To all the married men: Did you ask for her parents blessing before proposing

AllHolosEve

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! a!nt never been marr!ed but ! was engaged & d!dnt talk to pops about sh!t, but he does l!ve !n Arizona & !ll be damned !f !m go!n all that way just to ask perm!ss!on to keep bang!n out h!s daughter when !m go!n to no matter what he says....
 

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! a!nt never been marr!ed but ! was engaged & d!dnt talk to pops about sh!t, but he does l!ve !n Arizona & !ll be damned !f !m go!n all that way just to ask perm!ss!on to keep bang!n out h!s daughter when !m go!n to no matter what he says....


ever heard of a phone:comeon:


but then again maybe your attitude is why you didnt make it pas the engagement part:comeon:
 

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Me and my mother in law are and have been hella cool from the jump so she actually gave me her blessing before I even thought about popping the question.

I kinda more so told her Dad. It wasn't me asking for his blessings.

It was more like, "I'm going to marry your Daughter, You cool with that? :ld:"
 

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Yeah, I did, but the circumstances were a lil different.

Her father was in her life but in a limited capacity so he had no "jurisdiction" on the matter. Instead, I "ran" it by her mother, grandmother and younger brother (since he was the "man" of the family). Notice that I didn't ask shyt bc, as the OP said, my wife and I already discussed marriage at length prior. I wasn't about providing misplaced authority to anyone.
 

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ever heard of a phone:comeon:
but then again maybe your attitude is why you didnt make it pas the engagement part:comeon:

my att!tude !s a lot of !t.... she grew up r!ch, that whole facade they put up to f!t !n & look good s!ckened me, tr!ed to change my whole ex!stence from wardrobe to speech to att!tude, actually tr!ed to tell me what ! should feel about sh!t l!ke ! cant have an op!n!on, !f !m not @ a job !nterv!ew fukk that sh!t... tr!ed to abercromb!e & f!tch me out, thought she could tra!n & change me, !m no b!tches pet...

never even met her dad, he l!ves half the year !n 1 state then sw!tches to another depend!n on the weather, only comes here 1nce a year & !ts a fam!ly exclus!ve th!ng... !da never seen dude t!l AFTER ! marr!ed the ch!ck, weda probably met for the 1st t!me at the wedd!ng, ! wouldnt do th!s over the phone anyways...
 

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my att!tude !s a lot of !t.... she grew up r!ch, that whole facade they put up to f!t !n & look good s!ckened me, tr!ed to change my whole ex!stence from wardrobe to speech to att!tude, actually tr!ed to tell me what ! should feel about sh!t l!ke ! cant have an op!n!on, !f !m not @ a job !nterv!ew fukk that sh!t... tr!ed to abercromb!e & f!tch me out, thought she could tra!n & change me, !m no b!tches pet...

never even met her dad, he l!ves half the year !n 1 state then sw!tches to another depend!n on the weather, only comes here 1nce a year & !ts a fam!ly exclus!ve th!ng... !da never seen dude t!l AFTER ! marr!ed the ch!ck, weda probably met for the 1st t!me at the wedd!ng, ! wouldnt do th!s over the phone anyways...
Your posts give me a headache. keyboards are cheap.
 

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her mom loved me from the get go but i proposed too my wife at walmart in aisle in front of people :whew:

the nice thing bout it was it snowed right afterwards and i went to her mom house and asked for her blessing which she gave me and was really happy bout it :win:
 

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I couldn't ask her father since he's no longer living but I asked her uncle, grandma, and her older brother. They all gave me their blessing.
 
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