2. black men with shyt going for them have options...I read black men with shyt going on for them have 1 to 6 advantage over Black women when it comes to dating... why settle down with just one, which is why so many sisters are single
Yup. This is gospel. When I came out of college, I was struggling so badly financially, I planned to get married by my mid 20s. Because it made more sense financially to have cohabit and have stability.
Now that I’m older and established, it has changed my whole landscape of dating. I’m in that sweet spot where women from their early 20s to late 30s see me as a catch for different reasons.
When you’re broke, you feel compelled to grab anything you can. When you do well for yourself, the options are so vast, it would be silly to settle down so soon when time is on our side.
I can’t see myself even contemplating marriage until I reach my late 30s (a long way off). I’ll probably wife a woman in her mid to late 20s who’s baggage free by that time.