The Ugly Truth About Being Handsome

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nikkas arguing that money doesnt equal women...

you just have to use it correctly

like saying protein powder doesn't give you gains...

when you leave the powder in the pantry and don't hit the gym
I bought some protein powder and left it in the pantry :mjcry:

Still got them gains tho :myman:
 
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Breh, I am not sure if you are trolling or if this is inside joke type of thing. What you wrote dont even add up, lol.. I got multiple friends who if they told you their stories you wouldnt believe it, they live in a completely different reality. My childhood best friend, we grew up together. His reality was different. We in 6 grade, this dude had the baddest eight graders hitting on him. We fresh out of elementary school, lol! In 9th grade, senior girl links up with him and just throws it at him.. This guy would have best friends fighting over him then agree to share him then one would try to get him to herself by doing whatever, lol..

The stories I would hear just seem outrageous, but its his reality. Most cant relate, I see it with my own 2 eyes. And I have gotten my fair share, I played high school ball and some college, lifted weights for years, was a party/club promoter, had money, cars, houses, did the boats and jetski things before social media, I can tell you stories especially college and promoter stories. But even with money I will say it can be a detriment. I have more women tryna lock down than throwing it at me like at other times. If I meet a girl at mall, get her number, have a couple convos on phone and get her wide open, and then I pull up and see the switch up after she see car, you learn quick that I was getting better play with Maxima than Panamera/Range.

A chick can be in relationship with swagless, short ugly dude but she will throw hail mary to a dude they deem ultra good looking. They know they cant keep him, they just want a ride one time or 2, they have nothing to offer but themselves. Its incredible. I seen Gold diggers married to doctors, flying my all american fire fighter home boy out so he can bang her out something fierce. She started spending her man money on HIM! This dude was savage tho so he gave zero fukks. And the baseline for "game" needed is diminished greatly because they make it easy. The level of "game" needed is dam near showing up and being able to hold basic convo, THEY will do the heavy lifting and make it easy for a ultra good looking dude.
You got it backwards potna. Women aren’t wired like men. Men are wired to place the utmost importance on looks because on a primal level, men want to pass their genes on to the healthiest specimen. Women are wired to want security. In the modern world this means money, but it’s also the reason why you see women with the benchwarmer NBA brehs that are like 7’. Hella celebrity men wouldn’t even be getting women if it weren’t for their status regardless of their looks.

I’m 6’, full head of hair, hairline intact and women compliment me on my style all the time. Get plenty of stares. In my drinking days, women were often aggressive at the bar. But the bar scene is mostly lights, camera action and not real life. In real life, women just send low key choosing signals but ain’t overly aggressive with it unless you live somewhere where women are known for that. And women don’t want a nikka they know they can have any time before they even ignited a real spark, they want a challenge.

If looks mattered as much as y’all say, you would never see ugly, short and swagless dudes with women let alone bad women. Y’all internet dudes have fully bought into this redpill/blackpill rhetoric that is based on confirmation bias. And a lot of times, the baddest women don’t be wifed up at all. So called handsome gang be having average looking wives because they realize the baddies only good for a pump and dump and make bad wifey material.
 

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Only guys that don't think there are...annoyances are dudes that aren't attractive. Or dudes that are attractive and too stupid/not self aware enough to realize it.

Humans are insecure/jealous/complex ridden creatures. and constantly project that onto you, or try to defuse the things you have over them that they may consider a threat to their own ego.

Look at the dad bod trend for example. Thats a mass attempt at trying to defuse the concept that there is someone objectively more attractive lol women do this, because alot of their egos (not all) all around dont really like the idea of something they cant have...so they try to downplay it. Or create "types" .

SIDE NOTE

You are definitely better off playing the "good looking aloof" guy game. You kind of have to avoid some of the cocky shyt other dudes get away with more.

You also can get away with being...nicer though ive realized. I noticed that being a nice guy can work bad for average/ugly dudes. Whereas if you are legit "hot" to women. Being nice is actually something that works in your favor. Bot a p*ssy kissing ass. But not many traces of being an "a$$hole".

Which is annoying for me, because im kinda an a$$hole at heart. But my a$$hole shyt never got me a ltr lol I got nicer and suddenly im in full on ltr's lol
 

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just last week i seen a hell rell looking mf with a tall brownskin baddie and they had kids together :yeshrug: granted he was tall and dressed like an asap mob member lol but like i said manhood comes first
Less attractive dudes with girls physically above them is...commonplace. its more rare the other way around.

Most women are more comfortable in these dynamics honestly. They'll never admit it, but there's power in it.

Many women value being on that pedestal more so than how physically attractive their partner is, or even being majorly sexually attracted to their partner.
How do you think all these sexless relationships happen. Women tend to be more transactional.

So when a dude is saying "im average and I pull baddies" im like "yeah because you dont upset the power dynamic, you play into it". "Did you pursue HER?, if so, you played into the power dynamic they want".
 

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You got it backwards potna. Women aren’t wired like men. Men are wired to place the utmost importance on looks because on a primal level, men want to pass their genes on to the healthiest specimen. Women are wired to want security. In the modern world this means money, but it’s also the reason why you see women with the benchwarmer NBA brehs that are like 7’. Hella celebrity men wouldn’t even be getting women if it weren’t for their status regardless of their looks.

I’m 6’, full head of hair, hairline intact and women compliment me on my style all the time. Get plenty of stares. In my drinking days, women were often aggressive at the bar. But the bar scene is mostly lights, camera action and not real life. In real life, women just send low key choosing signals but ain’t overly aggressive with it unless you live somewhere where women are known for that. And women don’t want a nikka they know they can have any time before they even ignited a real spark, they want a challenge.

If looks mattered as much as y’all say, you would never see ugly, short and swagless dudes with women let alone bad women. Y’all internet dudes have fully bought into this redpill/blackpill rhetoric that is based on confirmation bias. And a lot of times, the baddest women don’t be wifed up at all. So called handsome gang be having average looking wives because they realize the baddies only good for a pump and dump and make bad wifey material.
NEVER in my post did I say women are wired like men and of course women want security, they want EVERYTHING, lol.. Thats why their list is like 10 pages long with their wants.

Nothing I said was some rhetoric, it was all from experience and what I seen with my own two eyes. And I agree with baddest women dont get wifed up. The saying back in day was 9-10s are "community property" or "fun girls" both sides hate when they get categorized but both women and men do it for different reasons

Anyway I think we both talking about different things so you got it.
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
Handsome nikka anonymous :pachaha:
If that ain’t an oxymoron :Kd:
Writing full on soliloquies
Looking for sympathy :childplease:
You in here crying cuz you got it made in the shade
While other nikkas had to improve themselves overall or find that one attribute to upgrade on god mode on some RPG/FFV shyt:russ:
If you don’t take this woe is me/ I have insecurities like everybody bullshyt to a therapist :mjlol:
It’s easy to talk when you not on the other side of the coin
Sounding like crackers :Kd:
Guaranteed you wouldn’t trade a day in your life to be in the 20% of men
Tell me I’m lying:mjgrin:
 
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