This Baby Mama/Baby Daddy Culture

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PS5 digital edition:hula:child support
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Too many options out here condoms and bc to end up a single parent. Some people are young and slip up, not my style but it happens. But to more than one kid? That’s just stupidity and perpetuating a cycle.

Some people don’t care about who they have kids with, or whether the other parent will be responsible/there. Then you have people who know the dad won’t be around and they still have it. Some people don’t care about marriage or serous relationships and can or want to co-parent but I’m not having a kid with/by someone who doesn’t take me seriously enough to marry me. I don’t see myself tethering to another person for 18+ years just because we enjoy each other’s sex.
 

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Men are leaders.

Black men must lead on this issue.

Spiritually speaking, a woman is of a man's "rib"; A comapanion to journey through this life and bring forth offspring, a different perspective, support, and feminine energy to the family unit.

The hetero family unit won't survive in a natural way if the man won't or cant focus himself on creating this unit with one woman...... without guidance and affection the woman will seek what is her natural duty with another.

** when I say natural I'm talking about the boy meets girl type of courting we have in this country. ... other family units like arranged marriages and polygamy can work too **

Understood, but over 50 years of government policies, laws and cultural choices have placed single-mother headed
families as the preferred family structure.

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Yes. My point was that cohabitating, married or otherwise isn’t good if the environment is toxic and especially not just for the kids. That’s often taken out on them.

Wasn't refuting nor disagreeing what you said originally, just adding on.
 

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Interesting that our families started breaking up at the same time as “integration.”

Notice how upper middle class white feminists always be like "It's ok to choose to raise your child alone, and there's no shame in being a single mother", but the vast majority of upper middle class liberal white feminists either have kids with their HUSBANDS or don't have them at all.
:mjpls:

You can blame welfare, drugs,and white feminism for that.
By design by "yalls" liberals
 

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The hilarious thing is it's still very possible to be sexually irresponsible, fukk everything that moves, and NOT create kids. All kinds of contraceptives are out there (especially for women) but dumbasses don't use them.

Ultimately the most viable solution in our current society would be male contraception in pill or cream form. :ohlawd:


You can be damn sure no man would forget to take it or come up with excuses why they can't use it. The single mother population would fall through the floor.


Coli microbiologists need to get on this. :ufdup:
We need SOME kind of mandatory birth control, male or female. Needs to be administered like the fukin flu shot and you gotta pay to reverse it. Only downside is crackas will use it against us and our numbers will probably decrease, but fuk it..rather have quality than quantity. All we getting now is a trail of parentless kids with video games and social media teaching them life. Can a brother see more positive black families in real life with a mother/father/kids that know and act like what fukin gender they are?
 

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We need SOME kind of mandatory birth control, male or female. Needs to be administered like the fukin flu shot and you gotta pay to reverse it. Only downside is crackas will use it against us and our numbers will probably decrease, but fuk it..rather have quality than quantity. All we getting now is a trail of parentless kids with video games and social media teaching them life. Can a brother see more positive black families in real life with a mother/father/kids that know and act like what fukin gender they are?

They also need parenting tests/licenses, everyone isn’t meant to be a parent.
 

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They also need parenting tests/licenses, everyone isn’t meant to be a parent.
Honestly, a license ain’t gonna do much...you got peeps driving without licenses, carrying guns without licenses...the limit has to be physical...
 

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Honestly, a license ain’t gonna do much...you got peeps driving without licenses, carrying guns without licenses...the limit has to be physical...
Yeah but that goes into eugenics and forced sterilization which I don’t believe in. I wish there was a way to require a certain level of maturity and limits for when a parent messes up the first time. Yes to fascism (kidding)
 
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