The Ugly Truth About Being Handsome

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So you didn't read lol
I've spoken on this before. I work literally twice as much as the average person in blue collar work. Sweats and beat up boots, change that to old reliable sneakers for the couple of times I get to make gym time, home. If I want need extra bread, weekends make me work triple as much as most of the world. All facilitated by a 2020 Passport.

Money as a female magnet only works when you're able/willing to demonstrate the money. Now some women may hear the job title and try to hook you in, and they supposedly line up at the Christmas party we throw despite not working there :heh: but overall I can tell you there's another side to the 6 figure experience that doesn't have women banging your door down.
my post directly addressed the bold...

did you think that secretly having decent income was going to make you attractive to women?...
you have to move a certain way to get treated a certain way....

money just allows that movement more easily...

people with a natural "aura/swag" even when they're broke..

just have their already existing persona amplified by a decent income...

if you not already starting with it... do what Mr. Samuels said and hire an image consultant...

your life will benefit from it
 

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No. 1 is having a warped perception of women and their ability to be loyal based on your experiences from young age of the extreme thirstiness and ease of a % of them
 
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there is no "ugly" about being handsome.....

yes there are ...

1. you need that mouthpiece for the really superficial chicks - some of them expect you to act like a sweet boy / entertainer when you are not it.
2. your weight can fluctuate you into ugly gang (depending on facial shape) for periods - which is worse than being perma-ugly-gang.
3. too much choice esp. when at college - and you can end up getting lost.
4. you might attract too many of the wrong types because you are their type, but not the type you like.
5. you can get fixated on meeting ms. perfect - because you have been with ms. near-perfect.
6. girls who you thought were friends try and jump you at the christmas/leaving party.
7. aggression etc from other men - especially in clubs, wanting to compensate for their height/face/whatever.

:picard:

etc ...
 

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yes there are ...

1. you need that mouthpiece for the really superficial chicks - some of them expect you to act like a sweet boy / entertainer when you are not it.
2. your weight can fluctuate you into ugly gang (depending on facial shape) for periods - which is worse than being perma-ugly-gang.
3. too much choice esp. when at college - and you can end up getting lost.
4. you might attract too many of the wrong types because you are their type, but not the type you like.
5. you can get fixated on meeting ms. perfect - because you have been with ms. near-perfect.
6. girls who you thought were friends try and jump you are the christmas/leaving party.
7. aggression etc from other men.

etc ...

I think you need to work on yourself. I dont say this out of disrespect.

But outside of 1, all of these are remediated through internal work.

Even 1, I am not even sure about. All you have to do is dont be weird, pay attention and shut the fukk up as a good looking guy.
 

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My problem was excessive unwanted attention from older women and ugly girls. Imagine being 22 in the early 90s and everyone thinks you look like Prime Denzel Washington. Many ugly chicks, especially the fat ones, would press me hard and pretty much forced me to hurt their feelings. Rather than make me more confident, it made me less likely to engage with women I'm not attracted to. When I zone in on an attractive woman, its like butter, but in a crowd of random women, I can come off as awkward.
 

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my post directly addressed the bold...

did you think that secretly having decent income was going to make you attractive to women?...
you have to move a certain way to get treated a certain way....

money just allows that movement more easily...

people with a natural "aura/swag" even when they're broke..

just have their already existing persona amplified by a decent income...

if you not already starting with it... do what Mr. Samuels said and hire an image consultant...

your life will benefit from it
You think I don't understand this? Lol I had to fall back from a music career due to an unwillingness to play a character.

Here's the issue
I've spoken on this before. I work literally twice as much as the average person in blue collar work. Sweats and beat up boots, change that to old reliable sneakers for the couple of times I get to make gym time, home. If I want need extra bread, weekends make me [ICODE][/SIZE][SIZE=6][I]work triple as much as most of the world.[/I][/SIZE][SIZE=1][I][/I][/ICODE] All facilitated by a 2020 Passport.

