Wink Beaufield
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Them simp dudes with money done woke up and now they out here marrying them foreign joints.
There's so many single women out here
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PhillyzFinest
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This thread is an example of the damage done by society constantly coddling and lying to women when they're young. There will never be posts like this from a man that get any traction. Because society doesn't care. To quote Aubrey, "If you aint got it, you aint got it. The theory is amazing."
Basically, men on some level, understand that you have to work to get that girl you want. Gotta get your bread up, swag up, whatever... but you have to do SOMETHING. Can't sit around and complain. If you do you're a loser and an incel. Women, by nature of socialization, don't have that mentality. So you get a bunch of "woe is me" posts on social media. As if that's going to change anything.
BINGO.
I have seen this as well. I am more refering to that white women will put marriage above all else. Long as that dude breathing and willing to marry her then its all good.
Cause in point my wife's white ex coworker was like this. A young lady with a masters degree and a professional career. Who couldn't stand not being married. Her ultimate goal was to get married no matter the cost.
She would go from man to man trying to find someone who would marry her. No matter if the man had issues, wasn't worth a darn, had money, didn't have money and etc.
She went so far as quiting her job, moving to Missouri to go marry a dude who was a waiter with a slight disability, who lived in his parents house....all because he was willing to marry her....
Like I told folks on her before who like to make it seem that white woman get married so easily without putting in work...
Omg you’re right. That’s so true, ww do the most to get married. I forget that for them it really is a huge deal especially if they aren’t by a certain age.
Why do you think it’s so much more important to WW to be married even if it’s to someone not necessarily desirable more so than BW who desire marriage too but often will stay single for a long time if they can’t get a man with some of the desirable qualities they seek?
feelosofer
#ninergang
In most parts of the country a man making 18 an hour or more has options, and he's not settling for low value women. Fukk if the man can't find what he want;s he's ok just keeping to himself.
feelosofer
#ninergang
Because that's how you build, as a couple and eventually a family, then you pool resources and build from there. If you notice, even white people parents in laws (with some means) will do whatever it takes to keep their kids together by alleviating as much financial burden as possible. Yes half of them still fail but what people and other groups view that shyt as essential to success.
True. Very true.
nikka you need the Nobel Prize for this post.
18 dollars is some broke boy shyt if we keeping it a buck. Cant even be mad at someone wanting more than that.
Most men should be shooting for 60k at minimum out here.
Most men should be shooting for 60k at minimum out here.
In the United States, as a single man you should make AT LEAST twice your age times $1,000 and it varies by city.
I thought that was a nice little income for a single man...
Bare Minimum income for single male = (AGE X 2 ) X 1,000
So if you're 30 you should be making at least $60K
Comfortable Minimum income for single male = ( AGE X 2.5 ) X 1,000
So if you're 30 you need to be making at least $90K
Again, it varies by city. Like making $100K in Atlanta barely keeps you afloat. So i would assume it's more in places like New York or San Francisco.
And if they end up getting divorced, they get remarried fast. There don’t seem to be any limits to who they can remarry either. It can be someone that her best friend used to date or a good friend of her ex -husband. Nothing is really off limits.I have seen this as well. I am more refering to that white women will put marriage above all else. Long as that dude breathing and willing to marry her then its all good.
Cause in point my wife's white ex coworker was like this. A young lady with a masters degree and a professional career. Who couldn't stand not being married. Her ultimate goal was to get married no matter the cost.
She would go from man to man trying to find someone who would marry her. No matter if the man had issues, wasn't worth a darn, had money, didn't have money and etc.
She went so far as quiting her job, moving to Missouri to go marry a dude who was a waiter with a slight disability, who lived in his parents house....all because he was willing to marry her...
Like I told folks on her before who like to make it seem that white woman get married so easily without putting in work...
Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
Whites like to keep up appearances. Many of their marriages are super superficial.
philmonroe
Superstar
Both of y’all are going anecdotal as everand find it funny when most of y’all claim y’all not even around whites like that. I have just as many anecdotal evidence that says this is bullshyt. Must be good to come and say any ole thing with nobody ever saying nah fam that’s that bullshyt. Chicks in general out here doing the same shyt overall in regards to too many waiting for that mythical dude that most likely isn’t coming.
I'm always amazed how many of my white co-workers have been married 2 or 3 times like it's nothing. It's almost like divorce doesn't bother them financially. Mainly because they can always promote each other into high paying jobs. And keep recycling that money in their community through marriage.
Meanwhile if a black man gets divorced he gets wiped out financially. That's the biggest reason black men are shunning marriage because they could end up destitute. His ex-wife likely won't get remarried but will continue to leach off him. And just date other dudes on the side. She has her guaranteed second income now and probably a house from the divorce. Which is probably all she wanted in the first place.
Yeah I said it.
What she tells a nikka in her social circle vs a nikka outside her circle are usually two different things..
Women like to play the resource game to the unsuspected...
nikkas not even realizing they bidding against themselves
