You guys need to learn to use logic.
Women will generally continue to put out these messages if they see benefit or reward. Since the shaming culture is generally directed at men, there are no negative social consequences for them saying this.
Male power is withholding romance, not sex. Give them something to pine for and also socially shame their bad behavior and you can check their sexual power.
We do this as men and we can put an end to most simp culture in our lifetimes and rebalance things which are now ridiculously in womens favor