The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
And that just made me think of something... Which further goes into why the hell it's too much to be figuring this shyt out.....
True Story:
My godmother is ADOS.. Same as my family, her whole family is ADOS... She's in showbiz and moved to London to do stage acting in her 20s.. Got married to another ADOS who moved there from the states. They got married and had two daughters. Then I was born in Philly. shyt went left and we had to move there too. I lived there 2 years, back to Philly. My godparents stayed and the daughters didn't come to America until 25....
Now we're all older. I have kids that were born in America. The two daughters have moved back to America and had children in the US as well........
WHO THE fukk IS BLACK??? All of us ADOS technically. Some of us born here, some not.. But the british two were not born here, were not raised here, didn't grow up in our culture.. But they are ADOS, literally and figuratively (citizens and children of ADOS). But they also foreign blacks.. But then their kids were born here in America.. They are ADOS in all aspects.. But not foreign blacks but their parents are.. But their grandparents aren't
Do you know how many times that happens in a FAMILY? A black family where half the family or one part may go to America... start a life. Send for the others later.. Have kids in the meantime. Some of the kids go back. Some more family comes over.. Mixing foreign and black all up in there.
And for what exactly? I need to bust my brain thinking bout how to classify every black person I see. When I can just say "hey black man how you doing" and carry myself however he wants to take it? Let it go brehs.. It's not that deep. If you're willing to accept a white woman's son as a black man, then be willing to accept a foreign black man as a black man too
True Story:
My godmother is ADOS.. Same as my family, her whole family is ADOS... She's in showbiz and moved to London to do stage acting in her 20s.. Got married to another ADOS who moved there from the states. They got married and had two daughters. Then I was born in Philly. shyt went left and we had to move there too. I lived there 2 years, back to Philly. My godparents stayed and the daughters didn't come to America until 25....
Now we're all older. I have kids that were born in America. The two daughters have moved back to America and had children in the US as well........
WHO THE fukk IS BLACK??? All of us ADOS technically. Some of us born here, some not.. But the british two were not born here, were not raised here, didn't grow up in our culture.. But they are ADOS, literally and figuratively (citizens and children of ADOS). But they also foreign blacks.. But then their kids were born here in America.. They are ADOS in all aspects.. But not foreign blacks but their parents are.. But their grandparents aren't
Do you know how many times that happens in a FAMILY? A black family where half the family or one part may go to America... start a life. Send for the others later.. Have kids in the meantime. Some of the kids go back. Some more family comes over.. Mixing foreign and black all up in there.
And for what exactly? I need to bust my brain thinking bout how to classify every black person I see. When I can just say "hey black man how you doing" and carry myself however he wants to take it? Let it go brehs.. It's not that deep. If you're willing to accept a white woman's son as a black man, then be willing to accept a foreign black man as a black man too