The official Round table discussion on bw hair,weaves,natural hair, kinky hair, c00ns, bedwench etc

[Malcolmxxx_23]

@marcuz

You should move out of LA breh

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

if you wanna just boil it down to hatred of nappy texture, go right ahead. fact of the matter is black women dont have he texture to pull a rihanna or halle berry, they should go with what works for them.

All the women I posted have/had relaxers. If you were okay with natural hair you would never make such a statement. You are a hypocrite and need to stop trying to tell BW what do you with their hair.

 

[marcuz]

the men should too (or at least the men who are always crying about weave and relaxers). Otherwise you are just a hypocrite.

im sure 98% of them do appreciate their own natural hair. it aint like it's the men roaming about in wigs, weave, perm, lacefronts, etc

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

my hair was about 7 inches til i went to the barber a week ago dude took off a good 4 inches with no remorse.

Making you even more of a hypocrite. A sexist hypocrite.

 

[marcuz]

All the women I posted hair relaxers. If you were okay natural hair you would never make such a statement. You are a hypocrite and need to stop trying to tell BW what do you with their hair.

relaxers or not, they don't have the same hair texture as most black women are you know it find halle berry or rihanna with some truly nappy hair, g'on.

 

[marcuz]

Making you even more of a hypocrite. A sexist hypocrite.

a hypocrite cus i picked a shytty barber?

edit: sexist?

 

[KenyaDoll]

im sure 98% of them do appreciate their own natural hair. it aint like it's the men roaming about with wigs, weave, perm, lacefronts, etc

So they just don't appreciate the hair on their female counterparts? That is what you last post implied...that they don't appreciate it because of conditioning.

 

[marcuz]

So they just don't appreciate the hair on their female counterparts? That is what you last post implied...that they don't appreciate it because of conditioning.

so nikkas with fades are supposed to be attracted to black women with fades? once again, why are black men the only group chastised for wanting their women to have lengthy hair? why? someone explain.

 

[EA]

Do it.

Im natural but I dont think Im better than ladies who relax or wear weaves. I wouldnt say that I've ever I thought I was better because I was natural, but when I first stopped relaxing my hair I would try to convince a lot of ladies that I knew who still relaxed to stop too. I still think that bw shouldn't relax their hair; its no good for us. But its their scalp and hair, not mine so its their choice.
Anyway I agree with you, there are so many people that think just because you no longer relax it means you're some awakened god and thats not necessarily true. There are some women who use them stopping their use of relaxers as a growth and evolution of themselves and do feel "awakened" which is beautiful, but there are also the same amount of women who do it for other reasons (the look, health, etc). Its not always that deep.

Ok, from my personal experiences, the girls I know that are natural carry themselves like they are prestigious women. They talk about being classy and they try their hardest to distance themselves from "ghetto" things (Hip-Hop, WSHH, etc..). I've even had a girl tell me to turn off the music in MY CAR because she heard the N-word...meanwhile, her favourite song is Climax by Usher. Whilst they do this, they look down on the girls that wear weaves and call them "self haters" and scoff at their interactions with men and call them promiscuous.

I don't mind people talking the talk, as long as they're actually about it but after going to a few house parties with them and playing games like "I never" and "Truth or Dare", I learned that a lot them behave in the exact same way that the "self hating" girls do. Sleeping around, cheating on their boyfriend, entertaining men that have girlfriends and all that other scandalous shyt. Then when I speak to them outside of those settings, they maintain their hypocritical stance and say things like "At least people don't know our business, those other girls don't know how to be discrete and that's why they're beneath us". All of this while maintaining a false pride and value in their hair and using as some false badge of honour.

I've tried to keep it brief but this is just a small reason as to why how a girl styles her hair (within reason) means nothing to me. If I used a girls hair as a way of judging her, I'd fall into the trap that a lot of these guys fall into which results in wifing up girls with less than desirable morals.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

relaxers or not, they don't have the same hair texture as most black women are you know it find halle berry or rihanna with some truly nappy hair, g'on.

The more you post the worst you sound. And you actually have the nerve to say you like "nappy" hair. I was showing you short straight hair styles and you want to make it about hair type when you couldn't even the see the hair type. Then you go on to say that they have appropriate hair type for short hair. You are a c00n sir. A c00n to the fullest.

 

[KenyaDoll]

relaxers or not, they don't have the same hair texture as most black women are you know it find halle berry or rihanna with some truly nappy hair, g'on.

Halle clearly has a very loose curl pattern (I'm not even sure that she actually relaxes), but we've never even seen Rhianna's unrelaxed hair to know how kinky her it is or not.

 

[KenyaDoll]

so nikkas with fades are supposed to be attracted to black women with fades? once again, why are black men the only group chastised for wanting their women to have lengthy hair? why? someone explain.

First of all...not everyone who big chops even cuts it down that low. Sometimes is a tiny afro.

Edit: it's also funny how you are okay with those long cuts as long as it appears relaxed and the woman is light skinned.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

a hypocrite cus i picked a shytty barber?

edit: sexist?

You are a hypocrite b/c you think one hair type is better than another but claim to be an advocate for the "less than attactive" hair type. You are sexist b/c "nappy" hair can be worn by the likes of you but women should somehow feel less than for the same style.

 

[Dwolf]

Do it.

Im natural but I dont think Im better than ladies who relax or wear weaves. I wouldnt say that I've ever I thought I was better because I was natural, but when I first stopped relaxing my hair I would try to convince a lot of ladies that I knew who still relaxed to stop too. I still think that bw shouldn't relax their hair; its no good for us. But its their scalp and hair, not mine so its their choice.
Anyway I agree with you, there are so many people that think just because you no longer relax it means you're some awakened god and thats not necessarily true. There are some women who use them stopping their use of relaxers as a growth and evolution of themselves and do feel "awakened" which is beautiful, but there are also the same amount of women who do it for other reasons (the look, health, etc). Its not always that deep.

Pic vio.

 

[marcuz]

The more you post the worst you sound. And you actually have the nerve to say you like "nappy" hair. I was showing you short straight hair styles and you want to make it about hair type when you couldn't even the see the hair type. Then you go on to say that they have appropriate hair type for short hair. You are a c00n sir. A c00n to the fullest.

you cant shame me into finding near bald headed women attractive. i like nappy hair, i just want it to be lengthy. if that's too much to ask