The rich gets richer and poor gets poorer dynamic is reflected in modern dating game as well

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If you are a catch,cream of the crop or just good at getting women, it's never been easier, you will be swimming in p*ssy and you don't even have to make to much effort either

However if you are average or below average, you are probably worse of than the average to below average dudes of previous generations
where there was no social media,reality TV and movies creating unrealistic expectations that men must meet.

The lack of internet,phones,video games,VR etc meant people actually had to develop social skills organically, get out of the house and meet people.

The rise in atheism has also removed one of the most common means of social gathering and community i.e churches, I would wager a lot of couples met eath other in church
back in the day


Even the data backs this up that men in general are lonelier than ever, have no friends, no place to go to socialise etc
no game, no charisma/personality, lame mf type shyt. step your confidence up a notch and know your worth :manny:
 

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@The Fade you was just talking about this in another thread
He summed it up perfectly. If you’re a woman with a circle like he said. you can put your husband in a room with someone important or give him leads. That’s a valueable asset. Just like when men elevate gutter women to his circle, and then when they break up she still hovers around his circle instead of the trash she came from

Just wanna add when they marry, they marry for in-laws and community as well.

Just read this in Atomic Habits: “the lone wolf dies but the pack lives on”
 
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4 types of men in life

1. Men that get it off rip
2. Men that gotta work for it
3. Men that pay for it
4. Men that don’t get it

I'm #2 :yeshrug:

I had to damn near go the unconventional route to get it and read books that society deemed as "rogue". On top of me linking up with people that were deviants in terms of smashing broads like its nothing.
 

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I'm #2 :yeshrug:

I had to damn near go the unconventional route to get it and read books that society deemed as "rogue". On top of me linking up with people that were deviants in terms of smashing broads like its nothing.
It's been a mix of 1 and 2 for me mainly 2

:manny: but we need to define what 2 means, 2 can mean taking her on dates and consistent texts/phone calls for one vs just facetiming her every now and then and going for a walk in the beach/park for another

really all depends
 

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I'm #2 :yeshrug:

I had to damn near go the unconventional route to get it and read books that society deemed as "rogue". On top of me linking up with people that were deviants in terms of smashing broads like its nothing.
Whats the name of the books you read
 

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4 types of men in life

1. Men that get it off rip
2. Men that gotta work for it
3. Men that pay for it
4. Men that don’t get it
I think 2 is where most men and women fall, but they want to be type 1s. The other issue is there doesn’t seem to be an end game anymore. The end game used to be marriage by late 20s and starting a family. Today is much different due to economics and changes in gender norms, but people are on an endless cycle of first dates and new sex partners. It’s a no brainer that people are burned out with the opposite sex.
 

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The rise in atheism has also removed one of the most common means of social gathering and community i.e churches, I would wager a lot of couples met eath other in church
back in the day


Even the data backs this up that men in general are lonelier than ever, have no friends, no place to go to socialise etc

You don't need church to socialize...
I agree with the rest tho
:yeshrug:
 

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Women are receptive now as they’ve always been but if no one approaches them then everyone loses. Men are just socially awkward cowards these days. There are so many lonely women out there due to ain’t shyt jerking off to JBO type men.
Women ain't lonely no more.
They can just open their phone and choose a dude to occupy her time
 

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It’s fukked up because I feel like the more I don’t care about sex the more I get. Like I’ll try to avoid fr and it comes my way. Op is onto something though girls are becoming more aggressive it’s making me need to hit the gym again lol

Story time...

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Story time...

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This lightskin zoomer bytch was damn there beggin to fukk. She would ask me to dance when I was not even trying to talk to her. I wasn’t even on the dance floor I was @ the bar. I saw some nikkas try to holla at her but I wasn’t pressed because one I didn’t care and two them nikkas didn’t compare to me so I was dancing w her just to make her feel safe because the people we were w were busy. She would ask about me when I wasn’t there so I figured fukk it I might as well fukk her now but yeah she told me she was plotting on me from the jump. I had more but long story short prior to that I just got out of something that didn’t work out and I’m still fukked up about it and I tried my best. Since then I’ve been fukking girls w minimal effort they’ll gravitate to me one way or another.
 
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