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breh body language glaring etc it almost looks like a parent and her son
Tia Mowry files for divorce after 14 years of marriage
- Thread starter dtownreppin214
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breh body language glaring etc it almost looks like a parent and her son
That unhappy relationship that you saying folks should stay in because they have kids has the potential to impact the kids just as worse as you and your partner going your separate ways.
xXOGLEGENDXx
Superstar
Again that is lazy. Accepting that you are unhappy and blaming another is lazy. If you are unhappy, then do the work to correct it. At least try. Get therapy, become self aware, do something. But most women just knee jerk react and say, "I'm not happy and it's his fault, I'm out."
You owe it to yourself, your children and your spouse to do some work. Problem is people are too lazy especially when they feel like it's other people's responsibility to make them happy. You signed the contract that stated "For better or worse"
Sometimes none of that shyt works. People go to therapy and still cant fix their relationship and once again staying in a fukked up situation can be just as worse for the kids then separation. You also keep zeroing in on one partner, both people can be unhappy then what........ Fight like cats and dogs in front of the kids, til one of yall hurt each other or snap
Sound like you live in a fantasy world to me with this absolute thinking you have. Every situation is different and its not a guide or book to relationships some times shyt doesn't work out
xXOGLEGENDXx
Superstar
If you think most couples go to therapy before divorce, then you are the one living in a fantasy.
Studies have found that roughly 75-80% of married couples that attempt therapy are successful.
Same studies found that roughly only 10% of divorced couples even attempted therapy prior to divorcing.
Dr. John Gottman conducted a study and found that on average, couples wait about six years after being unhappy to seek therapy. That's not good enough.
So if you aren't even willing to try, then I will call you a homewrecker, man or woman. But 70% of divorces are filed by women. And 80% of divorces are filed under No-Fault/Irreconcilable Differences.
Make that make sense.
What I am trying to say is there is not some unknown supernatural unstoppable force that makes people want to split. Everyone needs to be accountable for their actions or lack thereof. One thing consistent with long lasting, happy couples is they will tell you it's work. You have to put in work instead of sitting back and waiting to feel happy again. Problem is most people today are lazy and too prideful.
You don't just "Stay in a fukked up situation"
You either work to better it or leave. Most people just accept their fate and leave
Black women never divorce white men. They would rather die...But the one who married white is still going strong
Is this a woman who was fully CHECKED INTO the marriage?
Yβalls energy was very very different when Ayesha Curry was doing similar
Aha!
Where was her husband while she was taking these pics? Working hard for the family or passed out from drinking?
Anyway, those are the eyes of a woman who is desperate for attention. Imagine being married and posting pics like this for ANYONE. Not a side nikka - ANYONE.
Wow.
that's a lot to assume. in the lil 4 minute clip below they reasonably start speaking when it sounds like the other is done just like in the cropped IG clip
she was speaking. he started speaking. he'd gone on for about a minute, paused, she started speaking and he continued & told her to let him finish.
@ 1:29 she interrupts him about being in love with him and he starts blushing. i think people are reading more into things. i do not think he's an abusive, alcoholic Ike Turner, and she's not tryna wear the pants.
if he's honest there was no cheating i can see them trying to work it out
Doobie Doo
Veteran
Maybe nothing happened and they decided to split before it came to that. Everything doesn't have to end in some epic dramatic fashion (Not saying theirs did or didn't)
The D-List Vet
Being in a recommendation system.
She half black
African Peasant
Veteran
A wise woman don't divorce just because of that.
What should wise women who are married to cheating men do instead?
African Peasant
Veteran
Try to save their marriage and their family?
If woman divorced just because the man cheated (outside of some crazy circumstances like family members and all that), it means she was looking for a pretext.
African Peasant
Veteran
Well...Is this a woman who was fully CHECKED INTO the marriage?
Yβalls energy was very very different when Ayesha Curry was doing similar