Where do you get the notion that I dont think men try?
"Joking aside, this whole GMB thing is really disgraceful for a self proclaimed black site. Yes, adults step our on each other and marriage can be bad, or even end at times, but this whole wave of not even trying to create a unified home for a child/children is just terrible."
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@THE MACHINE
m saying that commitment needs to be both ways. I responded to a post saying "women arent trained to be wives" I dont disagree but brothas are to blame in instances too
Stop ignoring that women end 71% of divorces. Men don't have commitment issues. There commitment is typically reward with divorce and a judge's thumb up their ass.
I believe blaming women for not being "traditional" is ridiculous, also. There's a host of reasons society has a hard time with "traditional" monogamy.
Hell, it's expected you have fukked 15 different people before you "settle" down. Things have changed.
All I advocate is if two people are in love and committed, make the ultimate commitment to each other and the family and get married. And nobody should get married if there are alarming red flags. I get this is a mostly bachelor site but im just offering a different perspective.
Now, you're making false equivalences. #GMB isn't #MGTOW. The later is literally some asexual, loser shyt. #GMB is typically a response to unfortunate circumstances involving a simping husband or divorce.
I believe the only thing in life that matters is the love of a life partner.
The idea that it can only be achieved through marriage (unless you subscribe to a religion) is baseless.
Marriage = Love is the only point I am personally making.
A marriage license is basically a lease to another human being.
Marriage isnt all doom and gloom.
You're committing a logic fallacy, my brother.
No, Marriage isn't 0/100 or 100/100. No one should be making the case for either.
But, they are plenty of reasons people are getting married later in life. Our culture adds certain strains to relationships not were not even though of 50 years old.
Our grandparents did not
HAVE to have a side hustle. Consumerism wasn't in full swing--most houses did not even have a TV. It wasn't an expectation for a laymen to maintain the live of a proletarian--yearly trips, two cars, cellphone for the family, a bunch of media subscriptions, etc.
Hell, in most places the average income isn't enough to afford the average monthly mortgage.
I'm not correct about everything. But, the fact is; there are many factors that make marriage difficult and non-feasible other than character flaws.