tired of females asking me.. "what do you do for living"

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mcdivit85 said:
This doesn't bother me since in many cases I see it as just a conversation piece. Now, if she's asking you within the first few questions of ever meeting you, then that's a rd flag. But if you've two have had a conversation or two, then I don't see the problem. I mean, isn't what you do apart of your everyday life? Isn't the sum of what you do everyday a large component of who you are and how you identify?

Besides, in most cases, I've asked women what they do before they ask me. Part of it is simply a conversation piece to understand what type of field she works in, why she works in it and what made her go in that direction. To me, that helps me understand her personality better. Because if she's a teacher that tells me one thing versus if she's an engineer.

And to be honest, another part of it is me gauging where she falls on the socioeconomic scale. Not because I'm looking to rip her off or because I'm looking for a free ride. Moreso because I want to see if our lives and lifestyles are compatible.

The reality is, a banker and an IT worker probably work better than a banker and round-the-way haridresser. Is one better than the other? Not at all, but two different lifestyles and two different views on how to make money can cause issues for people who are entrenched in their own views.

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Depends on the female,with some it will be judgemental even if she has a job at a similar level to you, some females despite being well off themselves with a good job like to aim higher in terms of a mans earning potential, profession ,and have completely unrealistic expectations which is why they struggle to get a boyfriend. With others it is about blatant gold digging, you could have a face like a slapped bum,and if you are fukking loaded with money she will be on your like a fly on shyt. However there are females who just use that line for conversation, I often ask females that ,as a way to get to know them, doesn't mean I want to live off them. Anyway I always play down what I do for a living,anything that gives clues to my finances, I don't make myself out to be a broke bum, certainly don't dress like one, but I don't flaunt it either,because there are some real two faced c*nts out there. If she likes the average wage me, I know she is interested for the right reasons.
 
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I've dated women who went for their doctorates,worked in law firms,did contracting etc and even though they made $$$ they had serious character flaws.On otherhand I met teachers,bank tellers and cashiers who were down to earth. Im not saying one class is better then the other,lets say one group seeme more stuck up the others :shaq2:
 
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Most females can't grasp what I do (or people in general) so I give a real baseline response with minimal detail.
 
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