing
on a sidenote a man should never hear the answer "no" when proposing because the topic should have been discussed before hand and every man should already know what his girl is going to say
on a sidenote a man should never hear the answer "no" when proposing because the topic should have been discussed before hand and every man should already know what his girl is going to say