There's so many single women out here

[Voice of Reason]

I only know and date black women so I can only talk on that..

why so many single

1. black women out numbered black men almost 2 to 1.... then u add the fact many brothers are in jail, dead or gay then your success of finding a brother lowers

2. black men with shyt going for them have options...I read black men with shyt going on for them have 1 to 6 advantage over Black women when it comes to dating... why settle down with just one, which is why so many sisters are single

3. many Black women (NOT ALL MOTHERfukkERS) in their 20s are so busy chasing the wrong dudes and not looking for mr responsible, honest, faithful and hardworking James cause right now that’s not exciting and they want what every other chick in they circle want a pretty motherfukker who look like Boris Kodjoe or playboy Eddie .. but that dude will not settle down with them and u just a nut and a baby holder and nothing more to them ... then these women are now in their 30s and 40s mad at black men and the world cause they single but don’t look in the mirror and realized u the one who picked the wrong route(nikka) while Pamela, Tasha picked the right brother from the start and living good with a family

after a certain age a lot of those women are content with being mistresses to married men

 

[Voice of Reason]

This shouldn’t come as a surprise. Black women vastly outnumber us. And there’s others factors. I’ve seen it firsthand with my own family members. A lot of them have been single for years. But when you think about all the black men who die each year, get locked up, are gay, or simply not available it adds up. Most black men who are relationship material and WANT to be in a relationship are taken. I see this in my own circle. Everybody whose worth a damn is in a relationship or has more women on the roster than they can handle

Black women don’t vastly out number men that is a myth

 

[King Poetic]

after a certain age a lot of those women are content with being mistresses to married men

I know a few and dated some women who was fukking married men only to be thrown in the bushes because they thought he was going to leave his wife for them

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Black women don’t vastly out number men that is a myth

Black women make up 52% of the black population. When you add in some of the factors I already mentioned it ain’t hard to figure out why so many are single

 

[Serious]

I agree with everything you stated here. Many Black women just don't know any better. By the time they figure it out, they are at a clear disadvantage in the dating marketplace.

Similarly, a lot of Black men aren't taught to value marriage and to see it as a wealth-building vehicle.

Ultimately, Black men and Black women lose by not settling down earlier. We miss out on a lot of opportunities to build wealth waiting to get married in our late 30s.

This ^^^

 

[newworldafro]

A whole lot of single black women.....that want to be married/in long term relationships with kids black women.

We've discussed every aspect of it on this site to ad nauseum.

This week is first time I've ever seen polyamory discussed on my FB timeline via this "Don't Rush" meme video.

• Very interesting discussion from men and women.
• Every woman wasn't against it.
• Every man wasn't for it.

#TeamLegalizedBigamy2020

 

[mamba]

A whole lot of single black women.....that want to be married/in long term relationships with kids black women.

We've discussed every aspect of it on this site to ad nauseum.

This week is first time I've ever seen polyamory discussed on my FB timeline via this "Don't Rush" meme video.

• Very interesting discussion from men and women.
• Every woman wasn't against it.
• Every man wasn't for it.

#TeamLegalizedBigamy2020

 

[mamba]

This shouldn’t come as a surprise. Black women vastly outnumber us. And there’s others factors. I’ve seen it firsthand with my own family members. A lot of them have been single for years. But when you think about all the black men who die each year, get locked up, are gay, or simply not available it adds up. Most black men who are relationship material and WANT to be in a relationship are taken. I see this in my own circle. Everybody whose worth a damn is in a relationship or has more women on the roster than they can handle

That part is key.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Loyalty men?

"18 a hr"

 

[mamba]

after a certain age a lot of those women are content with being mistresses to married men

It's pretty sad.

 

[AAKing23]

Black women don’t vastly out number men that is a myth

After age 30 they do, not so much under 30

 

[Genos]

I work with highly educated and successful women (at multiple jobs now).

Most of them do not give a fukk how much their boyfriend makes. The make their own money. They’d laugh at the thought of relying on a man to support them.

This is exactly my relationship now, my girlfriend makes at least 2x my salary, and I make good money for a nikka with no degree. Before I got with her almost every girl I dated was more successful than me and they didn't care.

 

[GhettoTeK]

And what is this woman bringing to a relationship?

p*ssy and a mouth. She probably has poor cooking skills too. Oh lord and her grammar? Nah she ought to invest in some education.

 

[AAKing23]

This is exactly my relationship now, my girlfriend makes at least 2x my salary, and I make good money for a nikka with no degree. Before I got with her almost every girl I dated was more successful than me and they didn't care.

I'm tryna get like you my breh

 

[Genos]

I'm tryna get like you my breh

Its good life, I paid off my debts, got my credit up, and have bought really anything I wanted that wasn't a big purchase. I have nothing to spend money on its crazy.