They Really Don't Like Us!!! Another black Barneys shopper accused of credit card fraud

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Be real. Black men don't marry the mother of their children especially at the age of 21 :childplease: Blacks have the lowest marriage rates of any race and this coming from me will probably trigger anger but this forum is the perfect example of anti-marriage amongst black men.

Nobody is denying the statistics breh.
 

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Nobody is denying the statistics breh.

So it's an accurate assumption. :yeshrug: If I see a black woman with kids, I automatically assume she is unmarried. Doesn't mean the dad isn't in the kids life, but I'm sure I could find some evidence strongly supporting that as well. People at the age of 21 aren't getting married. You add in race and that number jumps exponentially.

Do you really think those kids are by the same father? :childplease:
 

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Because this is one of the contributing factors to being profiled.

Profiling is based off of negative stereotypes, which lead to unjust detaining or questioning.

Profiling is also a technique used to pinpoint criminals and potential wrong doers.

NEGATIVE stereotypes are horrible, but what happens when they become to be accurate?

In the 60s and before, they said blacks were savage monkeys. They were wrong, and we proved them to be extremely wrong with scientist, athletes, politicians and other gret thinkers.

Today, a racist would say, Kayla is likely a broke hood chick with 2 kids and no baby daddy.

What does it say about ourselves when they are RIGHT?

Perhaps this institutional mistreatment has contributed to, and controlled, the dysfunctional behavior and disillusionment among a racial category of people....no? Or maybe we just have a defective gene, present in blacks and only blacks, that genetically hardwires us to commit crimes and have babies out of wedlock.
 
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So it's an accurate assumption. :yeshrug: If I see a black woman with kids, I automatically assume she is unmarried. Doesn't mean the dad isn't in the kids life, but I'm sure I could find some evidence strongly supporting that as well. People at the age of 21 aren't getting married. You add in race and that number jumps exponentially.

Do you really think those kids are by the same father? :childplease:

I have no idea if they're by the same father, nor do I care. What matters is when you see her, all you see is a single mother. The same way that when white people see you, they see an ex-con or a high-school dropout. Whether or not it's accurate is completely missing the point.
 

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Every time a social injustice is done to a black person, there will be a handful of blacks that will start victim blaming. Whites can always count on this.
This thread went from a woman who legally made a purchase in a store and got harrassed because of nothing more than racial profiling, to said woman being a hoodrat single mother who is the face of everything wrong with black women today. Oh, and she is a bad parent on top of that, because she overextended herself by buying an overpriced bag with money she should have invested in the stock market, in order to lift the black race towards excellence and fix our societal ills.

There are white single mothers, white welfare recipients(the most, by the way), white criminals(street and white collar), plain dumb white people, financially dumb white people....i could go on and on. Yet, stereotypes dont stick on whites because they refuse to let stereotypes define them as a whole.

If you assume the worst about this woman,and likely would not have assumed she was a student trying to better herself unless the article told you so, yousa bytch.
 

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Every time a social injustice is done to a black person, there will be a handful of blacks that will start victim blaming. Whites can always count on this.
This thread went from a woman who legally made a purchase in a store and got harrassed because of nothing more than racial profiling, to said woman being a hoodrat single mother who is the face of everything wrong with black women today. Oh, and she is a bad parent on top of that, because she overextended herself by buying an overpriced bag with money she should have invested in the stock market, in order to lift the black race towards excellence and fix our societal ills.

There are white single mothers, white welfare recipients(the most, by the way), white criminals(street and white collar), plain dumb white people, financially dumb white people....i could go on and on. Yet, stereotypes dont stick on whites because they refuse to let stereotypes define them as a whole.

If you assume the worst about this woman,and likely would not have assumed she was a student trying to better herself unless the article told you so, yousa bytch.

News flash. The people making those statements are not black
 

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I have no idea if they're by the same father, nor do I care. What matters is when you see her, all you see is a single mother. The same way that when white people see you, they see an ex-con or a high-school dropout. Whether or not it's accurate is completely missing the point.

That isn't what I only see. I see a mother with a child who I assume is single. And accuracy does matter. :snoop: You have been bludgeoned with victimhood to the point where if I told you there was a 100% percent chance that a Mexican man was about to rob you, you'd call me racist and proceed to get rob. Even after the robbery you would feel bad about the racism and not the criminal act of someone forcibly taking your belongings.
 

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That isn't what I only see. I see a mother with a child who I assume is single. And accuracy does matter. :snoop:

Agree to disagree I guess.

You have been bludgeoned with victimhood to the point where if I told you there was a 100% percent chance that a Mexican man was about to rob you, you'd call me racist and proceed to get rob. Even after the robbery you would feel bad about the racism and not the criminal act of someone forcibly taking your belongings.

:dahell:
 

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Perhaps this institutional mistreatment has contributed to, and controlled, the dysfunctional behavior and disillusionment among a racial category of people....no? Or maybe we just have a defective gene, present in blacks and only blacks, that genetically hardwires us to commit crimes and have babies out of wedlock.

I think that your first statement may be accurate to a point. But, what do you do? Frequent these establishments to force some type of faux change, or begin to build SOLID PILLARS in our community? Change the way we think from the inside out?
 

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Agree to disagree I guess.



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If I have a 75% chance of getting mugged by a certain race at a certain time of day, I'll probably avoid that area. Now where that fear turns into irrationality is when is it carried over into hiring practices, profiling etc. Really this discussion is why I have a hard time with campaigns like "Teach Men not to Rape" and Stop Slut Shaming, etc. It misses the point where there needs to be balanced.
 
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This is the reason I couldn't stomach the other thread and the reason I'm SMH at some people's comments here.

So what if they spent $350 and $2500 respectively on stuff they wanted...it's THEIR MONEY! That's not the issue. Whatever qualms you have with that are yours.

The issue is them being profiled, discriminated against, and eventually seen as criminals for being paying customers in a store like everybody else.

Shyt reminds me of when I was still at school at Pitt. I went to quizno's to buy a sub...I told the clerk (a white guy) what I wanted and instead of just complying he tells me "you know that's a $5 sandwich, right" like my black ass couldn't afford a $5 sandwich. I yelled at his ass and told him to just make that shyt.

Sometimes, I wish these people doing this shyt would be honest and just say "we don't want you in our store"...but ofcourse if they were blunt like that they wouldn't hear the end of it and would just lose so much money in the process.
 
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I would hope not

Very black. Not a "c00n" bone in my body. Grew up on the rough side, for real, not for fake like most of the fake rappers/community leaders. I run with people who are actually trying to change the community, I just dont talk about it online.

I am tellling you, that we let ourselves get turned into "victims", passive victims who won't fix our flaws. We are not that, we are stronger than that. All we are saying to the next 15 year old chick is go have kids, and spend your cash on high end stores because they are now bound to accept your $.

They don't desrve our dollars, but news flash - they never did. It's not just this incidident, so this incident means nothing to me.

Now the young man who was arrested - that is different to me. He was actually arrested! His freedom was taken away! Not right...
 
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