Move this to jbo pls
The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Men Thread
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Ms.CuriousCat
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Another red flag is he asks you for money 
If you can see that he spends beyond his means and especially if he's doing this to impress others.
If he doesn't notice when you're down.
If he doesn't know how to handle it when you need emotional support and hadn't shown that he's willing to learn.
Screw you
If you can see that he spends beyond his means and especially if he's doing this to impress others.
If he doesn't notice when you're down.
If he doesn't know how to handle it when you need emotional support and hadn't shown that he's willing to learn.
Screw you
What about if he treats you like a queen?Another red flag is he asks you for money
If you can see that he spends beyond his means and especially if he's doing this to impress others.
If he doesn't notice when you're down.
If he doesn't know how to handle it when you need emotional support and hadn't shown that he's willing to learn.
Screw you
Is that a red flag?
Ms.CuriousCat
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If he is over the top worshipping the ground you walk on then yes that is also a red flag. He's up to something and trying to get you so high on attention you don't notice
See fellas this is why we can't winIf he is over the top worshipping the ground you walk on then yes that is also a red flag. He's up to something and trying to get you so high on attention you don't notice
Smh
Ms.CuriousCat
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You shouldn't make any big decisions when you're feeling that way. Tap out, get some perspective and figure out if you still want forever with them once you've lost the high. That's true for both.
VFib
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Ms.CuriousCat
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I don't even date beloved
I don't mesh with Mali chicks
They think I'm a c00n
Well there's a limit to saqajaannimo and you've gone a few hundred miles beyond that. That might be why.
Fred
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CEO of #GPB
Men who ask "what do you bring to the table" should be avoided because they don't understand the value of a woman. Try to prove it if you want, but you'll only be draining yourself. Then you'll be mad at him and men in general when you should be mad at yourself for lacking wisdom.
There is no such thing as "the table", as a woman it is your damn table and if a man isn't adding anything besides dikk and compliments, then you need to evaluate your standards.
As a woman you are going to give, give, give, and give. If you have children then a lot of emotional and physical work is also going to fall upon you, and it doesn't matter how helpful he is around the house, it's simply NOT a beneficial exchange for you if he is not able to offer financial security and comfort. You can take care of yourself financially, and if you can't then focus on that before you worry about a man. So if a man isn't able to or has a big issue with acquiring and sharing abundance then
Why add a hardship to your life? It's not necessary.
There is no such thing as "the table", as a woman it is your damn table and if a man isn't adding anything besides dikk and compliments, then you need to evaluate your standards.
As a woman you are going to give, give, give, and give. If you have children then a lot of emotional and physical work is also going to fall upon you, and it doesn't matter how helpful he is around the house, it's simply NOT a beneficial exchange for you if he is not able to offer financial security and comfort. You can take care of yourself financially, and if you can't then focus on that before you worry about a man. So if a man isn't able to or has a big issue with acquiring and sharing abundance then
Why add a hardship to your life? It's not necessary.
I didn't move this back in here
VFib
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Add some red flags to the thread orSomeone will save me
Fred
Okay I'll leaveAdd some red flags to the thread or
Blue Boredom
the girl with the most cake
I just want to thank every person who’s posted something valuable in this thread.
I don’t have very much experience dating, but I met this guy a month ago and he’s shown A LOT of red flags.
Every time I try to distance myself from him, he starts sweet talking me and pulls me right back in.
I really like him but something feels off...
I might be overthinking it though.
I don’t have very much experience dating, but I met this guy a month ago and he’s shown A LOT of red flags.
Every time I try to distance myself from him, he starts sweet talking me and pulls me right back in.
I really like him but something feels off...
I might be overthinking it though.