InGodWeTrust
Tall & Handsome in ATL
Yall too old to be having this conversation
I think you are doing your d!ck a disservice. The nasty talk paints a picture and gets brings their mind along for the ride as well (no pun intended). I'm biased, but I think my dikk leads to more nuts when I layer in the sex talk.Real Gs move in silence, I let the D do all the talkin
I think you are doing your d!ck a disservice. The nasty talk paints a picture and gets brings their mind along for the ride as well (no pun intended). I'm biased, but I think my dikk leads to more nuts when I layer in the sex talk.
But yeah, back to the original comment, some stuff I'd add ist that it's less about talking smack and bragging on my dikk like a pornstar. Personally, I find that w/ women (and likely just sex in general), the more taboo the situation seems, the more of a turn on it is. That's why racists jerk off to black porn, militant nikkas jerk off to PAWGs, homophobic dudes watch transgender, etc.
So in terms of taboo scenarios, if you know the chick, ask yourself what scenarios would she like to do if no one would judge her for it, and that can lead to easy sex-talk that gets her more turned on. Women in power in the boardroom often want to reliquensh it in the bedroom. Women worshipped online wanted to be treated nasty offline, etc.
Alternatively, some random tried-and-true generic scenarios re: getting caught/getting caught out:
You gotta know what to say as well. I feel like I got 'tried and true' go-to's that I refined over time, but I am pretty confident in what lines do the trick under normal settings (and also reading the room if the girl's reaction isn't immediately getting hornier).
- if you're fukking in a semi-public place like over a balcony, then mention that someone might see her and how risky it is
- If you're fukking at your parents house, then mid-stroke, tell her she better keep quiet or else others will hear
- If she's not on birth control (and you guys have both been tested and alla that) then mid-stroke, telling her to slow down or you finna bust in her does the trick
Also, once you know what your partner likes, how you do the dirty talk is just as important as what you say. So if they're riding me, I'll grab the nape of their neck and pull it to my mouth (also makes it easier to hit the G-spot in that angle for me). If we're doing some prone-bone then I'll wrap my hand around their throat and pull their ear to my lips and talk while I stroke.
Lastly, when she is getting close, it really opens up the playbook:
- If I'm about to bust too, I'll tell her I'm close but that I'm tryina stop myself from cumming so she needs to 'stop fvcking moving' and then try to stop her from moving completely. Being that she's so close and all movement has stopped while she's teetering on the edge, something as simple as flexing my d!ck when I'm inside her can push her over the edge.
- Another fakeout move is to whisper it in her ear that you are about to bust and then hit her w/ some fake vinegar strokes lol. I think that when girls feel you cumming, that often gets them alllmost to the edge, so if you didn't actually bust, it's easy to just push her over the edge.
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