What are the "right things" though? If it's upholding your own lifestyle and quality of life then yes we're supposed to be doing that anyway. But if the "right things" are in regards to how we interact with a woman were interested in, this board and real life observation have told me the #1 rule of the game = there are no rules, and/or they change based on who the woman is entertaining.
If a breh is doing the right things yet his dikk stays ashy while cats around him do the "wrong things" and go swimming, what is he going to do? Then when he switches up, but the insincerity of that act is sensed and women still ain't fukking with him, then what? You may not have this problem because you may fit into one of the couple/few prototypes sought by women. If a man doesn't, there's really no right or wrong M.O. and honestly that man will seldom see dating/sexual success.
shyt just making sense/clicking in my head now, but anything I say on this subject comes from brutal honesty. Thing is I'm still not dealing with them because I know until I'm perceived as a man of value I'll be wasting time, money and energy. But what's going today is clear to see and being on the starved side makes it even clearer.