The only thing that separates being called creepy from being smooth is your level of attractiveness

[MischievousMonkey]

yeah thats a great way to put it, i also remembered another time she passed by me in the hallway, said good afternoon, i said it too, then silence, then she said....um...how are you doing?

Me : ok.


Silence

then she's just standing in front of me for like 15 secs, i look up at her and both of ours eyes meet, then she starts to walk away slowly while still holding eye contact....

she wanted me to control the conversation but shes the one who started it

Oh yeah she wanted it bad
Oughta use the regrets as a fuel

 

[Kairi Irving]

Oh yeah she wanted it bad
Oughta use the regrets as a fuel

i always thought is she really into me? she looks good, should be married maybe im tripping, but she always acted like a student imo

 

[I Really Mean It]

Plenty of good looking guys get called creepy. OP is a clown.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I heard a great song from the 70s detailing the difference between #uglygang and #handsomegang treatment of women...

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Why does this surprise men?

It's literally the most common sense shyt I've ever encountered. If you are attracted to someone, their advances are welcomed.

If you aren't attracted and they persist and are unable to read it in ur body language that they don't wanna be near you then of course it's creepy.

Think about a gross chick pursuing you. Why would you think her actions would be the same as ur dream chick?

 

[Bart simpson]

This thread speaks on this perfectly
Breh on Twitter gets exposed and goes viral for "I'm Tryna PIPE" list (and he's still spitting game)

Btw this dude looks like this

 

[Ineedmoney504]

This factsc

 

[Dihsarm]

Aint that a bytch

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

If a girl calls you a creep or saying you’re being creepy it’s cause she think you ugly.



I know, I know, I know, this is already common knowledge on the coli

Facts.

One of my best friends swore a first date was creepy and too forward because he held her hand while walking after dinner.

She went on another date with a new guy who put his arm around her waist AND told her to delete her Match profile because he was going to make her his and she thought it was sexy.

First dude had a really short neck and decent job. Second dude is very attractive and VP of a bank.

 

[Mac Brown]

Why does this surprise men?

It's literally the most common sense shyt I've ever encountered. If you are attracted to someone, their advances are welcomed.

If you aren't attracted and they persist and are unable to read it in ur body language that they don't wanna be near you then of course it's creepy.

Think about a gross chick pursuing you. Why would you think her actions would be the same as ur dream chick?

I completey agree, but get this:

We as men, can grow up and not really know our place in the dating ecosystem. (our level).
Think about how beauty/prettiness is an everyday compliment or diss for women. For example: you see a couple of younger women hanging out at a place that they get dressed up for (the first or second compliment you'll hear is "you look so pretty") Men don't get this at all usually.

Now that may seem benign but men don't hear stuff like that hardly at all growing up. Except for the truly execptionally attractive dudes NH

So you have a lot of basic looking to ugly dudes who grow up not knowing what features or whatever will make them attractive to women. So they just shoot there shot (as awkard or clumsy as that may be). You have dudes who think all he needs is a hair cut and clean clothes (which helps alot) but forget about those far apart eyes, a-symetrical facial features and overall unattractiveness that they may have. We as people need to get one thing straight........women are visual creatures! My ex gf told me this a lot. Thats one thing we as men seem to try to gloss over or not want to believe, because for a lot of dudes, there is no way to avoid that. No amount of weight lifting, dressing the part or crisp hairlines can avoid that. Women have make-up, men don't. We stuck with what we are!

So in the back of our minds (well ugly avg dudes minds) women can't possibly be REALLY thinking I'm ugly, (there is no male standard of beauty afterall) so I just need to keep on pursuing, even though she crosses her arms, avoids eye contact and is dissmissive of my compliments.

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm so glad I don't have to date anymore.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

You young nikkas especially need to start realizing the women of your gen, have just as many if not more issues with being social than you do.
A lot of these women can't handle interaction outside of instagram or twitter.

Hell yea...you see them in the hallway and they rapdly pull out their cell phone to pretend their doing something rather than make eye contact...

It's also why I don't holla at broads on social media...those confident chicks who get 200 likes in 10mins on one selfie they post be out on the street.

 

[❤Aԃɾιαɳα Rσȥαყ ❤]

Some of yall sound creepy asf tbh and I never met a fine nikka who was creepy, a lil square sometimes but never creepy

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

I have definitely dated a creepy looking dude that was movie star fine.

His looks and my naivety allowed me to initially overlook it, but after time it could not be ignored.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I completey agree, but get this:

We as men, can grow up and not really know our place in the dating ecosystem. (our level).
Think about how beauty/prettiness is an everyday compliment or diss for women. For example: you see a couple of younger women hanging out at a place that they get dressed up for (the first or second compliment you'll hear is "you look so pretty") Men don't get this at all usually.

Now that may seem benign but men don't hear stuff like that hardly at all growing up. Except for the truly execptionally attractive dudes NH

So you have a lot of basic looking to ugly dudes who grow up not knowing what features or whatever will make them attractive to women. So they just shoot there shot (as awkard or clumsy as that may be). You have dudes who think all he needs is a hair cut and clean clothes (which helps alot) but forget about those far apart eyes, a-symetrical facial features and overall unattractiveness that they may have. We as people need to get one thing straight........women are visual creatures! My ex gf told me this a lot. Thats one thing we as men seem to try to gloss over or not want to believe, because for a lot of dudes, there is no way to avoid that. No amount of weight lifting, dressing the part or crisp hairlines can avoid that. Women have make-up, men don't. We stuck with what we are!

So in the back of our minds (well ugly avg dudes minds) women can't possibly be REALLY thinking I'm ugly, (there is no male standard of beauty afterall) so I just need to keep on pursuing, even though she crosses her arms, avoids eye contact and is dissmissive of my compliments.

Okay. This makes more sense b/c at surface level I'm thinking it's a universal feeling everybody should be able to relate to: that uneasy, awkward feeling you get when somebody you really not feeling is persistently demonstrative in their affections.

So how can we teach dudes that looks are important for women too. I used to get the feeling that men didn't even think women SHOULD care about looks but maybe ur right, they just don't consider that we do.

This makes so much sense! THATS why dudes are always telling women to settle or take a chance on a dude even if she not a attracted to him. He's operating from the assumption that she can't possibly think they are ugly...she just being picky or something like that?

I've been trying to understand this phenomenon for ages! I'm like what the hell am I missing b/c I've SEEN some dudes shudder in disgust at some chicks trying to low-key take the dikk so I KNOW ya'll know what creepy feels like. But dudes legit get mad if a chick just not feeling it...

It's still a bit fuzzy but thanks. Perspective is always good.