As for this you would be wrong . Having a family is a beautiful thing anyone with some sense would back me up on that . What I don't like about this environment in America is that when you talk about women and the things they do or what you have gone threw your labeled as " you hate women " "your mother's black " " you can get no p*ssy" " who hurt you " " your probably gay on the low " . See that type is lack of empathy for what a man is and what he goes threw which is why a LOT of men aren't going to get married the game is very one sided . I get that it a bunch of men that are extremist but that's not what I stand for . I have a goddaughter who I love to death I get how important kids are . I just think America including many women don't see men as important ...they just see men as UTILITY and nothing more . These times we live in are not TRADITIONAL so why do I have to think in a TRADITIONAL fashion ?
It all love thoe
Well I think a lot of the reactions are based on the tone of the complaints.
To be honest, your last post was reasonable. “Don’t want to deal with the BS” “had bad experiences” etc.
I don’t think anyone would/should react to that by saying stuff like “your mothers black” “you get no p*ssy” etc.
To be honest I usually only see those types of reactions when dudes are saying stuff like “all black women aint shyt” “they just want thugs” “all women will get tired and cheat on you” and other stupid shyt like that.
Reality is healthy relationships are hard to find and maintain, and lots of people don’t have any good examples in their lives. So people tend to place their own perspective on others.
I agree there is a certain lack of empathy for men’s struggles, but there are also some unique advantages from the male perspective in today’s society. Gotta take it all in and do whatever makes you feel best.
As for “tradition” by nature tradition is fluid. Make your marriage or relationships work for you. Don’t worry about other peoples traditions.
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