I feel you black, however you are mad/resent them because you didnt get any inheritance? Peace of mind has no price. If I had to shovel shyt into the wind on the hottest day of the year I would do it and be happy to do it, it is what I needed to do to get away from my ex.
Things you RESENT your family for...
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it's not about the inheritance, it's how everyone who was vibrant and happy and prosperous and excited by my parents marriage ended up being damaged because of their decision to split. my grandparents on both sides were OGs in brooklyn and had deep connections in EVERYTHING. my mother and father's union was like some ghetto fabulous black monarchy shyt in brooklyn. the decision they made to leave was hasty, both of them have admitted it since. i think if they would've thought things through and all that was at stake and all that was sacrificed for them they would've stayed together. my grandparents worked extremely hard and rested on the fact that my parents would be secure enough to take over and relieve them so they can retire. my mom is the type of woman who is spoiled, she is the baby of two girls and my father is an only child. they both were never really right after the split because when they were together, they took care of each other. some people need that in their lives. my father ended up being a womanizing drunk....still has a great job, but is unhappy with how his life turned out. my mother took that independent woman shyt to the extreme and now no man is good enough for her even though she's had some really good boyfriends.
what i resent is not the inheritance, it's the happiness that was wasted because nobody thought things through. yes my father cheated but he was a great father and he took care of us and truly loved my mother. he made a stupid mistake as young men do. my mom and dad are really cool, smart, people and since they left each other they seem unfulfilled. i look at them and wonder what could have been for them more than i do for myself.
The ONLY person who didnt think was your dad. He fukkED UP, not your mom, not your grandparents, your dad. HE messed up the situation trying to get some new puss. He needs to look in the mirror and realize his life is fukked up because the choices he made. There are consequences and repercussions in everything that you do. Your dad not thinking of those things is what fukked up your family. Place the blame and the resent me where it belongs squarely on your dad.
I was about to make this thread when I got off work.
I hate my family for being poor as shyt and doing nothing about it, then deciding to have kids. Then for not having a single respectable male figure in anyone's life in my family. All I got is women everywhere, and nikkas in and out of jail. nikkas gave me no fukking chance to make shyt of myself. I'm out here every God damn day trying to become better than everyone before, while still picking up the fukking pieces and crumbs of this bullshyt left behind.
Everybody leaning on me like I'm the fukking messiah.
This why I don't want kids.
This why I don't respect no one who had ANYTHING handed to them. All you silver spoon nikkas can eat a dikk.
This why I ALWAYS give what I can to ANY bum on the street, or any man selling flowers or newspapers or little kids that come up to me selling candy. I don't eat the shyt, but I love you, I will buy it. This why I live by the phrase someone always has it worse.
I remember always being told we couldn't afford it... Can't afford it. Kids got new bikes and video games and they scrounging threw the closet looking for old clothes to hand me.
I can go on forever. I remember lights being off in my crib and sleeping at other people's houses for a bit. Running extension cord out the windows to the nearest outlet.
No food in the crib for weeks. Eating ramekins noodles three times a day.
Told me if I got good grades in school I would be rewardednever believed them
fukk that shyt.
This. Electric always off. Very rarely had a phone. Mom was capable of working but public assistance was fine for her. Watching all of my friends having kids now made me realize that she never paid attention to us. As I said before, she never worked, but she never played with us or took us anywhere. Never took us to the pool we had at the apartments- never any quality time. Don't have kids if you don't want to be a parent. It sounds horrible, but she's no longer with us and I wasn't too broken up about it. All of those details are only the beginning......
Nearly all of the females in my family for constantly canceling plans and never getting anything together, unless someone dies.
Both of my parents for HORRIBLY managing their finances. It's disgusting. My father stayed spending car note and mortgage payments at the Casino and weedspot before my parents separated.
And my mother isn't much better. Almost every weekend shes out with some friends or a
date of hers, buying clothes, eating at restaurants, and paying for entertainment....but whenever we talk about taking a trip to meet with old family or upgrading her house that's falling apart she's crying poor.
Even if I only bring in $400-$500 a week I still manage my finances down to the penny and flip excess cash, every month my bank account is a couple hundred more than the one before. It's one thing when parents claim their want their offspring to do better than they did, but when you still have plenty of years left yourself to make big moves, and still don't get it...
Both of my parents for HORRIBLY managing their finances. It's disgusting. My father stayed spending car note and mortgage payments at the Casino and weedspot before my parents separated.
And my mother isn't much better. Almost every weekend shes out with some friends or a
date of hers, buying clothes, eating at restaurants, and paying for entertainment....but whenever we talk about taking a trip to meet with old family or upgrading her house that's falling apart she's crying poor.Even if I only bring in $400-$500 a week I still manage my finances down to the penny and flip excess cash, every month my bank account is a couple hundred more than the one before. It's one thing when parents claim their want their offspring to do better than they did, but when you still have plenty of years left yourself to make big moves, and still don't get it...
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- i resent my cousins for having serious inferiority complexes, not wanting more from their lives and hate on me for wanting to go the learned route.
- I resent my parents for ending their marriage for dumb ass reasons and not really trying to work on it for my sake.
- I resent my parents for ending their marriage for dumb ass reasons and not really trying to work on it for my sake.