This Baby Mama/Baby Daddy Culture

[Mr. Jack Napier]

It's a simple fix. Choose your sexual mate better use birth control.

 

[ROFL_GUY]

Spending $ on rubberschild support

All your $ to yourselfchild support

“Freedom” child support

80in TV on salechild support

Piece of mindchild support

PS5 digital editionchild support

Model 3 performancechild support

I can feel the loneliness

Keep justifying money is yiur happiness

Hollow "man"

 

[Robo Squirrel]

nikkas on child support are the ones purchasing PS5 digital consoles breh.

@GilSho

Dap+reputation

 

[BaileyPark31]

Exactly.

"Co-parenting" also means that the two parents have to be able to afford two separate households to raise their children.

So, how can we exist on the bottom of the economic ladder as a people, yet then advocate that we have the financial means to maintain two households for our children? Make it make sense.

Meanwhile, the majority of white and Asian-American children in the nation are raised by their married parents in the same household.

Men are leaders.

Black men must lead on this issue.

Spiritually speaking, a woman is of a man's "rib"; A comapanion to journey through this life and bring forth offspring, a different perspective, support, and feminine energy to the family unit.

The hetero family unit won't survive in a natural way if the man won't or cant focus himself on creating this unit with one woman...... without guidance and affection the woman will seek what is her natural duty with another.

** when I say natural I'm talking about the boy meets girl type of courting we have in this country. ... other family units like arranged marriages and polygamy can work too **

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Interesting that our families started breaking up at the same time as “integration.”

Actually it’s when they opened access to public assistance.

 

[semicko82]

One of the Current chicks I’m smashing was with her kids father 6 years they have a 5 year old daughter. She says she felt she could of got more out the relationship and from dude as a father , so they eventually break up. and what does she do? she lets the nikka knock her up again so now she has a 5 year old and a one year old by this same dude she works ft and the kids are with her when she’s not working except Saturdays they spend the night with the father. Now you’ve created this situation for yourself & kids with someone you don’t want to be with and this same dude popped off another chick these chicks so dumb

She sounds like a headache, why would you want to be with her?

 

[Eternally Jaded]

I agree with most of you said, but you said black children need stable supportive families and a balanced marriage is not completely realistic which is what I disagree with. Marriage can work if both men and women put both their bullshyt to the side to do one thing and that's raise kids and put them first before anything. Co-parenting when the child is not living with both of his biological parents, but with just one of them is not a solution we should keep pushing.

Morally agree but intellectually disagree with parts of this.
If parents put each other first, then by default the kids will be supported first in love, as extensions of both, and secondly in mental and emotional health, as children raised in a home where the parents love and cherish each other will see what a healthy amorous relationship looks like.
You can't build what you've never seen.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

I can feel the loneliness

Keep justifying money is yiur happiness

Hollow "man"

bytch who said anything about happiness. I know the reading comprehension level on the Coli is sub 5th grader status, but I know you can do better than this.

Even with a “hall of shame” tag, you have it in you to work harder if you’re going to go out of your way to quote my post breh.

Cmon.

For one day only, I’ll be that person who believes in you. Now, I know you aren’t used to people believing in you but for Father’s Day, I’ll do a solid for you and any other poster on the Coli who has exhibited an exceptional need for encouragement.

It’s still early. The day is young.

You got this. I’m counting on you.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I can feel the loneliness

Keep justifying money is yiur happiness

Hollow "man"

Ain’t you a Hispanic CAC? You’ve probably got 10 Pedros running around already.

 

[semicko82]

First off, the "Baby Mama/Baby Daddy" culture is an an effect of sexual irresponsibility and lack of personal accountability. You can't address one issue without looking at the others. We are willing to have unsafe sex with one another, but not accept the consequences that come with those actions. So either we need to be more selective who we have sex with or have discussions about "what happens if..." Black children need stable, supportive families. While a happy, balanced marriage is ideal, it's not completely realistic in these times, so I feel effective co-parenting is a beneficial solution.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

She sounds like a headache, why would you want to be with her?

He’s smashing. Not trying to be with her.

 

[semicko82]

He’s smashing. Not trying to be with her.

Ok gotcha

 

[semicko82]

It's a simple fix. Choose your sexual mate better use birth control.

Grand opening grand closing

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Depression can be attributed to this recklessness too. Blk dudes fukking away the pain, blk chicks trying to interpret pump and dump as love.

Poverty, poor outlook on life, depression, lack of opportunity, toxic environments, loneliness, mental health, low self esteem, lack of access to healthcare, glorification other dysfunction, drugs, all contribute to broken families. All apart of systemic white supremacy.

 

[ROFL_GUY]

bytch who said anything about happiness. I know the reading comprehension level on the Coli is sub 5th grader status, but I know you can do better than this.

Even with a “hall of shame” tag, you have it in you to work harder if you’re going to go out of your way to quote my post breh.

Cmon.

For one day only, I’ll be that person who believes in you. Now, I know you aren’t used to people believing in you but for Father’s Day, I’ll do a solid for you and any other poster on the Coli who has exhibited an exceptional need for encouragement.

It’s still early. The day is young.

You got this. I’m counting on you.