The official Round table discussion on bw hair,weaves,natural hair, kinky hair, c00ns, bedwench etc

[Matt504]

So am I one of the only guys on here that doesn't give a shyt about whether a girl rocks her natural hair or not as long as she looks good and isn't insecure about it?

Besides, a lot of the girls I know that are all natural have a weird superiority complex...as if them being all natural makes them better than other black girls.

it does

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i don't have that right, i'm just offering my opinion since i was tagged twice in this thread.

and hey, y'all can do that big chop all day. just isnt fair to expect black men to line up and be attracted to your bald head. (or your pending mini-afro)

If how long my hair is is the determining factor in whether a man is attracted to me or not then he still has serious issues with hair especially when said man probably takes no issue with the "Halle" cut. As if to say, "you should expect BM to drop their hair issues but not all of them b/c let's be real nappy hair can ONLY be attractive if it is long." To me, said man still has some issues to get through before he starts telling women how they should think about themselves.

 

[marcuz]

If how long my hair is is the determining factor in whether a man is attracted to me or not then he still has serious issues with hair especially when said man probably takes no issue with the "Halle" cut. As if to say, "you should expect BM to drop their hair issues but not all of them b/c let's be real nappy hair can ONLY be attractive if it is long." To me, said man still has some issues to get through before he starts letting women how they should think about themselves.

yeah, yeah, i get it. i'm a self hating cooon, yadda yadda yadda.

 

[EA]

it does

I'm very tempted to open Pandora's box with that one.

The bottom line with me is, a lot of these "rootsy, down-to-earth, afrocentric" type girls behave in a manor just as scandalous as these "self-hating, weave wearing" girls. The only difference is how they style their hair and the clothes their wear.

 

[KenyaDoll]

look man, it's pathetic that we have grown 30-50 yr old women talking about they're doing the big chop, shyt is ridiculous. at that point, you might as well stick to the hair hat.

@SouthernBelle who is this imposter and why haven't you checked her yet

 

[Theraflu]

look man, it's pathetic that we have grown 30-50 yr old women talking about they're doing the big chop, shyt is ridiculous. at that point, you might as well stick to the hair hat.

@SouthernBelle who is this imposter and why haven't you checked her yet

r u serious breh?

atleast they're trying

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

yeah, yeah, i get it. i'm a self hating cooon, yadda yadda yadda.

Thanks for saying it so I didn't have to.

 

[EA]

Double

 

[KenyaDoll]

yeah, yeah, i get it. i'm a self hating cooon, yadda yadda yadda.

 

[marcuz]

it's crazy how black men are supposed to like something that y'all have damaged beyond repair. nikkas self hating cus they dont wanna girl with 3 inches of hair, receding hairline, patches of hair missing on the sides and shyt. nikkas gotta bite they tongue and grin, pretending like they find that shyt attractive

fukk yall

 

[Theraflu]

I agree with @EA and @MAKAVELI25 NEVER in my 25 years have I come across a group of 'STRAIGHT' black men who are THIS preoccupied with women's hair.

THIS IS A WEAVE (the natural type that @Michael's Black Son was talking about)

THIS IS A WEAVE (THE TYPE U nikkaS HATE)

THIS IS NATURAL

I'M WIFING THEM ALL

and I don't give a fukk

 

[Theraflu]

it's crazy how black men are supposed to like something that y'all have damaged beyond repair. nikkas self hating cus they dont wanna girl with 3 inches of hair, receding hairline, patches of hair missing on the sides and shyt. nikkas gotta bite they tongue and grin, pretending like they find that shyt attractive

fukk yall

no-ones saying that stop deflecting

 

[marcuz]

no-ones saying that stop deflecting

actually that is what they're saying. what am i deflecting?

 

[KenyaDoll]

it's crazy how black men are supposed to like something that y'all have damaged beyond repair. nikkas self hating cus they dont wanna girl with 3 inches of hair, receding hairline, patches of hair missing on the sides and shyt. nikkas gotta bite they tongue and grin, pretending like they find that shyt attractive

fukk yall

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

it's crazy how black men are supposed to like something that y'all have damaged beyond repair. nikkas self hating cus they dont wanna girl with 3 inches of hair, receding hairline, patches of hair missing on the sides and shyt. nikkas gotta bite they tongue and grin, pretending like they find that shyt attractive

fukk yall

Work through your own issues BM, break your own programming and clean up your own backyard. We are cleaning up our act in mass numbers. Follow suit! We are beautiful at any hair length. Stop making excuse for why your mind ain't right.