The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with zero sex partners tripled from 08-18

[Ahadi]

Just Done seen too much. Even if they stable, then they been having feminist views about what women should be allowed to do. I guess I just don’t wanna put the effort tbh when u don’t have to. Idk just venting.

Peace. Keep this in mind when searching. If she can give you peace. She’s a keeper & you’ll appreciate this when you get older.

As for looking for someone, switch up your environment, even if it makes you uncomfortable. Take the time learn new skills & different activities centered around the type of women you like. Volunteer at a non-profit. Just keep talking to women, but don’t put too much pressure on the needing to “find” someone. Just enjoy the process.

Edit: I’ll add another point.You might want to actually get off of social media. It’ll destroy your mind and have you thinking every meet should look like an IG model. When majority of the women in this world are average.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

A bougie young hood brehette gonna shyt on it so hard with just makin a face

My Ex...That bytch.....let me chill. she said it wasn't funny. to her credit tho she did like the Office but the Office is

 

[Bossino]

Any older brehs got advice? I can’t lie after building up success it’s hard to even want to wife up what’s out here, but don’t wanna have a kid with out a marriage. Fareal women even eat butts now. They was talkin bout it at my job.

, breh I don't know if you on a lag/under a rock, but when you find out all the other shyt they're willing to do under the right circumstance....

 

[Dillah810]

Crazy thing is males and females both not having sex in this generation


Just lonely spaced out social media junkies

It's more Men than Women going sexless

 

[Mindfield333]

Bruh my thing is these young dudes need and have to be fukking something ass a man.

You don’t have to and shouldn’t nut in every woman that’s common sense but these dudes seem to be holding out for dimes and the years are passing them by.

once your youth is gone, it’s gone.

Yeah I think social media has done a number on the youth. I think access is more of a negative than a positive bc they are overlooking the cute girl in their neighborhood for that dime thats states away with thousands of followers.

 

[bill riser]

I wonder if another factor is that there was trending decline in drug and alcohol and tobacco usage for younger people ( despite what Rap mysic would suggest)

Those those things can smooth things over socially in terms of interaction.

I agree with this right here. i remember in my teens and early 20s my friends always would tell me stories about gettin easy p*ssy by just having weed and liquor around the house. I've never smoked or drank in my life which always forced me to work on my mouthpiece to get that top level verbal jujitsu.

Although i do sympathize with the younger generation of men. even though getting women has gotten extremely easy as I've gotten older, I have realized that a lot, not all, of these women are just not worth the long term investment.

even if you develop yourself into a very interesting individual with your life sorted out, outside of their beauty and sex, "most" of these women are boring as f*ck to interact with.

It gets tiring very fast when you have to be the funny and interesting one and always have the expectation on you to initiate the conversations or any form of engagement.

Again, not all women are like this. I've met quite a few cool ones in my life but that's like around ten percent of the total.

 

[CW_1991]

Feminism plays a big part in this as well.

These girls are no longer being raised up to eventually seek out and be with a man (particularly a functional one). Rather they're being raised up to be bosses and be independent. It wasn't like this 30 or 40 years ago (things were much simpler and everybody was much happier).

Things like music and television has also assisted in the further alienation of the man and the woman. A lot of these young cats are products of single mother households and have a lot of feminine energy on them themselves.

 

[skylove4]

Frankly the community holds itself back by celebrating that ilk, the American black community been cooked. The people who run it don't seem interest in fixing it. (Hint: American black community has mostly been a matriachy)

c00ns and incels amazing

 

[3rdWorld]

76% of hoes are being smashed by 23% of males..

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

76% of hoes are being smashed by 23% of males..

this is probably true. but how many out of that 67% are scared to shoot their shot?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

It's more Men than Women going sexless

No shyt
That's how it's always been

The point is this generation MALE AND FEMALE has far less sex than other generations

 

[Slimwithafatgirlsappetite]

I can tell a lot of men on here don’t get laid much with the way you’re blaming this on women.

A lot of you are probably the kinds of men in this article.

This has a lot to do with men not approaching or making an effort to get girls. A lot of men these days are obsessed with their male friendships groups and seemingly disinterested in even trying to date. They don’t hit on women, expect women to make the first move, which many won’t...and all around act like they want to be chased or expect women to fall in their laps.

Not realising that women only usually ‘fall in the laps’ of good looking men with great personalities and decent jobs.

A lot of men these days have missed the memo that getting laid actually requires some effort.

They cannot be bothered.

 

[Zime]

Yeah I’m 24 and part of that statistic

 

[CopiousX]

Exactly.

these young dudes don’t give a fukk about p*ssy when you have video games and virtual reality porn. Not to mention the emphasis of working hard and long hours in America. We’re slowly turning into Japan.

Im starting to think the difference between us and japan is immigration honestly. New people have more kids than the general pop. Also, their family structures support immigrants having many kids early in life.

Frankly the community holds itself back by celebrating that ilk, the American black community been cooked. The people who run it don't seem interest in fixing it. (Hint: American black community has mostly been a matriachy)

This wouldn't even be an issue if they passed things onto their offspring or even if we switched over to full matrilineal settup. Its a very half azzed matriarchy.


If our women got together with an actual agenda, i think it would be possible to make this work. I remember watching a few documentaries years back about trobriand islanders and one minority in China that does "walking marriages". The women in these matriarchies seemed to have a general blue print for their structure. I think the dudes in the chinese matriarchy legit fcked around all day while the women organized the labor, did politics, traded, etc. I recall uncles were tasked with helping boys out too.

Of course, i understand that our black matrifocal set up was a product of WS, and we lack cultural continuity, but i think the current settup is legitimately salvageable.


I keep stressing the saving it part, because i think that even if a few brehs with their heads on straight reinstated a patriarchy, that would still leave millions of single mothers and their offspring to fend for themselves. If we really got into problem solving mode, these black people would have to be saved also cause they would keep perpetuating abnormalities like the virgin thing in the OP; or worse, be the enemies of the patriarchy group.

 

[Bossino]

Im starting to think the difference between us and japan is immigration honestly. New people have more kids than the general pop. Also, their family structures support immigrants having many kids early in life.





This wouldn't even be an issue if they passed things onto their offspring or even if we switched over to full matrilineal settup. Its a very half azzed matriarchy.


If our women got together with an actual agenda, i think it would be possible to make this work. I remember watching a few documentaries years back about trobriand islanders and one minority in China that does "walking marriages". The women in these matriarchies seemed to have a general blue print for their structure. I think the dudes in the chinese matriarchy legit fcked around all day while the women organized the labor, did politics, traded, etc. I recall uncles were tasked with helping boys out too.

Of course, i understand that our black matrifocal set up was a product of WS, and we lack cultural continuity, but i think the current setup is legitimately salvageable.


I keep stressing the saving it part, because i think that even if a few brehs with their heads on straight reinstated a patriarchy, that would still leave millions of single mothers and their offspring to fend for themselves. If we really got into problem solving mode, these black people would have to be saved also cause they would keep perpetuating abnormalities like the virgin thing in the OP; or worse, be the enemies of the patriarchy group.

Huzzah a post of quality. I fw critical thinkers off gp, elaborate on what you envision in this salvaged matriarchy. Like what would you think women would have to do in the black community to salvage the matriarchy?

I don't think a patriarchy can be reinstated at this point, not in this current sociopolitical zeitgeist but if somehow was in the manner you suggested the bolded would undoubtedly happen.