Money as a female magnet only works when you're able/willing to demonstrate the money. Now some women may hear the job title and try to hook you in, and they supposedly line up at the Christmas party we throw despite not working there :heh: but overall I can tell you there's another side to the 6 figure experience that doesn't have women banging your door down.
If weekends have me work triple as much as most, this means my mandatory week is double that of most. I already told you gym time gets limited, what is the point throwing money at a wardrobe and letting your shape fall off?

And you've spoken about being God's gift to women, I'm sure you're already "sauced up". Tell me, what do you think this image revamp costs? As someone working how I work, I don't find the cost worth it when I will not have/make the time to wear it. Mind you, I said nothing about hobbies or personal expression for my own roundedness, which requires time that's already a premium.

Mind you, this "image" needed to be projected isn't aided by a 2020 Honda truck.

I didn't come in here for a 101. Brehs have to stop assuming everybody's outcome is the same. Because at 35ish when I'm in my own spot with a paid off car and fit the umbrella ass term of "having shyt together", I would have to go out of my way to project money and be on the scene every weekend.

Income is one thing. Lifestyle is another.
 

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I think you need to work on yourself. I dont say this out of disrespect.\

i wasn't posting looking for help.

But outside of 1, all of these are remediated through internal work.

Even 1, I am not even sure about. All you have to do is dont be weird, pay attention and shut the fukk up as a good looking guy.

that was mostly when i was younger. i have figured most of that stuff out by now.

those are real issues though.

on the other hand the biggest advantage living in babylon for #handsome-gang is less racism. in most circumstances you are going to have a a good proportion of half of the people being neutral or on your side. that helps when you are at 98%+ gringo colleges.
 

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You think I don't understand this? Lol I had to fall back from a music career due to an unwillingness to play a character.

Here's the issue

If weekends have me work triple as much as most, this means my mandatory week is double that of most. I already told you gym time gets limited, what is the point throwing money at a wardrobe and letting your shape fall off?

And you've spoken about being God's gift to women, I'm sure you're already "sauced up". Tell me, what do you think this image revamp costs? As someone working how I work, I don't find the cost worth it when I will not have/make the time to wear it. Mind you, I said nothing about hobbies or personal expression for my own roundedness, which requires time that's already a premium.

Mind you, this "image" needed to be projected isn't aided by a 2020 Honda truck.

I didn't come in here for a 101. Brehs have to stop assuming everybody's outcome is the same. Because at 35ish when I'm in my own spot with a paid off car and fit the umbrella ass term of "having shyt together", I would have to go out of my way to project money and be on the scene every weekend.

Income is one thing. Lifestyle is another.
do you want a fulfilling social life or not my nikka...

cuz if you 100% content with your current situation no need for me to even game you up...

I worked 16 hours a day almost everyday in the week for 3 years...

and still had women choosing everywhere I went... coffee shop, grocery store, client offices during visits...etc

and I drove a busted 99 infititi

:yeshrug:

I can give you the game... but no point if you wont even consider running the plays
 

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do you want a fulfilling social life or not my nikka...

cuz if you 100% content with your current situation no need for me to even game you up...

I worked 16 hours a day almost everyday in the week for 3 years...

and still had women choosing everywhere I went... coffee shop, grocery store, client offices during visits...etc

and I drove a busted 99 infititi

:yeshrug:

I can give you the game... but no point if you wont even consider running the plays
You've said multiple times you're a 6'5" extra handsome cat. You will get chosen on your store runs and business endeavors. Also , office and client visits means you were automatically dressing and projecting differently.

I'm not. And it's alright. I didn't ask for the game, I know it and I'm unwilling to play. I said that chase money = women coming is a half-truth. Because it is. All of this is you not wanting to understand a reality that's different from yours.

Last but not least, you ain't even answer my price question lol
 

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You've said multiple times you're a 6'5" extra handsome cat. You will get chosen on your store runs and business endeavors.

I'm not. And it's alright. I didn't ask for the game, I know it and I'm unwilling to play. I said that chase money = women coming is a half-truth. Because it is. All of this is you not wanting to understand a reality that's different from yours.
you think it's looks or height...

but it's really your whole outlook that's the roadblock...

be blessed my g
 
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