This Baby Mama/Baby Daddy Culture

[Rawtid]

First off, the "Baby Mama/Baby Daddy" culture is an an effect of sexual irresponsibility and lack of personal accountability. You can't address one issue without looking at the others. We are willing to have unsafe sex with one another, but not accept the consequences that come with those actions. So either we need to be more selective who we have sex with or have discussions about "what happens if..." Black children need stable, supportive families. While a happy, balanced marriage is ideal, it's not completely realistic in these times, so I feel effective co-parenting is a beneficial solution.

 

[BiggWebb79]

Interesting that our families started breaking up at the same time as “integration.”

And started to skyrocket when the prison industrial system took off due to Nixon's Law and Order and Regan's War on Drugs campaign.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Yeah but the war didn’t even start until ‘65.

Integration started 10 years earlier and you can see it reflected on the graph.

The Vietnam war most definitely played a role in continuing the spike though.

Look at the mexican chart that started in the 90s then spiked..

Looks like thats implying american culture fcks up family values..

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Spending $ on rubberschild support

All your $ to yourselfchild support

“Freedom” child support

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I’m not gonna lie, I’ve been reckless in the past. When I look at the luxuries I’ve been able to buy with my disposable income, I give praise to my pullout game.

Just thinking about how much child support could’ve been garnished from my pay check makes me .

 

[Mike18jj]

First off, the "Baby Mama/Baby Daddy" culture is an an effect of sexual irresponsibility and lack of personal accountability. You can't address one issue without looking at the others. We are willing to have unsafe sex with one another, but not accept the consequences that come with those actions. So either we need to be more selective who we have sex with or have discussions about "what happens if..." Black children need stable, supportive families. While a happy, balanced marriage is ideal, it's not completely realistic in these times, so I feel effective co-parenting is a beneficial solution.

I agree with most of you said, but you said black children need stable supportive families and a balanced marriage is not completely realistic which is what I disagree with. Marriage can work if both men and women put both their bullshyt to the side to do one thing and that's raise kids and put them first before anything. Co-parenting when the child is not living with both of his biological parents, but with just one of them is not a solution we should keep pushing.

 

[tuckgod]

Look at the mexican chart that started in the 90s then spiked..

Looks like thats implying american culture fcks up family values..

Yep, I was thinking the same thing

 

[Rawtid]

I agree with most of you said, but you said black children need stable supportive families and a balanced marriage is not completely realistic which is what I disagree with. Marriage can work if both men and women put both their bullshyt to the side to do one thing and that's raise kids and put them first before anything. Co-parenting when the child is not living with both of his biological parents, but with just one of them is not a solution we should keep pushing.

I don't disagree with you, but it's just not realistic from my viewpoint of the world. Marriage is on the decline and a lot of relationships are simply toxic. Couples are absolutely miserable and staying together "just for the kids", is not a viable solution either. We saw the increase in domestic violence during the COVID lock down. I'd much rather a child split time between parents than see the two of them arguing constantly.

 

[Wear My Dawg's Hat]

Co-parenting when the child is not living with both of his biological parents, but with just one of them is not a solution we should keep pushing.

Exactly.

"Co-parenting" also means that the two parents have to be able to afford two separate households to raise their children.

So, how can we exist on the bottom of the economic ladder as a people, yet then advocate that we have the financial means to maintain two households for our children? Make it make sense.

Meanwhile, the majority of white and Asian-American children in the nation are raised by their married parents in the same household.

 

[Yapdatfool]

I don't disagree with you, but it's just not realistic from my viewpoint of the world. Marriage is on the decline and a lot of relationships are simply toxic. Couples are absolutely miserable and staying together "just for the kids", is not a viable solution either. We saw the increase in domestic violence during the COVID lock down. I'd much rather a child split time between parents that see the two of them arguing constantly.

Didn't child abuse also go up during COVID-19 lock down or na?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

For that to change, the music has to change.

Future 6 kids
Nba youngboy 7kids

 

[GilSho]

"Safe sex is great sex, better wear a latex
Cuz you don't want that late text, That 'I think I'm late text'"

He may be a c00n but I took that line to heart.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Spending $ on rubberschild support

All your $ to yourselfchild support

“Freedom” child support

80in TV on salechild support

Piece of mindchild support

PS5 digital editionchild support

Model 3 performancechild support

nikkas on child support are the ones purchasing PS5 digital consoles breh.

 

[King Poetic]

First off, the "Baby Mama/Baby Daddy" culture is an an effect of sexual irresponsibility and lack of personal accountability. You can't address one issue without looking at the others. We are willing to have unsafe sex with one another, but not accept the consequences that come with those actions. So either we need to be more selective who we have sex with or have discussions about "what happens if..." Black children need stable, supportive families. While a happy, balanced marriage is ideal, it's not completely realistic in these times, so I feel effective co-parenting is a beneficial solution.

That’s the biggest issue

But when u have welfare and section 8 around, then a lot of these women and men Know they can rely on that

guarantee if the government eliminate majority of welfare for people under 40 , you’ll see a lot more people making better decisions on who they fukk

 

[Atlrocafella]

Spending $ on rubberschild support

All your $ to yourselfchild support

“Freedom” child support

80in TV on salechild support

Piece of mindchild support

PS5 digital editionchild support

Model 3 performancechild support

Everyday I thank God for no child support payments

 

[010101]

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